Family & Relationships - 22 September 2006

I had a discussion with my boyfriend about bachelor parties. He said that most guys have sex with strippers at their bachelor parties. Is this true do most strippers have sex if the price is right? Also he said... That he wouldn't go looking for it but if a stripper did proposition him on that night he would go for it. & that he cant predict what would happen and it depends on who plans the party for him!
I am serious about this guy we been together a very long time and I can see us getting engaged in the near future. Hes never cheated and I do trust that. Plus he hasn't been with as many girls as most guys have by the time they get married(we met young). But I can't be ok with it it bothers me. Strippers are dirty.Why do women have such different view on sex? How do I approach this when the time comes? Guys any suggestions?

2006-09-22 05:47:59 · 31 answers · asked by Thats Crazy! 1 in Singles & Dating

It's just all the little things that you didn't have to deal with when you have your own space, changes. You move in or have a lover move in with you and things are different. They expect more from you then they did before. Why is this?

2006-09-22 05:47:21 · 16 answers · asked by Tammy F 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-22 05:46:12 · 7 answers · asked by browntbath 2 in Singles & Dating

he wanted to get one after i found what i found on the phone(for those who know my question before this one), but i told him no, just to wait because i wasn't sure if i wanted to be with him, but now we have been talking about it, i just don't know what to do. i am not ready to get married right now for those that hace that answer, he know this. i want to, but not right now, i need to save more money for my extravaganza!!!

2006-09-22 05:45:08 · 14 answers · asked by *HOT*GHETTO*MESS* 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

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2006-09-22 05:43:09 · 11 answers · asked by cool nerd 1 in Friends

We are together for a year and a half and this month we started to live together.
The flat is empty so we have to buy or get everything. My boyfriend is very buzy, he works, he plays basket and futbool he has a special training of another activity. Beside that he also studies languages sooo, he has very little time to be with me, but before we used every free minute to be together. Now with the flat he spends these free minutes only with a flat, no time for us. no relax. Before I had a boyfriend and now I only have flat. And what's even worst is that he became very nervous ' cause he has a million things to do and doesn't know what to do first....how can I change this situation and get my boyfriend back?
P.S . I really appreciate what he does for the flat, I only want to spend feww minutes alone, thinking about nothing, relax. - and I told him exactly this!!! he didn't react

2006-09-22 05:41:51 · 8 answers · asked by Monika H 2 in Singles & Dating

and i feel bad cause i cant give her anything right now.except love.

2006-09-22 05:41:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My sister will be getting married in Feb. She will be moving into a small apartment complex (about 10 apts total).The problem is most are friends of hers (about 8 apts)and since she will be a newlywed,she doesn't want people coming over without calling or just dropping by because they live in the complex.So I would like to get her a door sign made.I have looked on the net and can't really find anything,so I will have to get one made.I want something cute,with a cute slogan(nothing freaky)these are all people who attend church with us.They are doing this the right way and have waited for marriage(you know what I mean)...
I need a way to word this TASTEFULLY so I can get a sign made...any ideas would be a huge help...thanks...

2006-09-22 05:41:13 · 18 answers · asked by crystal 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

That we all like to cheat, that is is in our blood, that our sperm balls twitch when we see other females with bigger honkers and younger faces, that in order for us to have steady heart and sense of fullfillment we must bang a lot of women cause thats what our daddies taught us. DUH! Let the boys be boys!

2006-09-22 05:41:10 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I meet this guy the other week, we had a great weekend we talked and fooled around we realy got to know one another i felt very close to him, we both agreed we would see each other when he leaves, he lives 4 hrs away, we exchanges numbers , addresses and had a sad good bye. later to find out he gave me the wrong # and address. i know where he works, and i'am pissed he did that! why would he do this? and should i call his work to tell him off?

2006-09-22 05:41:06 · 8 answers · asked by Lisa S 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-22 05:40:55 · 6 answers · asked by roy 4 in Singles & Dating

he listen to everything that i said to him and he is so caring and sweet!
How can i tell when my boyfriend really loves me?

2006-09-22 05:40:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-22 05:39:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-22 05:39:24 · 26 answers · asked by ash 2 in Singles & Dating

Let me explain a little more. My wedding is a country wedding (born and raised in the south) and the wedding itself is going to be very elegant, but the reception I want to be a full out party.....chicken wings, beer, dancin to the Stones and Allman Brothers and so on (I know, not very classy but it fits me and my fiance). But I'm worried about the awkwardness of my preacher being there and afraid I won't have as much fun because I'll be worried about being on my best behavior.....not that I'm going to get drunk or start dirty dancing, but you know what I mean.

2006-09-22 05:39:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Me and this guy we talked for I think 2 months then we just suddenly stopped....and I asked him if he was over me and he said yeah...but the thing is I still have feelings for him...how do I tell him this???

2006-09-22 05:38:50 · 10 answers · asked by Lil Bit 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-22 05:38:44 · 7 answers · asked by Danielle L 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-22 05:37:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why is it when you sometimes wake up a child they cry.

2006-09-22 05:37:37 · 8 answers · asked by melbow35 2 in Family

I was at our county fair last night when my daughter and I were sitting down just as an older couple walked by and she had dropped her cigarette case I picked it up and told her she just dropped it. Her and her husband was SO happy I was honest because she had $900.00 in it (why anyone would carry that much money with them to a fair is beyond me) they were so glad she wanted to give me $50.00 and I had to turn it donw I was just being nice, but she wanted to do something so I let her buy my daughter some cotton candy.

2006-09-22 05:36:30 · 12 answers · asked by melbow35 2 in Friends

Somebody once disclosed this to me, and I have been curious for years if I was right in my reaction. Somebody asked me last week what I would do in this situation if confronted again, so now I want to know how the consensus feels I should have reacted.

2006-09-22 05:36:16 · 19 answers · asked by bardsf 1 in Singles & Dating

I've subscribed to acestors.co.uk to start a family tree and seek out my ancestors, but the site isn't all that helpful and can be very hard to navigate at times. Anyone offer any tips or suggest another site to use?

2006-09-22 05:35:57 · 6 answers · asked by Andy L 1 in Family

Seahawksmd, Rolando, Tockers, etc. etc. Where are you and why aren't any of my "regulars" answering my questions?

Do I have bad breath?

2006-09-22 05:35:16 · 6 answers · asked by Melissa C 5 in Friends

Am I the only married woman who loves to give her husband a BJ? Who actually enjoys the taste? Am I the only woman who poses up for her husband when he masterbates? Whats the big deal? It dosent take so long and yet your not leaving him to do it alone when you "have a headache". From what I hear,seems like married women just arent into their husbands anymore. Im tired,too. I raise two toddlers all day but I still want my man like crazy!

2006-09-22 05:34:53 · 24 answers · asked by libidinous 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He just recently moved away (sept9'06) but I really need to talk to him about something. I'm thinking he's still trying to get situated, but I don't want too much time to pass, since I want to talk or be honest with him about something.
If I get his voice mail, what kind of message should I leave letting him know I have to talk to him about something, but not too much that I freak him out?

2006-09-22 05:34:42 · 22 answers · asked by feisty 2 in Singles & Dating

I know it can't be the same day if you want respect nor the next day, I want real men answers not little boys

2006-09-22 05:33:45 · 14 answers · asked by jkfranklin 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-22 05:33:30 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've known this girl for about 5 months and used to work with her. Over the last few days we've become really close and realised we both have feelings for each other. The only problem is she leaves in a few days for university. I know long distance relationships work sometimes if it is serious but can it work for a relationship just starting out?? What do you suggest I do?

2006-09-22 05:32:56 · 14 answers · asked by danyol 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-22 05:32:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-22 05:30:45 · 31 answers · asked by A.J 2 in Singles & Dating