My ex GF has OCD. She would do all these wonderful things that made me feel so loved, but at times I felt she lost sight of the actual meaning and cared only about the task. For example, on my birthday last year, she arrived 15 minutes before midnight because she HAD to make me homemade gifts and wrap them in fancy paper. Forget the gifts…I just wanted to be with her. I conveyed this to her many times to no avail, so after 1 year I ended it. Through out the entire relationship I never saw her cry except on this last day. However, her tears were few, for within minutes, she sucked it up, smiled and walked off. It has bothered me to this day because I’m not sure if I made the right decision.
Was I too critical or not patient enough?
Did she really love me, is that why she cried for the first time?
Why did she smile and never look back again if she truly loved me?
Can someone with OCD love truly or will the task always be #1?
2006-08-26
18:44:28
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