how far do things go at a strip club with lap dances and private lap dances? is there sex involved? why do men do it if they are in relationships?
2006-09-03 09:26:22 · 5 answers · asked by evelyn55 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ive been to a strip club before, and my best friend use to work in one before so i know some of what goes on..
Depending on the class of place u go to.. depends on alot of the class of girls that work there..
The girls dance their sets, and then yes they hit the floor and try to get guys to want to pay for lap dances/ private dances, most clubs the guys cant touch them at all, they just have to sit there, and the girl just slithers all over the guy ... Some raunchy type places there are girls that will do things for the guys but usually thats on the side.. (sex, oral) ..ect.. but those are usually small hole in the wall type bars rather then a well known club with decent girls..
My best friend had many offers but never excepted them.. she was there to dance, make money for her dancing, not for sex.. and most of the people she worked for felt the same way.. so it depends on the class of person and what their willing to do for money.. alot of them although they take off their clothes, dont want to be touched or approached other then for what their job entitles, and most of the time they find the guys disgusting that come in there and they are Pretending to be attracted to them just to get money out of them..
Men in relationships do this, because 1. they have little respect for their marriage vows.. atleast not enough to live by them every moment of the day that they would do something to hurt their wife or their marriage.. but when a wife is ok with her man going to a strip club then 2. They get to feel like they are all that and a bag of chips cause some sexy young thing is taking their clothes off for them, and actting like she's lusting after them.. showing them attention, and it makes their egos go through the roof, unfortunately the girls wouldnt usually give them the time of day if they werent getting paid for it.. so its a false attraction and false ego gradification.. 3. Men that actually go beyond and pay for other things.. are idiots that dont care about their wives, but want to gets some "strange" for lack of better words, and well if they pay for it, then they dont have to worry about any strings attached like they do if they had an actual affair with someone.. its a one time deal and they probably think theres no way the wife can find out then.. but it all boils down to them being little boys trapped in mens bodies and not be REAL men...
2006-09-03 09:44:36 · answer #1 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From what I've heard from my brothers and friends, there are different types of strip clubs. There are the ones where the clients can't touch the strippers/dancers and vice versa and there are others where u can go full on (with private rooms and sex). If this bothers u, then u should probably go with your spouse to see what kind of strip bars he goes to. Apparently they are not all the same.
2006-09-03 09:33:11 · answer #2 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haven't been to one in quite a long time (used to go with my fiance) but they seemed to have different rules at different clubs.--Why do men go?--Lots of different reasons.
2006-09-03 09:47:55 · answer #3 · answered by dawnee_babe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to one and find out for yourself.
2006-09-03 09:29:04 · answer #4 · answered by joe_smo_red 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what?
2006-09-03 09:32:03 · answer #5 · answered by LindsayS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋