I'm a virgin and my boyfriend told me that if i fingered myself that i wouldnt be a virgin anymore
im 16 now and waitin till 18 to loose mine so im really scared now
because i have fingered myself with my boyfriend
please help
i dont know what to think
could this be really true
2006-09-03 09:22:43 · 12 answers · asked by tb 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanks so much evrybody really appreiciate it
and im goin to have a talk with my bf bout this
2006-09-03 09:31:53 · update #1
No as they were saying it sounds like he wants you to think you arnt a virgin so you would go ahead and have sex with him. You cant loose your virginity that way so go right ahead and enjoy yourself. for his lying to you like that dont let him watch you do it. do when you are alone. Do that all you wish so you can know what you like and be able to tell the man you love and will give such a gift to what you like to make the experience even better.
2006-09-03 09:31:46 · answer #1 · answered by BElow froSTy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Sounds like your boyfriend is trying to make you think that you have lost it so that you will go ahead and sleep with him now. Hold on to your vaules. In the dictionary it says a virgin is "A person who has not experienced sexual intercourse." Don't let anyone talk to you into anything. If it doesn't feel rigth for you then it isn't right for you.
2006-09-03 09:24:07 · answer #2 · answered by sukesgirl 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I dont think so. Not unless you have some long a s s fingers, I highly doubt it. You are still a virgin
2006-09-03 09:29:06 · answer #3 · answered by danielle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, thats a nonsense issue over a small tissue.
2006-09-03 09:26:19 · answer #4 · answered by binaryFusion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could break you hymen... if that is what u mean by virginity. Many girls break their hymens playing sports, etc.
But, virginity is defined (by the mainstream) as someone who has not had vaginal sex.
2006-09-03 09:27:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, the only way to loose your virginity is to actually have sex. so have fun with yourself!
2006-09-03 09:24:44 · answer #6 · answered by bigbob33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. the penis has to be injected in-order for the cherry to pop. a finger doesn't do that.
2006-09-03 09:29:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope..it isn't real likely.
2006-09-03 09:30:28 · answer #8 · answered by westgaliberty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Do not do that.
2006-09-03 09:25:04 · answer #9 · answered by openpsychy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-03 09:24:56 · answer #10 · answered by nathan 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋