i really like this guy and i think he likes me...or @ least my other friends think so but who knows. anyway, i really wanna go out wit him but whenever im around hott guys i suddenly have nothing 2 talk about and i seem so boring ( or @ least i think ) what kind of stuff do u talk about? and what kinda stuff should i talk about online wit him. everyone always says just me urself but i suddenly start acting like this totally different person & i cant be myself i mean i wanna be but i seriuosly cant be myself and i dont kno what to say! please HELP
2006-09-08 16:20:07 · 14 answers · asked by paris&&niclole 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just ask him out or at least give him some hint that you are intersted...and just be yourself...
2006-09-08 16:23:35 · answer #1 · answered by nick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't know who you really are and that's why you're having a problem with being yourself. Start loving "you", and finding out who and what you want in life. Don't worry about what he might think of you and just start talking to him...you have nothing to lose, you've been without him this long and I'm sure that if things don't pop off between the two of you...you'll be fine...at least I hope so. Good Luck!
2006-09-08 23:25:43 · answer #2 · answered by CHASE_ME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look...u just need to relax around him. stop constantly wondering whether ur boring him or not....just be ur natural self and i assure u....hell find u interesting....especially if he likes u which according to ur friends...he does. remember there is never any smoke without fire...all rumors are based on some truth...but be prepared...he may not actually like u...perhaps he just said something like u are interesting to hang out with or that u are really pretty and that got blown out of proportion and turned into a rumor about him liking u....good luck....
2006-09-08 23:37:56 · answer #3 · answered by auleep 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to relax when your around guys. You dont need to get tense. Talk to guys about something you know guys like but that you know a little about too. Make sure you stay intrested even if your really not. Its all about trying.
2006-09-08 23:25:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could talk about:
school(
sports
friends
parties
past relationships
hobbies
i know you said that everyone says this but i'm gonna say it too...
JUST BE YOURSELF!! there's nothing worse than goin out with someone you really liked and it turns out they are not wat you thot..
just hang out with him as much as you can and say hi in the hallways when you see him. the more you guys hang out and talk the more comfortable you'll be...
it will get better just keep on being you...if he does like you then thats obviously good enough for him!
2006-09-08 23:46:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have got to be confident i can feel you doubting yourself all through your question. look at it this way if you ask him out and he says no then thats one less guy to deal with right you move on to the next might find one even better if he says yes go shopping pick out something super sexy to make him want to learn more about you
2006-09-08 23:24:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about the weather, places you hang out, friends you have in common, what you watch on tv, music, movies, the list goes on and on.
2006-09-08 23:22:51 · answer #7 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might not be the best choose but it show where u stand juet go up to him and be like if i asked u out would u say yes??
my friend did tht and her and her b/f have been goin out for a year now
2006-09-08 23:24:05 · answer #8 · answered by Target 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by just saying hello and let it go from there or write him a note sometimes it is easier to write your thoughts into words than to say them.
2006-09-08 23:28:32 · answer #9 · answered by bmr k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are proably believing that you are not capable of a good conversation..turn it around..ask him stuff.you will really find out a lot like that ....get to know him......
talk about what he likes to do..hobbies ,sports, school, games and movies....show him you are intelligent .talk about current events too...
don't start talking about sex..if you go there that's all your your relationship will be about....
hold on to your integrity....dont lie to him about stuff and have fun ......
BE MYSTERIOUS LADY,THAT WILL GET HIS INTEREST.......SET YOUR BOUNDARIES AND DEMAND TO BE RESPECTED THATS THE WAY TO GET A GOOD MAN..........
2006-09-08 23:28:56 · answer #10 · answered by cesare214 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to him and and tell him i like you ... if he doesn't like you back at least you now know if he likes you back.. when you get close to him you cant be your self because you feel nerves because you wonder does he like me...
2006-09-08 23:25:34 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋