Do men think that men always cheat on their wife? How common do you think it is?

Question

I would hope that most men and women are faithful, but experience and opinions steer the other way. Men? Opininons?

Answer 1

I'm a guy. Guys cheat. A lot. Someone cheated in my first marriage. The other person wondered if it was their fault for "not taking care of business." The cheater didn't try to hide it. Both of them let the marriage die, and one of them (maybe both) cheated. Not cool.

I think you're really asking "how do I know if he is?" The fact that you're wondering tells me that he probably is. But you can't go crazy just from some internet idiot's gut feel. Do you know how to tell when he lies? Cheating is about the most difficult lie in the world. So if you can usually tell if he's lying, ask him to his face and see what his face tells you. You better have a reason to be suspicious, cause if he ain't cheating and you ask him, he's going to be awfully hurt.

Answer 2

No its not just men that are cheaters. As a matter of fact, I have seen more women then men as cheats. I experienced my best friends wife come to me for sex as well as my wife's best friend and to top it off my wife's sister asked me for sex too. I have been approached by a few other married or attached woman looking for a fling on the side. I never went out looking for anything outside my relationships until I experienced my wife's infidelity for the third time. Now I will do whoever, whenever, wherever I want. I try to stay away from married women as they just turn me off and tend to be more unstable. I do like being with my wife's best friend now and then, she is divorced, she is fun and she has lost all respect for my wife for cheating on me, not being honest with her, and trying to using her for an excuse for where my wife was and what she was doing. We both enjoy the fact that we are screwing my cheating wife over, we enjoy the lustful sex and a fun secret lover friendship. This would have never happened if my wife never cheated on me so many times. If it wasn't for my 2 young kids, I would have been gone long ago. On the other side of this, men don't usually go around telling anyone they are cheating on their wifes, I say nothing, I leave no evidence of my own infidelity. I am waiting for the day my wife does figure this out. I want to see how she reacts to being cheated , especially with her best friend.

Answer 3

I think most people are faithful. When I hear of an affair regardless of whether it's a married man or woman....I'm shocked. But it does take two to tango!! From my experience just as many women and men are having affairs.

Answer 4

Hay dude or dudet believe it or not its just as many men as women who are not faithful. You may see a lot of men who have gray hair and have women who are young at their sides, but don't kid your self there are a lot of women who have younger men holding their hands. it just that you think its their son their holding on to and its not. how most view life is not what most people see the world as what it really is.

Answer 5

All too common on both sides of the marriage

Answer 6

Don't give him any reason to look for anything outside of the marriage. if he wants sex give it too him. if he wants sex w/ a man, let his *** go. if he wants you to cook, then learn to cook. don't be a doormat, by any means but wear sexy lingerie to bed, and don't nag about minuscule things and he wont have reason to stray. but if he doesn't want to be with you, (and cheating is a good sign that he doesn't) just separate.

Answer 7

Unfortunately, many men, married or not, think it is their right/privilege to cheat on their spouses or significant others. They think it is a measure of their manhood or attractiveness.

Answer 8

This place is only a microcosm. Worry about your own backyard instead of noseying around others.

Answer 9

ill cheat on my gf but thats cause i dont plan on marrying her

Answer 10

if it comes to cheat then both try's to cheat each other