Family & Relationships - 6 September 2006

2006-09-06 07:12:57 · 5 answers · asked by jec110779 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

He says he loves me, but he is withholding affection and refuses sex or intimacy. He won't sleep in bed with me, will kiss me once and then pull away. We never had a honeymoon.

I feel he resents me, and may be manipulating the relationship. I feel he didn't want to get married as I did - so soon.

I am insecure but feel if he would only give me more affection than I would be happier. I have a lot of love inside to give to him.

Before me, he had little money. Now, he enjoys good food, the "extras" he didn't have before. I cook and clean, work 40 hrs a week. I even give him massages weekly and don't withhold oral on him when he asks.

We have only been intimate about 10 times in a year. It is emotional abuse. He won't go to counseling. I thought he was my soul mate, but now I may leave him because I feel hurt and feel he doesn't care enough.

He won't smoke outside even though I have told him it bothers me.
Why would he be this way? And then tell me to stay?

2006-09-06 07:12:08 · 50 answers · asked by rita222222222222 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What is the worst thing some has said to you while you were having sex?

2006-09-06 07:12:06 · 31 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-06 07:11:33 · 9 answers · asked by sabrina 3 in Singles & Dating

been without sex, and was it good when you did?

2006-09-06 07:10:53 · 23 answers · asked by willow 1 in Singles & Dating

if a boyfriend was clueless about buying gifts and doing 'nice' things for u once in awhile, but would rather just buy u things when u asked to make it 'easier'...would that suffice? or would u rather be w/ someone who KNEW to do things for u, whatever they were, as his own idea?

2006-09-06 07:09:46 · 6 answers · asked by sasmallworld 6 in Singles & Dating

I split up with my ex a few months back, he finished with me and I then found out he had been cheating behind my back too. Then he decided he'd changed his mind and wanted to come back - you can imagine my response - er no thanks. This was followed by hundreds, and I mean hundreds of texts and general harrassment.

I gave him his stuff back and now things have gone quiet but I've just found some signed CD's and a digital camera that belong to him, should I give them back?

Bear in mind this is a guy whose response to me having a miscarriage was to say I was making it up and after this when I refused to speak to him anymore he threatened to have damage done to my car and home, nice coming from someone who knew me for ten years!

Am I wrong to think Ebay is the way ahead for his stuff?

2006-09-06 07:09:34 · 65 answers · asked by Holly2007 2 in Singles & Dating

When a man leaves his wife and he says it is because he is "not happy" what does that mean? Is it just a cop out - a way to justify their actions - especially when the unhappiness only became an issue when they began having an affair? I believe people are responsible for their own happiness - if you are relying on someone else to make you happy then you will never be happy. On another note - do these affairs last?

2006-09-06 07:09:23 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-06 07:09:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-09-06 07:09:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just finished reading an article referencing his latest speech. Has anyone else been following this other"madman" the US will have to face? His statements in the article have very unsettling undertones. Are we closer to their holy war than we think?

2006-09-06 07:08:17 · 3 answers · asked by Beaumeader 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I don't know if it's a good idea for married couples to take seperate vacations even if it is with same sex friends. He loves golf but I'm not comfortable about him playing in Vegas! Am I being immature or insecure?

2006-09-06 07:08:05 · 26 answers · asked by liberalthinktank 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

The wedding is Saturday!!!
Something that the bride and family forgot to do!!!
Please give them some suggestions!!!

2006-09-06 07:07:46 · 15 answers · asked by tappys_gal 2 in Weddings

2006-09-06 07:07:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i like this boy and i know that he has feelings for me, but he's going with my cousin and she likes him2.

2006-09-06 07:06:47 · 11 answers · asked by Lakeisha r 1 in Singles & Dating

my mind doesnt work sharp the morning after sex what should I do or eat to become sharp more quickly?

2006-09-06 07:06:17 · 9 answers · asked by a b 1 in Singles & Dating

My older sister and her husband are packing(just a few things) and moving out of the country. They are sort've retiring. I don't know what to give them for a present. They can't take too much stuff with them, they are selling most of their stuff. Taking a truck and a trailer to sunny acapulco...Any suggestions???

2006-09-06 07:06:10 · 3 answers · asked by chowika 3 in Family

PLEASE!!!

2006-09-06 07:05:59 · 2 answers · asked by Catcanscratch 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-06 07:05:46 · 18 answers · asked by mnhmoore 1 in Marriage & Divorce

no communication
no hugs/ kisses

2006-09-06 07:05:44 · 10 answers · asked by lilypad222000 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend bought me a really expensive diamond necklace and diamond stud earrings from Zales. I love the necklace and want to keep it but I really don't like the earrings. I lose studs all the time and I need something that clasps shut. He said I could return them and gave me the reciept, however, I feel kind of guilty.. He said it was no big deal. Is it wrong to return it? Should I just keep them? What if I lose them?

2006-09-06 07:05:05 · 10 answers · asked by LONG ISLAND GIRL 3 in Singles & Dating

Was that a good move?

2006-09-06 07:04:56 · 7 answers · asked by chigaimasu 2 in Marriage & Divorce

well i love to talk to people and when i know you i dont seem to shut up but i heard someone say that i am stuck up because i dont talk to them. i would like to make new friends but am scared of saying something embarrassing and that someone wont like me. so what should i do i am not a stuck up person.

2006-09-06 07:04:30 · 9 answers · asked by sunshine girl 3 in Singles & Dating

I want to know if I should feel guilty for loving to look at B@@bs... I am not wanting to cheat on my wife or anything I just love to see them ... have you caught your husband checkin' out other girls boobs and have you ever flashed another guy? email me if you like I love the conversation and the reply,

thanks ladies....

2006-09-06 07:03:05 · 25 answers · asked by 57chevy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-06 07:02:52 · 11 answers · asked by chigaimasu 2 in Family

my personal fave - the bald headed world champ as in
"ive just been wrestling with the bald headed world champ"

prize of 10 lovely points for the one that makes me laugh the most

2006-09-06 07:02:26 · 24 answers · asked by ozzysheeplover 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-06 07:02:02 · 36 answers · asked by BIG WILLY 1 in Singles & Dating

please explain this to me....it has been bothering the hell out of me for like a whole 3 minutes now....

2006-09-06 07:01:59 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

say if your pregency and ur sixteen and ur parter 20 and you have been going out for a year do you agree with this but u really both love each other but that what we say would u carry on the relationship or should u end it and let him just support the child?

2006-09-06 07:01:54 · 7 answers · asked by lil miss sweetheart 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-06 07:01:44 · 9 answers · asked by BABIgurl 1 in Singles & Dating