I know men are visually stimulated creatures. I am smart enough to know that I am not the only naked woman my husband wants to see for the rest of his life. I always promised myself that I wouldn't make a big deal out of porn as long as it didn't affect his intimacy with me. I recently discovered that my husband has been looking at porn A LOT, even going so far as to create a "secret" email account used to create identities to dating websites. When confronted, he said that he felt like we just don't see each other anymore (we typically have sex once a week at the least), and didn't want to bother me to wake me up when he was "in the mood" (I get up at 4am for work). He also claimed that some of the sites he visited were out of curiousity; what this and that celebrity looked like naked. I am trying not to make a big deal about this but can't shake the feeling that he is thinking about anyone but me when we are making love, and am hurt by the secrecy of the email. Am I stupid?
2006-09-18
11:33:25
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