Family & Relationships - 3 September 2006

this is my last question...I really dont understand how men talk bad about a woman 24/7. "shes a ho" shes a slut" and then turn around and do the same s@#t. I think its an interesting social commentary when i roll with my homies and there doing their thing that **** is cool....but when a women is looking for what she wants and testing the same waters she's labeled a ho. Thats some bulls%$t. Oh well f#$K it. Im deployed and bored out of my damn mind. You all be safe and be easy .....hope wherever your at is better then here.

2006-09-03 09:35:34 · 4 answers · asked by crazyhustler 1 in Singles & Dating

I write out my story, and people don't read it. OK im cool w/ that if they don't have time, but HEY they don't have to write stupid answers like :

df

and

idk

i get that you get points, but hey don't be mean!

i'm quite upset, actually! :(

2006-09-03 09:35:26 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ive never been

2006-09-03 09:34:51 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is this guy at school and hes really cute but the problem is i dont even think he notices me. i really want to go out with him but how can i show him that without coming off as desperate. ( can't be dirty )

2006-09-03 09:33:38 · 14 answers · asked by kungfu Kristen 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-03 09:33:27 · 3 answers · asked by Mr Who 1 in Singles & Dating

What makes a guy attractive? charm, looks

2006-09-03 09:32:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-03 09:31:38 · 13 answers · asked by lerato.justin 1 in Friends

I reallly like this guy, have shown him I'm interested in him. I am a really nice person - caring , honest, beautiful, great body, simple person, make him laugh a lot, he really enjoys my company.. etc. I've seen him looking at my boobs, and he likes to hold my waist. I've known him for like 4 months now. But we just hang out and that's it. He hasnt asked me out on a real date even once. Why? He had 2 bad relationships where the girls were mean and dishonest to him - even more reason why he should be attracted to me, or want to date me.. right? And I dont see any signs of him wanting to go in that direction either. Why?? It's kinnda frustrating. Please help me understand this side of men.
Please include your age with your answer. I'm 25.

2006-09-03 09:31:13 · 23 answers · asked by Orchid 2 in Singles & Dating

at the restuarant where i work, there's this mexican man who keeps on staring at me when i walk in, i don't know what to do, so i just wave. there are two more mexican men who aren't this friendly. when i walk by, he's always saying, "chiquita, mamasita, ayayayayay" and a bunch of other stuff in spanish that i don't understand. it's so creepy since i'm 18 and he's like 35. true, i'm flattered, but i'd really rather he didn't. am i wrong to think this?

2006-09-03 09:30:41 · 13 answers · asked by deer 3 in Friends

I often hear of couples having date nights... either once a week or month or what ever works... I am interested to know what YOU do on your date night(s), if anything, and how it helps your relationship. Many thanks (in advance) for your insight.

2006-09-03 09:30:21 · 6 answers · asked by urbanbutterfly 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-03 09:29:46 · 4 answers · asked by koottukaran 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-03 09:28:45 · 2 answers · asked by Elias 2 in Singles & Dating

I am in love with my best friend. I have known her for 2 years. She just got a new boyfriend and they seem happy together. Before this I thought she liked me, she seemed to be dropping hints. Also I really like her boyfriend, he's a great guy, we hang out often. What should I do? E-mail me if you want more info.

2006-09-03 09:28:37 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-03 09:27:55 · 11 answers · asked by da real 1 in Family

Does it turn you on the most to not have sex with your partner for a while then have it ...or to just do it when ever forfills your needs.

2006-09-03 09:27:09 · 5 answers · asked by Sandy 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-03 09:26:45 · 12 answers · asked by David W 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-03 09:26:32 · 10 answers · asked by martin v 1 in Singles & Dating

how far do things go at a strip club with lap dances and private lap dances? is there sex involved? why do men do it if they are in relationships?

2006-09-03 09:26:22 · 5 answers · asked by evelyn55 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I recently fell out with one of my friends. He is the same age as me (28) and we have been friends for about 12 years. During that time he has constantly displayed controlling and dominating tendancies and last september when I moved location (i now live about 100 miles away from him) he started phoning every single day.. sometimes talking on the phone for hours

He constantly displays signs of aggression and constantly talks of his violent urges.

About 2 weeks ago, he and I had a fall out... it happened becausehe, myself and his girlfriend where planning to see a show, but I had to pull out at short notice because of work

When I told him this, he hung up the phone and when i called back, his girlfriend just told me he'd gone out.

Today, I recieved an email from him containing a poem called "Goodbye". The poem contains some disturbing lines as well as references to our early friendship.

Naturally, I am now concerned that he may be planning revenge

Ideas please!!

2006-09-03 09:26:18 · 22 answers · asked by MonkeyKing669 2 in Friends

I am 16 and have only frenched kissed a guy once before and I was terrible. I told him it was my first kiss and he said he would help me, but when we started he stopped and laughed .. lol. I was that bad I just wanted a few pointers.
Like when you kiss are both of your tongues supposed to be in one mouth or is my tongue supposed to be in his mouth and his tongue in my mouth @ the same time? (I know it's a stupid question and I am completely embarrassed, but I just need help)
2. How to move your tongue and lips
3. What to do with my hands
4. Techniques on breathing and swallowing my spit

Thanx in advance for any help that I can get!!! :-)

2006-09-03 09:25:35 · 15 answers · asked by FlawL3ss2TheNak3dEye 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been seeing this guy I met on a online dating site for 8 mths. He still doesn't phone Me..leaves me emails or waits to chat online with Me. Is it because He really is not ready for anything more than a online romance? I've asked him..get no answer.I need more. What should I do>?

2006-09-03 09:24:09 · 10 answers · asked by Catherinefaith 2 in Singles & Dating

she lives across the country and her birthday is coming up. i am planning to give her a surprise visit. what should i show up with at her door?

2006-09-03 09:23:59 · 14 answers · asked by James B 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-03 09:23:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, here's the thing: this guy is like my father's age, and he's actually a friend of my father's. I see him at like weddings and formal occasions like that, and every time I see this guy it creeps me out to no extent. he's always just staring at me...always talking to my parents about what i'm doing in college etc etc..once (at a wedding) i went to get my purse from a table and he grabbed my hand..which totally freaked me out...he was grinning the whole time..this guy is married okay...and then yesterday i saw him at a gathering and he came over to me when my parents weren't there and put his hand on my back and was just talking to me...i dont want to say anything to my parents about him because its embarressing...its not like im extremely pretty or anything so why is this guy going after me of all people? and what should i do? help!

2006-09-03 09:23:15 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Is a 10inch penis too big? I have had sex with alot of girls and they said it hurts, and that they feel more pain the pleasure. I need truth, too big or too small?

2006-09-03 09:22:55 · 20 answers · asked by E10 2 in Singles & Dating

this other boy used yo be my best friend then we dated and now we are friends again. I don't know why my boyfriend keeps getting so mad should i not be talking to my ex-boyfriend cos it makes my new boyfriend mad.

2006-09-03 09:22:49 · 10 answers · asked by maeghan 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a virgin and my boyfriend told me that if i fingered myself that i wouldnt be a virgin anymore
im 16 now and waitin till 18 to loose mine so im really scared now
because i have fingered myself with my boyfriend
please help
i dont know what to think
could this be really true

2006-09-03 09:22:43 · 12 answers · asked by tb 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so I started school a couple of weeks back, and there is this new guy there, his name is Derek, and he came from another school. He is completely hot, and everything, and he looks at me all the time..and I'm told that he's a totally nice guy.and he hangs out where I do at lunch. But the only thing, is that when I try to talk to him, I get completely ignored and moded..He just looks at me and then walks away..Same thing with classes, he just looks, and looks, but nothing. And so my friends and I were thinking that maybe we should do like a movie thing, like invit e all our friends + him, and then go over to my house..but I have NO CLUE why he won't talk to me..

2006-09-03 09:21:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i like this boy at my school(i'm a junior, he's a senior) and he geos outa his way to pass me in the hallway and say my last name, or he'll playfully push me in the hallway, or he'll walk past me and shut my locker when my head is down looking in my backpack. i also notices that he looks at me durring our schools chapel (we are a christian school) or i'll see him whisper something to his friend while he's looking at me. what does this mean?

2006-09-03 09:20:30 · 18 answers · asked by Popular 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend lives in NJ, and me in MA. Can this thing work because we are studying Law and Medicine. We can see each other only once a moonth. What do you think I can do to keep our relationship strong?

2006-09-03 09:20:26 · 8 answers · asked by JM 3 in Singles & Dating