Family & Relationships - 16 September 2006

I told her a bad word, should I deny it or actually admit i said it and face the consequences when she brings a delegate to me?

2006-09-16 14:48:23 · 13 answers · asked by Trying to help 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

In my opinion this generation of women are so awful towards each other. In schools, church, at work, friends, family, and even strangers spread lies about other women. Some women are jealous. Some do this to get the attention of other men. Some women do this for no reason at all. I think about all of the women that I have been genuine friends with and that can always count on me til this day but I can't recall one sister who has that has been a true friend to me. This even includes blood relatives! What that hell has gotten into women today? Nowadays men have joined the club. This is not part of being an adult. I can say that I have not done any of this to others. So adults answer me this: What the hell is going on? Why is this so funny or acceptable in society? Why are others so gullible and believe the nonsense rumors? Have we lost our minds?

2006-09-16 14:48:15 · 13 answers · asked by prettybrowneyes. 2 in Friends

This girl and me were really close, we would stay up till 12 in the mornin talkin sometime, now that mite not be alot, but it is for her, she is homeschooled, I go to public school. Well I asked her to the movies, and she said Idk maybe , and REALLy backed off, she seemed nervous around me, I thought she just didnt wanna hurt my feelings, but she told her friends, she just wants to see if I can stick with her. Well we got further and further apart, until I couldnt stand it anymore and I emailed her, spilled my guts, and asked her to be brutally honest on how she fealt about me, heres what she said

well first of all, I don't hate you. second, I haven't been avoiding you either becuase its not been just swimming that I've been busy with its been life.I also haven't been beating around the bush because you never asked me if I did or not. But I haven't ever thought of being more than friends with you because we've always been good friends and I think thats how things should stay.I just don't want to ruin a friendship.hope you've had a good day, and i will talk to you later

Now, When I read that two things come to mind. One, that she is just trying to be nice. But on the other hand, she is just scared, because she has never had a bf b4, and weve been friends since age 7.

But now she seems more comfortable around me, like now she talks more, and seems more comfortable, but then she'll seem like she wants me, I can tell by the way she looks, and the way she acts, she just seems really sad, and down,

Oh yeah, and she told her mom , that she is just really really scared, and that she does like me, but she told her friends she just dont want to hurt my feelings, now her and her mom are really close, but so are her and her friends, Do you think she likes me, or is just letting me down easy?

And I am respecting her wishes, I emailed her and told her that I respect her decision, and we havent talked about it since.

But I really really do care for her, I wake up and she's the first thing I think about, I go to sleep and Fall asleep thinking about her. I mean I know I'm only 15, but I really do love her, and would do anything in this world to be with her. I've tried moving on, I've been trying to do that, but I just can't. Even though I am am guy, yes I have cried numerous time for her, and about her. I mean, I'm not ugly, I'm fit, and I'm not a big geek or anything, so what gives? I really do love her, what should I do?

2006-09-16 14:47:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I keep thinking about finally meeting a person I have only been chatting with for almost 2 mos. We meet at a beautiful location and only recognize each other by a feeling, without words. We just take in the scenery and each other in silence.
Then, we part with a kiss, silently and never speak to each other again.
Would you consider this a fantasy?

2006-09-16 14:47:03 · 6 answers · asked by skept1c 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

there is a guy at my school that is always hanging around me and he is my realy good friend and also my crush. he always tells people that he doesnt like me but he always puts his arm around me when im walking down the hall and always invites me to his house. what should i do about him!!!!!!!

2006-09-16 14:46:09 · 8 answers · asked by !♥*$ Bre $*♥! 2 in Singles & Dating

Did you like it?

2006-09-16 14:45:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

gals, what if anything about your body, would you Really want to change and why, its really, like if your breast are to small how do you think a guy feels when hes checking you out, next question do you prefer panties or thongs and why? and last if you wanted to ask a guy only one thing about your body, what part would you ask him looks best about you? thank you

2006-09-16 14:45:26 · 17 answers · asked by rpoker 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Just asking !

2006-09-16 14:45:06 · 27 answers · asked by soundlady 5 in Singles & Dating

What is the biggest lie you told a man? The best lie wins the best answer vote :)

2006-09-16 14:44:22 · 1 answers · asked by Think about it 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-16 14:44:14 · 2 answers · asked by joyfish 2 in Singles & Dating

Here's the situation. I have a friend who is married to a woman overseas. After marriage, he returned to the USA and started the visa policy and then started cheating on her with another woman. He moved the new woman in his home with her children, slept in the same bed. The woman eventually left him, moved out and took her kids, obviously. Now, even though he is married, he is cheating on his wife AGAIN with this woman, and put in a reversal to the visa process without telling his wife. She found out when she called the embassy for an update.

She is devastated and thinks that she has done something wrong for him to marry her, take her virginity, then come back home to the US and start mistreating her (Which she assumed was because he was in school and under a lot of stress)... then stop the visa proceedings.

Would you tell the wife about the other woman? It pains me to see her so hurt and blaming herself for what his jerk did to her.

Do you think telling her would HELP?

2006-09-16 14:42:16 · 20 answers · asked by Tree777 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my fiance of 7 months just left me for another girl. I am 16 I know there is plenty of time to find some one else, but i love him. What makes it worse is we lost our virginities to each other I don't know what to. He came over the other day and we ended up making love, even though he is going out with the other girl (I know it was wrong.) Please give me some advice.

2006-09-16 14:42:16 · 15 answers · asked by Krazie 2 in Singles & Dating

Believe it or not dudes but the way 2 her heart is not diamonds or chocolate. Diamonds get old and chocolate melts but sumthings dont change. Im 17 and i realized that 1 rose can mean as much as 1000 becuz thats the 1 luv u feel 4 her. A simple i luv u can go just as far as a kiss. Dont just say she looks beautiful when she gets dressed up, tell her she looks beautiful when shes just wearin a plain t shirt and wearin a ponytail. 1 main thing u can do is just spendin time with her just being with her. When u talk 2 her just look in her eyes no where else and when she asks wut? just say nothin and she'll smile and feel great. All of these worked 4 me but tha trick is not playin them off rite its really meaning them when u try em. i no a couple of u gurls looked at this, dont just read and leave tell us dudes if they would work. if u dont like the tips then just type sumthin nice and get ur points.

2006-09-16 14:42:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Am I the only guy that finds that its easy to say something to someone you love on the telephone or online, and have it taken up wrong? Is there anyone out there in a perfect long distance relationship? I'd love to hear what you have to say about keeping everything together.

2006-09-16 14:40:44 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She's in my class and she's really cute. She's usually quiet. How could I talk to her without scaring her?

2006-09-16 14:40:40 · 9 answers · asked by Steven 1 in Singles & Dating

Why would a guy u are dating say/do things to make you jealous of another woman?

2006-09-16 14:40:36 · 7 answers · asked by Amber 2 in Singles & Dating

Hes throughing up blood,and were thinkhe has acid reflucks,but he wont stop drinking.we have two small children.

2006-09-16 14:40:18 · 36 answers · asked by Angela J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

in non verbal terms (i.e. actions, etc).

2006-09-16 14:39:28 · 17 answers · asked by lady_reed_03 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I had an affair and things just arent getting better with me and my husband so we have separated but all i do is think about him i made a bad mistake but he cant forgive me what can i do hes all i think about?

2006-09-16 14:39:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-16 14:39:12 · 10 answers · asked by intelligentshyunique 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok I'm 14 years old and I've nevr had a a boyfriend (no big deal i know) but why do i appeal to older guys? they're always hitting on me and it's just gotten gross. If i appeal to older? why not my own age? Should I be a certain way? It's silly I know but it's just finnaly gotten to me. 30 is way to old for 14

2006-09-16 14:38:28 · 18 answers · asked by Ash 1 in Singles & Dating

Without sounding stupid, or like you don't love them?

2006-09-16 14:38:10 · 23 answers · asked by juifsrus 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend acts like a jerk about my other friends. I'm in 9th grade and I popular. My friend is not popular she kind of a geek but She my BF. my other popularr friends get jealous (sp?) when i hang out with my "geekish" friend the get mad and tell me that i should not hangout with geeks!! I need your help fast!! please dont put stuff like dont call your friend a geek!!

2006-09-16 14:37:17 · 20 answers · asked by ~green day lover~ 3 in Friends

Well hes in 11th grade im in 9th and we are both in the Marching Band....AND His best friend is going out with my best firend thats how i kno him and like we act liek a couple like we flirt,sit next to each other everything a couple would do But im always doing the calling and saying HI first and everything and he acts like i dont exest

2006-09-16 14:36:52 · 5 answers · asked by Jaynae C 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

for grown men that is.

2006-09-16 14:36:18 · 41 answers · asked by naba 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-16 14:35:33 · 7 answers · asked by julean33 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-16 14:34:54 · 16 answers · asked by punk_skull 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-16 14:33:58 · 16 answers · asked by steve b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

For women: If an alpha male approached you, would have enough strength to resist this temptation.

For Men: If a hot model approached you.

Just curious

2006-09-16 14:29:34 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For dating or marriage?

2006-09-16 14:28:45 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating