I called a guy today that i am crazy about, do you think he was glad of the call or would he think i was pushy?
2006-09-23 12:58:32 · 35 answers · asked by ball_cathie 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont think you have anything to worry about. If he talked to you and he didnt slam the phone down your onto a winner. What did you talk about? Did you find something that interested him? I think that if the convo went on for more than 2 mins you have him where you want him.
2006-09-23 13:02:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That depends.
First, what's your relationship with that guy? Are you good friends? Acquintances? Coworkers? The closer you are with him, the more normal a phone call to him might be, though that's just a generalization.
Second, how often do you talk to him? If you called him yesterday and the day before, and the day before, then that's different than if you called him a month ago. The frequency of your calls - or any kind of interactions (hanging out, emailing, chatting, etc) - is a big part of determing whether or not you're being pushy. The tricky thing is, everyone has their own comfort level of frequency. Some guys may not want calls everyday. Others might. (Most guys don't though.)
Third, how did he sound on the phone? Did he sound annoyed? Tired? Glad to hear from you? If he sounded annoyed, that doesn't necessarily mean he was annoyed with you - something else could have put him in a bad mood.
Fourth, does he like you too? Of course, if you knew that answer, you probably wouldn't be asking this question. But here's why I ask it. If he likes you, then he would have been happy to hear from you. If he doesn't, then, well, the opposite.
Fifth, what did you guys talk about? If it was an uplifting and warm conversation, then he's bound to enjoy that more. If it was a negative topic (complaint about something, bad news, etc), then he probably won't enjoy that as much.
Or, if you want a short, easy answer - if he likes you, then he appreciated it. When you get a call from someone you like, you always like hearing from them. (Whether or not he likes you is a different question...)
Good luck!
2006-09-23 13:11:37 · answer #2 · answered by Mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the situation that you are both in together, you see if he is used to people calling all the time then he will be used to it and think nothing of it but would if he is after you without you knowing it.
2006-09-23 13:20:14 · answer #3 · answered by ooooh look @ me, lol 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him again and tell him you forgot to mention something, check the tone in his voice. He woulda loved it I bet. Alot of guys find Pushy Sexy as long as it doesn't go too far into the relationship, but it's cool at the start.
2006-09-23 13:02:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well it depends on the guy, i mean if any girl were just to call me b/c she was crazy about me, hey thats an A+ right there.
i dought the guy is going to be mad at you or not like you b/c you call him. And if he did, he not worth it.
Girls dont realise it but, girls have complete control on how a guy feels.
2006-09-23 13:03:03 · answer #5 · answered by Ron C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you called COLLECT he probably thinks you are more than pushy and now his Mom will require this of him outta his allowance.
2006-09-23 13:01:35 · answer #6 · answered by oatie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing because at least now things have been started. If he likes you he will be glad of it and if (lets hope not!) he doesn't at least you tried. Well done for being brave!
2006-09-23 13:05:21 · answer #7 · answered by lianhua 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was me Cat.......... I'd be glad.........
If he thinks Ur being pushy then he's insecure and maybe not the man Ur looking for
2006-09-23 13:37:17 · answer #8 · answered by martythepigpilot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him, that way you will know or if next time you call you get a message like this..."The telephone number you are trying to reach have being disconnect it " Hint... Hint... You know what it mean!
2006-09-23 13:04:42 · answer #9 · answered by Soyam I 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have 2 follow ur heart aslong as no 1 else gets hurt go 4 it
2006-09-23 18:25:29 · answer #10 · answered by ok_squire 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋