my fiance of 7 months just left me for another girl. I am 16 I know there is plenty of time to find some one else, but i love him. What makes it worse is we lost our virginities to each other I don't know what to. He came over the other day and we ended up making love, even though he is going out with the other girl (I know it was wrong.) Please give me some advice.
2006-09-16 14:42:16 · 15 answers · asked by Krazie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok instead of saying "You're too young" here's the deal. He's obviously a creep! If he first, is going to make promises then leave, second, will be dating someone and still have sex with you, and third throw your emotions around like that, GET OUT OF THERE! cut off all communication. i know it's hard hun I had a similar problem and I wasted 2 1/2 years of my life on my first. It's hard to rip yourself away from someone you gave so much to. If you need support please e-mail me. I'm 18 and have had my run arounds with guys promising to marry me. luckily I've found one that's true. there's hope! There are other fish in the sea! feel better! DO NOT SEE OR TALK TO HIM!! IT'LL MAKE IT TEN TIMES HARDER! feel better sweetie
2006-09-16 14:48:53 · answer #1 · answered by Future Mrs. Beuerlein 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love at 16 is so intense. You will both go on to find other loves. You didn't make any mistakes. You are both human with feelings and needs. Try to focus on school, your friends and families. You sound pretty level headed. 16 is really too young to be engaged (you won't want to hear this, but it is true). Whatever you do, protect yourself when having sex. Find an adult you trust and can talk to. Take care.
2006-09-16 14:49:56 · answer #2 · answered by SlapHappy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, this is just sum advice. I know it is your life and ur going to live it the way you choose, but ur only sixteen. You have sooooo much more time to think about settling down and getting married. You need to think about the things you want to do when you're a little bit older(like 18) before you consider settling down w/ sum1. I mean, if you're going to college(if you choose to) then how r you gunna have ne fun finding any new people and having the time of your life if you're tied down to some guy? And for the thing w/ him leaving you, he's a jerk for that. If he hurt you, he doesn't deserve you and you need to move on and find someone better and more mature then him. idk, i hope you get the best of this situation and that everything works out for you. Good luck!
2006-09-16 14:52:32 · answer #3 · answered by sweetthang93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres never a good reason or excuse for cheating. Not only did he cheat on you but after he kissed and slept with the other girl he had sex...not making love...had sex with you. very careless of him. ever here of std's? aids, herpes, unwanted pregnancies. it would have abeen a nice story but he messed it up. u have to move on, he doesnt love or care about u enough to try to get him back, he did it once he'll do it again. it sux but u'll be ok. and u have to cut him off completly at least for a few months. dont try to be friends, dont email or text even if its just to see how he is doing, no im's. be angry. u can find someone better.
2006-09-16 14:53:22 · answer #4 · answered by ratd0g_11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT!!???
Number 1: WHOA!! you're 16,----......Number 2, you keep thinking about SEX, which has NOthing to do with Love.
SO WHAT---if you lost your virginity to him---That doesnt make him the perfect man for you.
GET RID OF HIM---Why?---because, he's going out with another girl, had sex with you, -----AND if you both got back together, then HE WOULD DO THE SAME TO YOU
2006-09-16 14:48:45 · answer #5 · answered by What gives? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The absolute best thing you can do to retain your dignity and be a strong woman is to move on. He LOST you. Hold your head up, let him know in no uncertain terms that you are no longer available to him, and go get yourself a real man who will treat you as well as you deserve.
2006-09-16 14:49:23 · answer #6 · answered by Jess H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
16?! that is way too young to have a fiance! are you nuts? you should tell the other girl that he's still sleeping with you and you should both cut him off completely.
2006-09-16 14:45:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't quite see it now, but there will be so much more life and love for you. It's okay to slip once, but the sooner you move on, and develop your interests and passions, the better for you. Good luck.
2006-09-16 14:46:50 · answer #8 · answered by joyfish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
2006-09-16 14:45:29 · answer #9 · answered by foonie36 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you only 16, you have lot of time to get another one
2006-09-16 14:46:38 · answer #10 · answered by kingfo_2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋