It is wrong to ask a girl for a date if she is drunk?

Question

If I see a girl that I like at a party, it is wrong to try to talk to her if she is drunk?

Answer 1

it's not necessarily "wrong" in the way i think you mean. it's just that when she's drunk she's not exactly capable of clear thinking and so she might say yes to you and not mean it or say no and not mean it. essentially it can seem like you are taking advantage of her impaired state and that's just not fair and could be considered wrong as well. if you really want to go on a date with this girl you have to respect her and allow her to be completely clear headed when you ask her.
now talking to her is a little bit of a different story. but just keep in mind she isn't all there and may say things that she doesn't mean or whatnot. again, if you like her you are going to want an honest answer from her and a clear ability to get to know her better.

Answer 2

1. Women that are always drunk at parties — Big Red Flag!

2. Don't go there. She's on her way to a life long habit, that doesn't involve you.

3. The most desireable women to date are moderate. Someone who is speaking unintelligible because of alcohol, or drugs, is not capable of making rational decisions, and doesn't want to take responsibility for her actions, because she's drunk.

4. Be moderate and socialize with sober women. People lie when they drink and never measure up to the picture they paint of themselves while drunk.

Good luck and warm regards.

Answer 3

It's not wrong to try and talk to her, but if you take it any further than that it's taking advantage of the situation. Her mind isn't in the right place when intoxicated, so just take it easy or something could go wrong.

Answer 4

You should not only ask her for a date while she's drunk, you should have the "date" before she sobers up. If you've got a tranquilizer to give her too, that will add to your options.

Answer 5

is not wrong to talk to her .. but would be wrong to get her to go out with you on a date .. cause she is not clearly thinking .. besides if she is drunk who is to say she would not forget the very next morning

Answer 6

You can talk to her but she probably won't remember you all that well. So when you get her number, call her with that assumption. Keep it light, like, "Hey, it's (Scott) from the party at (Mike's). You probably don't remember me but I was the one who caught your spew and held it like a bowl of soup as I escorted you to the porcelin temple. You wanna get up for something a little more edible?" That'll work.

Answer 7

I'd say asking for a date is pretty timid. Maybe you just wanna get her name though, facebook her, and maybe get her number, so you can talk to her later. But asking for a date should be fair game, just don't take advantage of her.

Answer 8

Well, you realize you are dealing with a dual personality there, don't you? We are nothing like we are in real life when we are loaded. Our inhibitions are no longer standing in our way after a few drinks. So, as long as you keep that in mind, its your call. You know how the "black widow spider" is so receptive to the male spider, that if he doesn't please her, she kills him, right? You are in the same territory. But what the heck, we only live once, right!? LOL

Answer 9

Asking for a BJ when she's drunk is probably pushing things a bit.

But asking for a date shouldn't be too bad - she can always stand you up.

Answer 10

No there is nothing wrong with that as long as you arent trying to make a move on her and get her alone or anything. Harmless conversation is fine.