but i think he is to insecure to pop the question. What can I do to make him feel more comfortable and know that no matter how he does it, I will say yes?
2006-09-12 04:23:08 · 15 answers · asked by -*~KrissyJo~*- 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should hint I to him. Maybe talk about marriage and possible future together, having kids. Maybe he will get the hint if the topic keeps being brought up.
2006-09-12 04:25:20 · answer #1 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, I don't necessarily believe HE'S ready yet. If he was, he would have proposed to you already. What you should do is have a serious talk with him about what you are hoping as far as having a future with him in the picture. Tell him to think seriously about what he wants because you are DEFINITELY interested in marriage, not playing silly games. This will be a very sobering thought for him to contemplate, and he will have to make a firm decision one way or the other. If he decides to marry you AFTER CAREFUL CONSIDERATION OF ALL THAT WILL BE INVOLVED, then he will have made a responsible decision. If however, he decides he isn't ready, then let him know it's nothing personal but you are hoping to get married and if he isn't right now then you two should part ways.
2006-09-12 11:30:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the time is right, it will happen. Marriage is definitely something you DON'T want to rush into. If you love one another, it shouldn't matter whether or not you have rings on your fingers or papers saying you own one another. If things are going smoothly right now, enjoy each other for what it is. You two are in love and both would like to get married, God will tell you when the time comes to tie the knot. Ask for a sign to ensure your decision is the right one regarding each other. Whatever you do, don't rush him to get married cause it may push him away eventually...Good luck and congrats ahead of time...
2006-09-12 11:38:58 · answer #3 · answered by Shining Ray of Light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG is this not the year 2006??? Why is it, at one time it was chivalrous to hold a door open for a woman, pick up the check for dinner and other such things that have changed since womens lib and sexual equality and all that but it is still expected for the man to pop the question????why don't you just ask him??
If you are both as ready as you believe you are it shouldn'tbe a problem.
2006-09-12 11:27:23 · answer #4 · answered by l00kstwice 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What makes you believe he is ready? Believe me ... if he was ready, secure or insecure, he would ask. He may shake like a leaf in a wind storm .... but he would ask.
Just because you are ready to yes does not mean he's ready to ask.
Give him a little breathing space, don't pressure him and when he's ready he will ask.
2006-09-12 11:27:51 · answer #5 · answered by cdnponygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marriage is a big commitment think about the future. the both of you don't have to rush into this,but maybe he's nervous and doesn't know how to pop the big ? or he is planning something special for you. REMEMBER THA PATIENCE IS A VIRTUE. HE WILL DO IT WHEN THE TIME IS RIGHT.
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-12 11:28:01 · answer #6 · answered by JUICY T. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are being too impatient. How can you possibly know that your boyfriend wants to get married if you think he can't know that YOU want to get married?
Perhaps instead of pining away you should actually discuss your plans for the future together.
2006-09-12 11:25:27 · answer #7 · answered by QuestionWyrm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should be comfortable by now with u
perhaps u dont really know each other.
just allow each person to be themselves without pressures
but be honest and that will help ur relationship.
2006-09-12 11:27:21 · answer #8 · answered by lifejourney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing that u can do that will make him pop the ???
Let him do this in his own time---he must be ready as well
if he is not ready now---maybe try living together
2006-09-12 11:27:18 · answer #9 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it, let him know, and find out if he really is insecure. Communication is always key.
2006-09-12 11:26:33 · answer #10 · answered by BOOM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋