I meet this guy the other week, we had a great weekend we talked and fooled around we realy got to know one another i felt very close to him, we both agreed we would see each other when he leaves, he lives 4 hrs away, we exchanges numbers , addresses and had a sad good bye. later to find out he gave me the wrong # and address. i know where he works, and i'am pissed he did that! why would he do this? and should i call his work to tell him off?
2006-09-22 05:41:06 · 8 answers · asked by Lisa S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lesson learned! Let this person out of your life for good. He's a very small part of the picture at the moment. What matters more is how you feel about yourself, and what you will do differently next time. It's tempting to think that confronting him will make you feel better, but you might leave that encounter feeling worse. Who needs that? I also think that he's been so good at tuning out his own conscience that anything your words, no matter how justified, will fall on deaf ears. I say, save the "conversation" for someone who's shown that they care about you and your relationship with them, someone more worthy of your time. This person has shown that he has little respect for you and for himself. That's enough information in favor of moving on and not sinking any more of your time or emotion into the matter. Forgive yourself if you're tempted to fall into too self-blame around what's happened (these things take two!), focus on things that will make your life better, and go forward all the wiser.
2006-09-22 05:45:25 · answer #1 · answered by semper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't call his work...don't give him the satisfaction of knowing that his actions have bothered you so much. Unfortunately, some men can be pigs and this is definitely a case of getting played. I guess I would question what "very close to him" means--how well can you get to know someone in a weekend? It sounds like you had fun with him, so leave it at that, but next time you meet someone don't be so eager to fool around. My mom always said "No man will buy the cow if he gets the milk for free." Silly cliche, but so true! Don't waste another minute on this idiot--I'm sure getting to know him more would've only revealed more immature behavior, you know?
2006-09-22 05:48:41 · answer #2 · answered by smarty25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a player.
But, if you enjoyed it, try to look at the upside.
You got laid, had fun and you arent stuck with a man that you already know is an *sshole!
Move on and next time you see him, give it right back to him.
as a matter of fact, if you see him again, act embarrased-like you would rather gnaw your arm off than let anyone know you banged him.
:-)
2006-09-22 05:45:16 · answer #3 · answered by cici 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u should not, look we some time see what we want to see maybe he did not feel u the way u was feeling him and took what he felt was the easy way out either way u just keep it moving so u can find the right man
2006-09-22 05:53:58 · answer #4 · answered by star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He played you. If he really wanted to see you later or even talk to you, he would've given you the correct information. Don't waste anymore of your time on such a loser. Leave it alone.
2006-09-22 05:45:25 · answer #5 · answered by T.G. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh you deffiently need to call his work and tell him off... and you should use a lot of angry curse words to show him you wern't messing around and also you should tell him how you feel and that shouldnt go around playing girls like that. i must say that is f-ed up
2006-09-22 06:34:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he did did that becuase he lives 4 hrs away he targeted you for easy poon, he has his own life back home.
2006-09-22 05:50:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's sending you a message. Tune in.
2006-09-22 05:43:40 · answer #8 · answered by Cary Grant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋