Family & Relationships - 8 September 2006

I'm 20 years old and have had a few boyfriends, but not really. I've never had sex because I want to save myself for a guy that won't leave me if I end of being pregnant because of it. I don't like any of the guys around here and want to sort of go around and find a guy that's more interested in the type of job I like so that we can talk and stuff. I get made fun of a lot because I'm like the only virgin in the town (besides people 13 and under of course) am I a loser? Or are my standards justified?

2006-09-08 16:22:55 · 37 answers · asked by winds_of_justice 4 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating this guy for a long time, but its a really long distance relationship...cause well hes in engnland now and im here in canada...well at work theres this new guy..and hes kinda cute..we have been talking alot..and he says he kinda likes me, and i think i kinda like him..well...we kissed a few times, and i feel kinda bad about it..but then it was good to actually kiss somone and well actually do it and not just say it..I should tell my boyfriend that i kissed this guy and i think i kinda like him. but i just dont know how to tell him..HOW DO I TELL HIM?!?!

2006-09-08 16:22:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Do any other people have this problem? You share everything with your spouse for years and years, things that interest you. Then you realize you are talking to a wall, and you dont really know anything that he is interested in because he doesnt seem to have any interests. Yet he says he loves you, of course he does, he conveniently knows everything about you. How can a woman actually love a man who doesnt have any interests or share anything with her?

2006-09-08 16:22:34 · 7 answers · asked by *zz 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my friend has been dating this girl for a while now they really care about each other and he asked me when should he tell her that he loves her. Unfortunetly I didn't have a clue so how long into a realtionship is a good time?

2006-09-08 16:22:19 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what should i say to start a conversation, should we hold hands the whole way, i am 13 she is 14 so nothing sexual to talk about lol just takin any ideas.

2006-09-08 16:22:19 · 16 answers · asked by Curtis W 1 in Singles & Dating

I have never told this to any of my friends becuz I thought that they would freak out and say I was nasty or something. I mean we didnt actually have sex because we had our clothing on. It was more of dry humpin. But it felt like the real thing. Is wrong? Am i nasty for doin that?

2006-09-08 16:20:26 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i really like this guy and i think he likes me...or @ least my other friends think so but who knows. anyway, i really wanna go out wit him but whenever im around hott guys i suddenly have nothing 2 talk about and i seem so boring ( or @ least i think ) what kind of stuff do u talk about? and what kinda stuff should i talk about online wit him. everyone always says just me urself but i suddenly start acting like this totally different person & i cant be myself i mean i wanna be but i seriuosly cant be myself and i dont kno what to say! please HELP

2006-09-08 16:20:07 · 14 answers · asked by paris&&niclole 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend & I are having this discussion...we live in California. I need some input. Thanx!

2006-09-08 16:20:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I long for alittle romance like candlelight dinner or a night getaway, you see we have 3 kids and it seems like we never have just one night for our seleves and when we do it seems like my husband doesnt have a clue when it comes to romance

2006-09-08 16:19:44 · 18 answers · asked by scorpioredk 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I know some men out there have a very special 1 lady in their life. what do you think of them? What do you tell your boys about them?

2006-09-08 16:18:51 · 6 answers · asked by Leosr1 2 in Singles & Dating

Guys, answer three questions:

1. How old are you?
2. If you want to be married, what age do you think you want to be married at?
3. If you want kids, what age would you like to start having kids?

THANKS

2006-09-08 16:18:27 · 11 answers · asked by Allie 1 in Singles & Dating

ok i broke up with my boyfriend a couple of weeks a go and im very lonely i need help to find a boyfriend at my school any sugg.........?????/

2006-09-08 16:18:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-08 16:18:18 · 34 answers · asked by droop-e 2 in Marriage & Divorce

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2006-09-08 16:17:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Flirt??

Okay here's the sitatiuon:
My Best friend likes this guy, and he's in one of my classes, and sometimes I talk to him... Like today I went up to him, and just started talking to me and going for a walk with him....

Then I got back to my friends, and they were like, "You're such a flirt"!
I told them I didn't think I was, but I do talk to guys and hang out with them alot, and just talk (deep convos, ya know?)
That's just something I do, but does that make me a flirt???
I can talk to any guy, usually even one I like, but the guy that I really wanna talk to, I can't, so I can't be that much of a flirt right??

2006-09-08 16:16:51 · 17 answers · asked by Kitsch Nouveau; 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

everyone says i am a lezbo but i am not

how do i get it to stop???

the "popular" girls (nvm forget all this bs) all the "popular" b**chs r afraid of me cuz they all think i am a lezbo cuz i am a 8th grader who has never had a b/f and only has like 3 friends tht are guys wut do i do

i am not a lezbo i like guys especially rele hott ones

wut should i do the have trashed my rep

2006-09-08 16:16:26 · 5 answers · asked by Target 1 in Singles & Dating

A family member of mine died recently. I didn't really spend a lot of time with him but when I did see him, he was always nice to me. When I first heard he died, sure I was sad, but I wasn't really crying. Today, they had a visitation at the funeral home. All at once, I just broke down crying. Since earlier today, all I've been thinking about is, "What's the point in living. You're born and then you die. Life just seems to suck." I also just keeping worrying how I'm going to deal with this whole death thing when my grandpa dies because he's getting really old and probably won't live very long. I'm very close with my grandpa, and when he dies, I'll probably cry for like a month. I'm just feeling hopeless and I just don't know what to do or think anymore. I don't want to go to the funeral tomorrow, but I know I should go to be there for my other family members. I've been to funerals before, but I was too young to realize what was happening. All I can do is cry. Please help.

2006-09-08 16:15:32 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-09-08 16:15:02 · 27 answers · asked by bunjibear 2 in Singles & Dating

Pros:
Tells me he loves me
Talks to me everyday at school
When a guy stole something from me, he got it back for me
Told me I'm a great person to be with
Gets proud of me when I do something well
Told me I look great
Smiles at me every morning
Asks me what I do over the weekend
Talks about me a lot to his friends about how much he likes me
Told me I'm his 1st priority

Cons:
Doesn't say hi in the hallway and we don't even have any classes together
Ignores me w/ his friends-about 90% of the convo is between them, and he only includes me when there's a lull
Doesn't compliment me a lot
We don't touch eachother
Doesn't call me
Blocked me on AIM, my friend told him I knew that he did, and he denied it to me the next day and said he got my s/n mixed up with someone elses.
Told a guy he thinks he's hot
He's a bit bossy
Told a girl she has nice boobs
I feel like he wants to be w/ me just to say he has a gf
We only went on 1 date and it's been 5 months since we got togeth

2006-09-08 16:14:55 · 11 answers · asked by +♪♫ rip my jeans.not my ♥ ♫♪+ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

But just a little smooch - they say you never forget your first time and this is my very first question .

Kissing,,,,

My question: if someone didnt kiss on the first date, but obviously liked you and you both enjoyed the date, would you want a second date?

Guy and girl opinions both welcome.

2006-09-08 16:14:38 · 18 answers · asked by Brooke2009 1 in Singles & Dating

Where can i find the lubricant and whats the name of it? Most likely ill buy the lubricant at CVS pharmacy, so what would be the best typical lubricant to use?

2006-09-08 16:14:25 · 13 answers · asked by ChanteC 2 in Singles & Dating

i have known her for about 2 years. but not very well. every time she see's me in the hall she says hi then my name and waves.

2006-09-08 16:14:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'll be divorced in about four months and I'm getting out of the military in about 14 months. My wife and I are from the same hometown in GA . I thought about moving back there when I get discharged. Not to my hometown. I was thinking of Atlanta. But I know that I'll be about six hours away from my son. My wife has no intention of ever moving back. Her family has moved to NC for job reasons and her best friend spilled the beans about her affair which took place in our hometown while I was away at some training. I got some job offers with some businesses in the Atlanta area, but at the same time I would like to live closer to my son. I grew up in a single parent family and I know what it's like to not have my father around. But at the same time I feel like I need to get away from her in order to start over. I know I have a while to think about this. Any divorced parents out there who live far away from their kid(s)? If so, what's it like? I just wanted some opinions?

2006-09-08 16:13:41 · 7 answers · asked by Thomas K 3 in Marriage & Divorce

It's been months since I first met this guy. We meet almost in monthly in gruop in which I am active and helpful- he appreciates that a lot and I know.
he is nice, cool lovely, encourages me and recently mentioned his interest in getting into project with me and some other guy.

He has told me nothng directly, he never mentioned about his private life to me, he replies to all my business mails, but he never innitiates any. Twice he signed off, "love' DH. I feel he has a liking to me. My feeling for him are becoming more intense cos of these few cues. but, I am really scared to tell him the way I feel.
Will I be cheap to tell him "I love you"?
Ive managed to invite him over for dinner in a few weeks and he has agreed. I mentioned he could come with his G friend and he did not comment on that one. But if he has a G friend why would he sign off : love' twice in a email and write a sweet official reference letter on my behalf?

I am 25+ but very naive in such things. Any tips?

2006-09-08 16:13:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

please answer

2006-09-08 16:13:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what kind of girl should i date?

2006-09-08 16:10:56 · 16 answers · asked by DMR 1 in Singles & Dating

I close friend of mine is stuck in another state.
She is flat broke. She is staying with a friend at the moment, but needs to find a way back home in the next week or she'll lose everything she's got back home.

Are there any places she can seek out for help getting back home?
Please no insulting answers. She's a good person, she just found herself in a situation where she had to go to another state to take care of something but had to stay longer than planned and now she has no way to get back home.

Any help would be great. I really feel for her. If I could I would get her up here no question about it, but I'm in a tight bind myself too.

2006-09-08 16:10:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

me and my boyf. like tlaking about us havin sex but we dont do it....is this ok?

2006-09-08 16:10:02 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-08 16:08:43 · 24 answers · asked by Ram 3 in Family

Which is better to be single or in relationship when you are 20? Because right now I dont really want to have any serious long term relationship,but I want to have sex. How do I go about it. Are there girls that feel the same way I do. Would you rather be single or in relation when you are 20,I just dont want to deal with lots of stuff that comes with relationship right now.

2006-09-08 16:08:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating