I am 16 and have only frenched kissed a guy once before and I was terrible. I told him it was my first kiss and he said he would help me, but when we started he stopped and laughed .. lol. I was that bad I just wanted a few pointers.
Like when you kiss are both of your tongues supposed to be in one mouth or is my tongue supposed to be in his mouth and his tongue in my mouth @ the same time? (I know it's a stupid question and I am completely embarrassed, but I just need help)
2. How to move your tongue and lips
3. What to do with my hands
4. Techniques on breathing and swallowing my spit
Thanx in advance for any help that I can get!!! :-)
2006-09-03 09:25:35 · 15 answers · asked by FlawL3ss2TheNak3dEye 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
* just do w/e is comfortable. most people do tonges in his mouth. just stick ur tongue in his mouth n move it against his
2. move the opo of his. let the lips go w/ his but ur tongue should b rite beside his pushin against it.
3. put ur hands on his neck n play w/ that hair on the back of their necks
4. just breath when u stop or if its a long time, breath thru ur nose
2006-09-03 09:29:24 · answer #1 · answered by Chelz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no right or wrong way to french kiss. All I can say is relax your tongue muscles and go with the flow. Try to move your tongue in the opposite direction from his so it won't feel funny to either of you. And make sure you don't try to shove your tongue down his throat. Or just let him do all of the work. Whishever works best for you.
Hands: Hold his face, hug him, hold his back, or caress his ear. It would enhance the mood.
Breathing and Swallowing spit: Take a deep breath 1st before doing any kissing. Swallow the spit in your mouth first and lick your lips. More spit will come once you start kissing. And don't kiss for an hour straight without a small break in between. You could suffocate.
2006-09-03 09:31:27 · answer #2 · answered by cheerhotgurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I have been said to intrigue so I can give you a pointer. When you start to kiss and he makes the move to insert his tongue in your mouth, take it and suck on it a bit, it makes them wonder what it would feel like inlower regions..lol. Now be sure not to suck too hard because it will hurt them, but just a bit and for a few seconds, second you swallow your spit inbetween sucking on his tongue, makes it less obvious...start there before you try entering his mouth with your tongue. Also make it kinda slow, but not too slow and form a rythem. Think of a semi slow, but sexy song and go with the beat in your head. As for your hands, that depends on how comfortable you are with him. If he has short hair, out one hand on his stomach or waist and with the other put it on the back of his head, and either run your fingers through his hair or if really short just softly rub the lower portion right where it starts to connest to his neck....breathe through your nose and remember to breathe or you will get light headed..lol
2006-09-03 09:33:15 · answer #3 · answered by flgatorsman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) im also 16 and can hardly remember my first time (kissing). but as far as i can remember, once the guy can kiss (is experienced) it doesnt matter about technique b/c he can guide u along and everything would flow from there. so first thing u have to do is RELAX. dont think about it (that much).
2)Go with the flow. u would know how to move ur lips.
3) either keep them to urself or rest them on the fella.
4) breathe normal. (it is not anything difficult like how ur making it sound)
5) it might not only be u it may also be the guy. so the keyword here is to RELAX
2006-09-03 09:33:12 · answer #4 · answered by latoya j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tounges shouldnt go completely in each others mouths. Just kinda caress his with yours, lightly. No one likes a tounge shoved in the back of their throat. 2. Dont push hard against his mouth, just lightly. Pucker and kiss (like the actual kissy sound is the right shape). 3. hands,- his neck, his face, his chest. anywhere they can comfortably rest. 4. Breath through ur nose and their shouldnt be that much spit.
2006-09-03 09:29:35 · answer #5 · answered by CrzyGurl21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think there is a better way, but move your tongue in his tongue, try to suck his tongue it will be horny, move your tongue around his teeth.
For the lips, dont let them fixed somewhere, make the moves slowley,slowly.
2006-09-03 09:29:18 · answer #6 · answered by JM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tongues should go back and forth. just take ur time and find the right guy and they wont mind at all. tell them they are lucky to be kissing you anyways
2006-09-03 09:27:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're making too much out of it. If you worry so much it's going to feel awkward for you both.
Just relax in the moment, close your eyes, put your hands on his neck, rub his face, or places your hands in his hands and enjoy kissing.
2006-09-03 09:29:04 · answer #8 · answered by Heather J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually kissing you cant learn from decribtion, but more so from expereince, so have some fun and learn it the good old fashioned way- no one is the best at it when first starting out.
2006-09-03 09:28:16 · answer #9 · answered by cats4ever2k1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol how funny get a popcicle and put it in your mouth and lick it up lol pratice with that haha
2006-09-03 09:28:51 · answer #10 · answered by liltexas36 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋