I am in love with my best friend. I have known her for 2 years. She just got a new boyfriend and they seem happy together. Before this I thought she liked me, she seemed to be dropping hints. Also I really like her boyfriend, he's a great guy, we hang out often. What should I do? E-mail me if you want more info.
2006-09-03 09:28:37 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It looks like you missed your opportunity. However, I believe if a relationship is meant to be, it will happen in it's own good time.
2006-09-05 01:04:25 · answer #1 · answered by I love my husband 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she dropped her hints, gave you your chance (which you didn't realize), and now she's moved on. You could have lost your chance, and then again maybe not. You risk a lot by professing your love. You could potentially mose 2 friends, on the other hand you could find the love of your life. It's a tough decision, and i might watch for more signs from your friend before you make a move.
2006-09-03 09:32:53 · answer #2 · answered by not meant to be tamed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want your friend to be happy then let her. If she wanted you us woman usually have a way letting you guys know, and it's your fault for not letting her know before she got involved with someone else. If she and this other guy don't work out then make your move...but not until then. If she loves you and just didn't realize it yet then she'll come around.
2006-09-03 09:33:52 · answer #3 · answered by philicia k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she did like you but you never made a move after she dropped her hints. I would have a serious talk with her and tell her exactly how you feel before she gets too serious with this new guy.
2006-09-03 09:30:57 · answer #4 · answered by orionsgirl76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like you missed a chance before this guy came into her life. Just stay cool and remain her best friend--she may need your shoulder or an ear soon. Then see how things go.
2006-09-03 09:30:24 · answer #5 · answered by Rez 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish you stated your age. Sounds like she does like you but that you seemed untouchable BECAUSE you are friends. She doesn't want to lose the friendship by trying to be your girlfriend.
I would just be upfront and honest. 'Tina' I'd like you to know that though I respect your new relationship, I wanted you to know that I was hoping that our friendship would have become more. No pressure on our friendship, but I just wanted you to know so you know that I'd like that option to be out there for you/us, if you'd be be interested.** Yes, I know my ending is a big corny but you can tweak it the way that works for you. Keeping the secret doesn't do anybody any good. best of luck.
2006-09-03 09:48:06 · answer #6 · answered by Valeria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have two options
1. Tell her how you feel, theres the risk of her always feeling akward around you or she coudl dump her b/f and then be with you! big risk though
2. you could just wait it out and see, if they break up and if they do and your a huge confert that the best time! b/c girls sometimes fall in love with the guys that were there best friends and confert them
but mabye there best together
2006-09-03 09:49:27 · answer #7 · answered by justme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there. Approximately 12 years ago. If i could do it over I would have told him how I felt. My advice, tell her how you feel. The truth is always the best way to go. If she does not reciprocate, you can still be friends. You will never know what could be unless you go fo it.
2006-09-03 09:32:14 · answer #8 · answered by robin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your not together then theres usually a reason/ just liking a person dosent mean shes really into you--however i agree that compatability and getting along together is really important---even if you 2 do like each other its obvious she wants to experiment before she settles down------have you told her how you honestly feel? try it and see what happens
2006-09-03 09:31:49 · answer #9 · answered by darkangel1111 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have made your move when you had your chance. Now you will have to wait and see if they break-up. It would be very bad form to interfere in their relationship. Move on. Find someone else.
2006-09-03 09:35:02 · answer #10 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋