I've been dating this guy for a long time, but its a really long distance relationship...cause well hes in engnland now and im here in canada...well at work theres this new guy..and hes kinda cute..we have been talking alot..and he says he kinda likes me, and i think i kinda like him..well...we kissed a few times, and i feel kinda bad about it..but then it was good to actually kiss somone and well actually do it and not just say it..I should tell my boyfriend that i kissed this guy and i think i kinda like him. but i just dont know how to tell him..HOW DO I TELL HIM?!?!
2006-09-08 16:22:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
just tell him that the over-seas thing isnt working, and that you liekd him but its jsut not going to work out. the right guy will understand. plus, what did you expect from a guy who lives in england?
2006-09-08 16:25:26 · answer #1 · answered by Bensius 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IMHO...long distance relationship don't work. unless you both sure, there are no one else better. which I still think its impossible. I say ditch the guy overseas.. and go out with the one thats close by. be straight forward about it. ..
I was in your situation once... I told the girl.. go out and see the world. be whoever you want to be, and be who ever you want to be with. in time., if the situation is right and you two happen to be at the same location... then you can try again then. no point putting yourself on reserve, then couple years down the track... finding out that you both have changed. everyone changes over time. if you can't be together, it's hard to change together. but do keep in touch with him if you like him. how would you know if this shop sells the cheaps clothing, if you haven't visit other shop?!
at the end of the day... if you guys do get a chance to try again and things work out later down the track. you will know he is the one.
2006-09-08 16:33:54 · answer #2 · answered by LeoRS250 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him. Just tell him you're breaking up with him because you need someone that's physically there for you and you're too young to be in an LDR right now. Then, pursue the relationship with the local guy. Long distance relationships NEVER work out!
2006-09-08 16:35:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long dist, relationships are hard! I had one for 3 weeks. Man was it bad. Fought everyday one the phone. When we did talk on the phone that is. Was so busy I could get enough time to call him. If your is sorda perm. Go for the otehr guy. If its not. Stick it out. When he comes back...well lets just say it always the best. HeeHe.
2006-09-08 16:26:38 · answer #4 · answered by <3Aja*Marissa*Ashley<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you still care, but the distance is too much and you want to see other people.
2006-09-08 16:25:37 · answer #5 · answered by Pistol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST BE NORMAL AND TELL HIM WHAT YOU FEEL FOR HIM
2006-09-08 16:25:30 · answer #6 · answered by yogesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋