how do you know if your partner is still in love with you?

Question

no communication
no hugs/ kisses

Answer 1

Have you asked him what was wrong? Sometimes it may not have anything to do with you. Wrong or right some people handle stress and problems internally as not to worry the other person. So before you make a big deal out of this find out what the problem is first so that you don't make matters worse.

Answer 2

They could be. I know my wife claims she still loves me and is committed to us. But, she shows no love or affection in the way that I want/need.

No hugs, no kisses, no cuddling, no closeness or communication. Sex - not often and when she does, I can tell she is just going through the motions.

What you have to decide is, can you live with out this? If you can and you two have a good relationship besides the affection, than stick it out But, if you need the affection to feel whole and loved, you will need to move on. To many, life without affection, just isn't living. And you deserve affection. But only you can decide how important it really is. And only your spouse can let you know if he/she is willing to give you what you need.

Good luck.

Answer 3

I asked myself that question once....but i realized that our perspective on what we think love is and how it's expressed can throw us off. Obviously a lack communication and physically appreciation may hint that somethings wrong... the only way you can really know for sure is to ask how that person feels towards you. Solve why there's no affections and lack of communication then fix it...but honestly most of the times theses are the symptoms that leads up to falling out of love. Maybe if detected before ,in it's early stages you could talk it out a fix it before further erosion.

Answer 4

It seems like if there is no communication and no hugs and kisses then they don't love you anymore, but I'm going through this with my husband, and when i asked if he still loved me he said yes and keeps saying yes, he does. I would ask, and if he/she says they do then tell them the lack of communication and attention bothers you.

Answer 5

If you have ask the question...therein lies the answer.

But sometimes, it may not be that they don't love you anymore; they may have just gotten confortable. When that happens, you should go out and spend time with friends and live it up. Once your partner realizes that your happiness is not dependent on them 100% of the time, they usually become more attentive. Or, you could just ask your partner if they are still in love with you. It's a direct approach, so be ready for whatever the answer is.

Answer 6

If your not communicating and there are no hugs and kisses, its a pretty clear sign there is no love there.

Answer 7

Sounds like my EX husband.

Put yourself first. Love yourself. You are worthy of love and affection. No one should be deprived of those two things. Find a life outside of your home (cooking classes, college classes, Bingo...something). Realize that there is a life outside of your home and marriage in case something happens.

I don't know what else is going on inside your house, but you may want to second guess your commitment to this man.

GL and best wishes.

Answer 8

You should read this book called, "He's Just Not That Into You"

by Berhardt. It's a good book (sometimes funny.) Why did

he love you before and not now=there must be a reason.

Answer 9

Just watch. If things abuptly change and they act like you don't exist anymore... or just don't show love, like they used to... then I'd start asking questions and so on.

Answer 10

i'd say no

communitaction is a must
hugs/kisses are a must

time to move on, let him/her know your wishes