why do i see more black men with white women these days, than i do of white guys with black women?

Question

I would like to know everyone's thought on the whole intteracial aspects of dating,marrying, mating with someone. How many people believe that it shouldn't matter as long as you love a person and that they treat you right? How many of you disagree with inner mixing relationships? Because evidence shows that almost everyone on this earth is mixed actually so therfore if you aren't really for it then that means you are basically against yourself. Yes your skin color may be white, black whatever but all of us are either irish/german or something like that so therefore we are mixed.. Am I correct?? And seriously people why is that people have such an issue still with the black and white and not the white and chinese or the black and porta rican? what is the difference? and please no sarcastic answers if you have nothing good to really say then just don't answer please. i want honest opinons and reasons backing it.

Answer 1

Bla. People have been saying that for decades.

Answer 2

You are totally correct. We are all one in reality and no, it should not matter as long as two people are happy and comfortable with themselves and their relationship then it is nobody else's business. However, I am from the South, yes the wonderful South. Down here, things are slowly progressing, but it is still an eye turner when you see mixed races together. I love this part of the country, don't get me wrong and I love being a true southern girl, but our way of thinking down her is so old school.......It is just the way we are raised. I was taught that interracial mixing is wrong, but hey, to each their own, do what makes you happy. My only disagreement with it, and it is really stupid, but here again, it happens, the interracial children get so much grief from other kids, black and white, and that is a shame, cause the children have to suffer. That would be my only reason for not doing it, but if everyone would open their hearts to each other, then no one would be taught that these children are any different from anyone else.........Good Bless America

Answer 3

I have to agree with Tina M. I've heard that same thing too. Why do you think a lot of White men won't date a White woman after she has been with a Black man? They can spout all of the racist hate they want, but the fact of the matter is, they are insecure and don't think they can measure up.

I think the whole thing is hilarious.

Most Black women LOVE Black men, and that's just the way it is. Some of them might date and marry men of other races, but they are in the minority.

It has nothing to do with the size of his penis. There is just something about the touch and the essence of a Black man that you can't find anywhere else. And when you put the two together, a Black man and a Black woman, the feeling is indescribable.

Nothing against anyone else, I just love Black men.

Answer 4

it's because of the prior relationship (slavery and civil rights movement) between blacks and whites that bothers people on both sides. i don't have a problem with interracial dating, I'm puerto rican black/irish, but in this day i have to say I'm not all for having off spring. I've never been apart of either side of my family, i was black so i was looked down on by the hispanic side, i was too white /hispanic to be accepted by the black side. i still hear rude comments from my family when ever i see them, so my adopted family is redneck as hell there from GA, and i love them to death. my skin color is not an issue for them.i also want to add i grew up in CT. soooo I've always dated white guys, boy it's racially confusing being me. I'm glad i don't care what people think any more. this is just my take on your question i hope it helped some.

Answer 5

I agree that love has no boundaries and race should not be a part of the equation if the other person is decent. I have a very logical answer for why you see more black men with white women these days then vice versa. Black women are at home taking care of all of the children that you black dudes gave them. Many black men who don't know the word responsibility are just outside creating more illegitimate babies with the dumb and blind white women.

Just a logical answer like you wanted.

Answer 6

I try to mind my own business, and so should you.

People can date whomever they choose.

p.s. A White man once told me that the reason a lot of White guys don't date Black women is because they are intimidated. They feel that the sista's will always compare them to the brotha's in bed.

I'm not losing any sleep over some White guy not being attracted, or being intimidated by me. I prefer the brotha's myself.

Answer 7

Men have far more brains than to lower them
selves to that level. Their friends would kill him.
Just think if you were a child from one of these messes
you wood not be excepted by either side. From your
question you must be an ugly white chick sucking
on a black and wanting to know no one likes it.

Answer 8

i dont agree with it at all What about kids that could come into it? Black men see white women as a status symbol but white men will be hounded by their friends if they date a black thats why!!

Answer 9

OK here my thoughts on the questions. I date mainly white women becuase of the some **** that happen to me in high school. Along with alot of other brothers I know but anyways on top of that one sister can put more hate in a brother heart then anyone three white women can. But heres the answer final. Blackmen date white one for tone reason. A black women have stained his heart forever...

Answer 10

The answer is quite simple. People are ignorant, have pre-conditioned attitudes as to what is socially acceptable and what isn't, and are afraid to open their minds to what is right.
This is historically proven, and will never change. In light of this we can only do what makes us happy.

Love is blind :p

Answer 11

I personally have "mixed" feelings on this as love is one thing, but then also the couple may be an outcast.