He holds a job as a school administrator (30yrs now), so during his time off (summers, weekends) he stays out until 2-4am. We are separated for 6 wks, married 6 years. According to information I have gathered, I enabled his behavior, as did his family (mother, cousins, etc.) but it came to a breaking point where I couldn’t stand his actions anymore. Many things improved after he left(verbal abuse, cursing, coldness, loud snoring because of the alcohol). But I have started to get lonely on the weekends and wonder why he won’t call. I know better in my HEAD, but I hate the fact that my marriage is about to end.
Someone told me a possible reason he won’t call is that I won’t enable him anymore. I know he’s drinking and seeking out other friendships. We could have had a great marriage & I'm sad. My question? Opinions about why he won’t call and could it be that because I won’t enable him, he is looking for someone who will? We're 54, so the foolishness should have stopped long before no
2006-09-12
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