Im a 24 year old virgin very much cometed to it to...although i have been dating thsi guy for three years and he proposed to me yestersay...he called me today and invited me for "dinner" I have never been to his house before. Guys is this a sign he want to have sex?if it is should i?what will it feel like?
2006-09-18 11:36:07 · 43 answers · asked by latinchica279 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are waiting for marriage and you made it this long - HOLD OUT for goodness sake! If being engaged is enough, then go for it. Somebody should have told you sooner, sex feels good!
2006-09-18 11:37:59 · answer #1 · answered by Tulsa Boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's really nothing wrong about being a virgin. I personally think that it's more attractive, co'z it only means that you are not just an ordinary guy and that you are careful and picky. Maybe girls and dating are not your priorities right now. I guess you just haven't really found the right girl that you are really attracted to physically and emotionally. I also think that you view sex in a different way. And there are other factors, like the way you were brought up. Maybe you came from a conservative family and sex topics are not allowed to be discussed. But if you think there's more beyond that I guess you should go see a doctor co'z they know better. Well I guess that's all I have to say. Take care!
2016-03-27 08:06:37 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wanted to have sex with you for the last three years. The fact that this will be the first time at his house seemes a little weird... Now I think that this fella can wait until after the wedding if it is that important to you.. But if you are reaDY, GO FOR IT, MAKING LOVE IS A BEAUTIFUL THING, that feels beautiful. Now the first time may be a bit uncomfortable at first, depending on his size and if your hymen is still intact.... go slow and use alot of lubricant..KY-Jelly makes a silk version that feels just great.. Make sure you tell him and show him what and where it feels good, It is always a good Idea and a fun game to watch eachother masturbate so you can see what they like.. Have him perform oral sex on you, but make sure he is not to anxious.. again tell him what and how and where to lick and suck.. Have fun and if ya would like to let me know how thing went, then I would love to hear from you.. Just click my pic for an e-mail.. P,S. Good luck being married.... May trust and lack of Jealousy give you many happy years..
2006-09-18 11:37:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How have you dated a guy for three years and never been to his house? If he's dated you for three years without sex and has been understanding than this shouldn't be any different. Sex is great, but the first time will hurt.
2006-09-18 11:38:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is clearly a bogus question as what was going on for three years if this is the first time the thought of having sex has come up. And if you are committed to being a virgin, why would you casually ask a group of strangers if you should screw the guy as long as he's asking.
What will it feel like? In your case, probably like forcing a stick up your asse.
2006-09-18 11:43:32 · answer #5 · answered by Grist 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stick to what you believe. If the guy is worth marrying then he should respect your wishes concerning your body. If he can't do that then he isn't worth marrying because you will just have lots of problems later on.
Inviting you over to his house doesn't necessarily mean he wants sex. Could just mean he wants you to get to know him more by seeing where he lives. You know him better than anyone on this board does though. I do find it odd however that in three years you have not been to his house.
As for your last question, sex when you are comfortable with it is wonderful.
2006-09-18 11:41:33 · answer #6 · answered by annika_grace 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you should not sleep with him! You've come this far, you have the ring, why don't you wait for the wedding?
If you've decided to wait this long, why ask our opinion on whether you should sleep withi him now? If you want to, go ahead, if you don't,...well, then don't!
And no, it's not a sign he wants to have sex. It's a sign that he wants to show you his place since you are now his fiancee. I'm surprised you've never seen where he lives before (odd).
But have a great dinner and congrats on the proposal.
2006-09-18 11:38:24 · answer #7 · answered by ♪ ♥ ♪ ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't know him after three years of being together, then your relationship is a shambles. Sorry! You should know him and his motives and expectations enough by now.
By the way, start having sex and lots of it. If you're saving yourself for marriage, I have a news flash: you will be sorry you didn't have as much sex as possible when you were younger. Variety is the spice of life!
2006-09-18 11:39:03 · answer #8 · answered by nido_tr3s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow!!! You rock! Keep your will power going strong! If your fiancee, because thats what he is now, truly loves you he'll respect your choice to wait. If you waited this long especially now-in days it's not worth giving in just quite yet. Besides hopefully he'll mention it'll be a lot more romantic to wait for your wedding night. Wed in pure white :) Good Luck.
2006-09-18 11:42:45 · answer #9 · answered by pezzle9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i first want to commend you on a job well done.and to say that if he has waited 3 yrs already then its best to wait until the wedding night that way you will know he didnt propose just to get sex.wait until your wedding night im sure that was your plan when you decided to stay a virgin until now anyway thats something precious to you so make it special and go ahead and wait.but if you do decide to do it be safe.if you huys are really in love it will be great good CONGRADULATIONS
2006-09-18 11:40:49 · answer #10 · answered by ladyrena12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋