okay my boyfriend wants to finger me, do guys like it when you make noises while doing that? or what? hes not going to think imma idiot is he?
&& he wants me to give him a bj, do i swallow? and what are the steps to doing a good bj?
2006-08-26 18:54:34 · 20 answers · asked by SweetiePie909 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes and yes. If you enjoy it than it is better for him too.
2006-08-26 18:58:05 · answer #1 · answered by Star_Zero 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should make noise. They like that. As for swallowing on the bj, do what you are comfortable but heads up you can catch an std if he has one and you don't use a condom
2006-08-27 02:10:33 · answer #2 · answered by theatrevenus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost make sure his hands are clean! As far as I know, guys like anything that deals with sex. If you feel like you want to moan and scream, do it, be natural with your sexuality. If he thinks you're an idiot, then he is not mature enough to handle sensuality. And if you are going to put your mouth on his penis, please make sure that is clean too!! Lightly kiss the head of his penis, then work your way down the shaft. Once you reach the bottom, use your tongue to work your way back up, go around the head and up and down the shaft. When you get back to the head, wet your lips and make sure your mouth is saturated with saliva, then slowly insert the penis into your mouth - NO TEETH! Do not take the whole penis at first, work your way down and then back up slowly but surely. Try not the choke yourself. Keep the penis wet and use your hands too, if you like. When he is ready to explode you can either just let it go all over the room, or in your mouth. Swallowing or spitting, is up to you and your love for each other. BTW and most importantly, does he return the favor? GOOD LUCK and have fun.
2006-08-27 02:25:06 · answer #3 · answered by nymischief 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go with the flow babe. if youve ever fingered yourself, youd know what it feels like. if you need to make noise, go right ahead. dont worry so much. but dont fake it. you should def swallow. go with the flow though for all this. id say kiss him some in tenderspots b4 actually doin that. but if you give him a bj, he should go down on you in return. a bj=eating out, & fingering=handjob. so if he fingers you, you should give him a handjob.
2006-08-27 01:59:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
umm well if you dont want to do those things break up with him because he kind of sounds like a jerk. But if you want times on a good bj then go watch fast Times at rigdemount high .
2006-08-27 01:56:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
finger him?
why do u ask us about a bj u should be asking him what he likes or wants you to do to him...thats the best thing to do ..that way he can tell you and next time u will know how
2006-08-27 01:57:59 · answer #6 · answered by beailia@sbcglobal.net 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well,im a guy.it depends,noises make it more exciting .a good bj involves good tongue,and sucking.swallowing is not nessasary.
2006-08-27 01:58:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tease him. Lick his erm you know what before you get to the trophy. And it's okay to make sounds cause you enjoyed it so make sure he knows you enjoyed it kay? ^_^''
About the swallowing the erm you know what, it's up to you. You can spit it out if you want to.
2006-08-27 01:59:58 · answer #8 · answered by Vk-san 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes guys like it when u make noises, play with it using ur tounge and yes swaloow it has lots of protiens. give him deep throat.
2006-08-27 01:58:31 · answer #9 · answered by sanJose_Guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds good to me. Yes you swallow, it's good for you, full of vitiam C.
2006-08-27 01:58:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a little noise is ok but not alot . and swallon is nasty and the other u have to figure on your own
2006-08-27 01:58:39 · answer #11 · answered by pudding_pops2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋