my boyfriend is a great guy who would nvr cheat and would nvr do anything to hurt me. he has nvr ditched me to be with the guys. and he always tells me whats going on. (emotionally) but theres this chick who keeps buggin us! she makes it seem like im this horrid person! obviosly she likes him! but i dont know what to do about her! i know i shouldnt worry because Drake is just GREAT! but still......
thanx
cara
2006-09-18 11:45:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi first things first.
I know that you think your boyfriend is a saint and would never cheat on you but keep in mind men are men no matter how good they seem to be. If this young lady is harassing you both, he must of told her something negative about your relationship that you don't know about. He must be seeing her on the side and don't know how to tell her that he loves you and don't want to hurt you. But she is not trying hearing that. She is letting you know that there is something going on between them and he doesn't know how to tell you. So she is telling you the best way she knows how. Question him, see for yourself then decide. It's going to be a hard task for you especially because you trust him very much that you can't see beyond the light. Best wishes and if you find out something that you can't handle find a good friend, I mean a friend that will comfort you and listen to you no matter what time of night or day it is.
2006-09-18 12:04:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cara, Drake needs to tell her that he has a girlfriend and isn't interested in persuing any type of friendship with her. It can ONLY come from him. Once it does.. and he is clear about it... then it should stop. YOU can only be seen as the "b----". He is the one that needs to do this. If he won't.. then you need to decide why he won't - is he keeping her around in case you leave? again.. somethning to discuss...
2006-09-18 11:52:18 · answer #2 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her the truth she looks like a goffy lost soul hanging around and being so negative about you and that the only who belves her storys and thats what they r is her so go home and enjoy your self a goood story
2006-09-18 11:50:42 · answer #3 · answered by Msdeb gee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two should just ignore her. Two people that are together are much stronger than some stupid person without life. She really shouldn't affact you.
2006-09-18 11:52:29 · answer #4 · answered by cityexplorer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
slap the *****....hard. then tell drake to slap her too so she gets the message. she won't stop til he tells her to. btw, was joking about the slapping. wouldn't really advise that.
2006-09-18 11:48:30 · answer #5 · answered by the greg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her to quit hating on you because you have a man and she doesn't.
2006-09-18 11:48:14 · answer #6 · answered by Medical and Business Information 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never
2006-09-18 11:49:23 · answer #7 · answered by lizella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋