Family & Relationships - 31 August 2006

I am extremely careful about getting married and many of woman state that I fear commitment but I say that with the high divorce rate I am being pragmatic.

2006-08-31 10:52:33 · 6 answers · asked by X 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-31 10:52:27 · 8 answers · asked by Ashley 2 in Singles & Dating

tell someone i don't like them anymore? i mean i have a boyfriend but im falling for two other guys. i know one of them very well but he says everone thinks hes a dork and a nerd. but i told him that hes a sweet guy and hes not a dork or a nerd. i know that made him feel better and im glad it did. i want to be his friend but yet also more than that. the other guy i hardly talk to. so what should i do. break up with my bf or just ignore his emails?

2006-08-31 10:51:07 · 2 answers · asked by .Forever Young. 4 in Friends

2006-08-31 10:51:01 · 14 answers · asked by BrooklynQT 2 in Family

2006-08-31 10:50:23 · 31 answers · asked by jrobings 1 in Singles & Dating

She says that she can't handle the stress right now. In a way I can understand this, but I think some of her friends there had influence on her decision. She says that I mean the world to her, but she can't do this right now. She actually says that this is more of a "big break" rather than a full break-up. She now says that it is up to me to take her back when all of this "sh*t" is over. I've already taken her back once before. Oh, and the day she broke up with me, she said that she wants to end her life with me. To me this contradicts the break. She also says that she guesses that she is testing fate. I think that this is a really negative way to test fate. Nobody said that a long distance relationship was going to be easy. I was 100% behind making this work, but now I'm not so sure. I'm torn between 3 options: What to do? What I should do? and What I want to do? I feel like my whole reality is being questioned. I did not see this happening. I'm so confused. Help!

2006-08-31 10:50:13 · 5 answers · asked by daviskevind 2 in Singles & Dating

If so don't date him. He is a liar,cheater,abusive and a user. I dated him for awhile and he did all those things and lets just say I am in debt cause of his ***!

2006-08-31 10:49:00 · 3 answers · asked by Stephaniemae 1 in Singles & Dating

In the middle of good conversation

2006-08-31 10:48:24 · 8 answers · asked by wHaT eVeR 7 in Singles & Dating

I'm standing in a friends wedding as a groomsman in a few weeks. It's only the Best Man that's required to give a toast, right?

2006-08-31 10:47:56 · 14 answers · asked by Beardog 7 in Weddings

Ok herees the thing...I have a boyfriend and ui have been with him for 2 years...I love him to death and yes he does turn me on very much so...but heres the thing...when I was 12 there was this gurl that lived next door and one day she asked me if I knew what sex was and just started kissing me and we werent friends anymore but now sometimes i catch myself looking at girls and maybe sometimes getting very turned on does that mean i am a lesbian?

2006-08-31 10:47:13 · 12 answers · asked by amanda 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-31 10:46:35 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-31 10:45:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

the first day of school i saw this guy that i liked. the next day i found out that he was in my lunch period. i planned on talking to him the next day but i couldn't find a good time to. i sat with my friends and one guy that knows the guy that i like and i asked him what the one guys name was(the one i liked) he said his name was tyler and i also asked him if he had a gf he said that he didn't. later on during lunch he went over and started to talk to the guy that i liked and they kept pointing at me (while i was pretending not to notice) i don't know what they said though. then i found out that my friend liked him too. i was talking to her and i found out that another girl liked him too and is going to ask him out tomorrow. i really like him and don't want that other girl to get to him first bc hes new to the school and im pretty sure that he'll go out with her but im not possitive. i haven't even talked to him yet and i don't see him till almost the end of the day. what should i do

2006-08-31 10:45:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Which do you prefer cuddles or kisses? I like both myself but prefer to cuddle up
P.S this is not kooky but his girlfriend!! (he made sure i put that......... it's a man thing...EGO!)

2006-08-31 10:44:01 · 30 answers · asked by Babycakes 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, so my best friend is a lovely person, she's fun, she's funny, a good friend. But she is the most irrisponsible, and selfish person I have ever met. She has no work ethic, she's been fired from 10 jobs or so. So this although this is annoying, I never really thought about it until now, because she put me as a refrence for the new job she applied for. I normally wouldn't have trouble lying for a friend, I mean, I want her to get a good job and that's what best friends do for each other. But this job happens to be a nanny for two children. Just the idea of a person like her being in charge of kids frightens me to death. I want to be a good friend and give her a good review, but do I have a responsibility to tell this poor woman who exactly she is hiring for the sake of the children?
So basically be a good friend, or be a truthful bad (but meaning well) friend?

2006-08-31 10:43:47 · 11 answers · asked by sierramac11 2 in Friends

I would like to know everyone's thought on the whole intteracial aspects of dating,marrying, mating with someone. How many people believe that it shouldn't matter as long as you love a person and that they treat you right? How many of you disagree with inner mixing relationships? Because evidence shows that almost everyone on this earth is mixed actually so therfore if you aren't really for it then that means you are basically against yourself. Yes your skin color may be white, black whatever but all of us are either irish/german or something like that so therefore we are mixed.. Am I correct?? And seriously people why is that people have such an issue still with the black and white and not the white and chinese or the black and porta rican? what is the difference? and please no sarcastic answers if you have nothing good to really say then just don't answer please. i want honest opinons and reasons backing it.

2006-08-31 10:42:53 · 21 answers · asked by cheryl m 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

hello everybody.. if you have read my previous qs. you'll know exactly my situation.. however, i 'll tell you what happend lately with my husband..
i went to pick him from work, i told him that we need to buy some food coz the fridge is empty and to eat a sandwitch, he told me that he is tired and can't do the shopping and asked me if we have food at home and i said no.. so he went to buy grilled potatoes and asked me if i want , so i told him that i don't like potatoes.
anyways he bought his food and we went home.
do you believe??he forgot to bring me food.
when we returned home i was upset and i faced him with these words..(you never asked me if i ate or not , you forgot to bring me food coz of your selfishness) imagine his reaction..he was angry and accused me that i am a baby i think like kids..i had to remind him and this is my fault. and turned his back and slept. what . i don't imagine that at the end it is my fault..tell me plz how to deal with him when he wakes up?

2006-08-31 10:41:45 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So, my fiance's mom and step dad, are letting us live w/ them until our house is ready- and helped us/paid for the wedding in october. MY parents who live 5 hours away, cant (but want to ) help pay. they just filed bankrupsy...
So i want to toast to parents in law because i appreciate them so much, but then my parents will be hurt, and feel like losers. How do i toast to both of them, without making my parents feel bad, but still show appreciation to parents in law??????????????

2006-08-31 10:41:28 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Whens the age to start dating???

2006-08-31 10:41:26 · 12 answers · asked by Hi!! 2 in Singles & Dating

Her name is Courtney, her last name is Hall. Hobbies that she likes are acting, dancing, and singing...um...she loves to listen to music, she loves hanging out with her friends...oh, and her favorite actor is orlando bloom, and her favorite actresses are keira knightley and kirsten dunst.

2006-08-31 10:40:59 · 6 answers · asked by Me 1 in Friends

I have been talking to my ex boyfriend on MSN, religisouly for the past 2 months. (He has been an ex for 4 years or more) We have this on going Joke, that the way we make our extra money, is by stripping... but it totally untrue....Today, I said that I got 60 bucks back, (was from being ripped off at a subway, and I caught them..long story) It was on my MSN comment area, and he asked me how I got 60 bucks, and I jokingly said stripping... Like usual. And he proceed asking what you get for 60 bucks, does that include touching, and what he can get for the money in his pocket.. He said that he offers ánything' too... Does he want more or is he just f'n with me???? I don't want anything... but it is kinda hot, I must say.. Help... He is engaged, but stated that he doesn't tell his fiance about our conversations... and with comments like that... I doubt that he does either... Help...

2006-08-31 10:40:52 · 18 answers · asked by Kristin M 2 in Singles & Dating

When I know I am getting ready to *** I pull out and put it in my girl's mouth and let loose is there anything I should take into consideration when I do this

2006-08-31 10:40:24 · 8 answers · asked by pimpin2006smt 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

me and my gf been together for 3 yrs now and we live in different states. she use to live here now she dont (long story) ne way her home coming dance is coming up in a few months and i dont know what to do because I want her to go because i dont wana take the apportunity away from her but then again i dont want her to go because i am a jeleous person and i dont want her to be all close to some other guy and his hands all over her and that i dont even know. We all know his intentions and what happens after homecoming. what am i pose to do about her prom night also not let her go and her be mad at me? She will prolly go with or without my permission any way what should i do??

2006-08-31 10:39:45 · 23 answers · asked by xtremecrakhed 1 in Singles & Dating

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2006-08-31 10:39:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have made a yearly tradition of taking a trip during the week of my birthday (March 30th). The past 2 years I have had a babysitter whereas my kids were too young to go, but this year I want to include them. Does anyone have any ideas of a vacation spot that is kid friendly? Ive checked out Disneyworld but my boys would only be 3 and 4 at the time of the trip. I dont know if they would really enjoy it as much as they would if they were older. If you have any more suggestions, I would greatly appreaciate it.

2006-08-31 10:38:34 · 10 answers · asked by breeokc 2 in Family

There is this guy in my chem. class who is always super nice too me. he smiles alot and always smiling to me and saying hi and stuff...... He will carry on long conversations with me and keeps asking me for paper or to help him with something he doesnt need help with it might be an excuse and he might be this friendly with everybody.............. what do you think?

2006-08-31 10:37:37 · 2 answers · asked by prometida 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-31 10:36:50 · 26 answers · asked by slip-slappy 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-31 10:36:38 · 17 answers · asked by badboie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The Company I work for is based outta the UK and the bank hold the checks to make sure that it's a good check. I deal with clients that buy this form this compainy that deals with school and home supplies, and when I got started with it I showed my loyer it and he told me if the bank clears the check to keep records on all the checks I get to watch my back too. And my wife got pissed that If I was to DJ and make $500 a night any any she still got pieed because she works 40 hours a week and pulls in $450 per check and she is in the casino were I live and make Ice Cream. I told her that I'm happy with DJ but she still bitches because I do that 2 nights and make more that she does.

2006-08-31 10:36:18 · 2 answers · asked by Alex Sagataw 1 in Marriage & Divorce

which one would u choose if u had 2

a) let me do you

b) kick me in the balls hard

c) a and b

2006-08-31 10:35:55 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating