I've been with this guy for almost 3 years and we used to be able to turn eachother on in the bedroom, but now since our 1 year old and my current pregnancy he has turned to masterbating rather than wanting to have sex with me, now should I worry or what? I know we love eachother but this is scaring me.
2006-09-18 11:39:30 · 7 answers · asked by jess_springfield_06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some men genuinely have difficulty seeing a woman as a sex partner and as a mother. They cannot get past the maternal side of your life to see the beautiful woman who needs love and attention. This is something that you need to have very frank conversations about or it will escalate.
The other alternative, rather harshly, is that he is shallow. This would mean that his attraction is only the outside you, not the inside you.
Lastly, you might want to let him know that many people think the best sex is pregnant sex for both parties. Hormones are running strong and everything is....more snug.
Good luck!
2006-09-18 11:45:56 · answer #1 · answered by Lost M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may jus b goin through some things rite now. Ur emotional and I know this hurts but to get off your chest is the best thing todo. If its bothering you that bad TALK to him. You do not get anywhere unless you ask
2006-09-18 11:43:50 · answer #2 · answered by Teee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk to him. He is probably just goin through stress and afraid that you might get pregant again. Maybe he can't handle the pressure of being a father.
2006-09-18 11:44:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is. he is probably scared of being a dad. whatever you do dontt hurt the baby. if he breaks up with you dont go killing the baby please. talk to him and say that you dont have to worry. that you and him are together in this.
2006-09-18 11:45:58 · answer #4 · answered by Carol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask. don't just like you know jump at him but ask him why if it because of the child or what
2006-09-18 11:45:23 · answer #5 · answered by IRock Haha u Don't 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry .its okay.may be he just dont wanna hurt u physically.
2006-09-18 11:43:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication. ask .
2006-09-18 11:42:44 · answer #7 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋