Family & Relationships - 24 August 2006

how can i get my useless ex to pay towrds his 2 kids upringing without causing an argument? He thinks he,s doing me a favour giving me a tenner towards something once every 6mths, im on income support and so have been told i cant clain child support because apparently my income support covers the cost of lookin after 2 kids 7 days a week, (not). Plus he now has 2 more kids which seem to get everything from him, i feel like i shouldnt have to ask for things from him for the kids, as a dad he should want to look after them dont you think? Any thoughts please?

2006-08-24 09:48:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I can't find boys attractive anymore. The only person I think about is that girl. And she's bi like me, but she likes my sister who is straight. This girl is a very good friend of mine, and so I pretend not to like her. But it hurts when she mentions her attractions to my sister. Should I tell her how I feel? Would it be awkward since she likes my sister?

2006-08-24 09:47:35 · 20 answers · asked by Ruth 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My best friend just found out that her daughter was molested by a close family friend. The reason why her daughter didn't say anything was because she is afraid her dad will do something to the guy and go to jail. The court has the papers already - I guess they are going to press charges - he is in jail now for DUI, so it's going to take a while. Anyways, my question is - what can I say to her? Her daughter is like a daughter to me... I know the guy too and it pisses me off that they have known him for so many years, and gave him all their trust, treated him like a brother and yet he does this?! I also want to know how can we some how control her dad - he will find out about it eventually!! I know he will be hurt, full of anger, and will do something about it without thinking clearly. I have no clue on what advise I should give - can anybody help?

2006-08-24 09:47:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok my girlfriend and I are great. when christmas comes around we would be dating for around 6 months. I was thinking that if things keep going the way they are I would get her a promise ring. would that fit the timing? I dont want her to freak or anything. please help it has been on my mind lately...

2006-08-24 09:47:22 · 10 answers · asked by Jay B 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-24 09:46:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

the gazing into one another's eyes (seeing only each other) or standing back to back with one another seeing the world?

2006-08-24 09:46:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

This is probably a stupid question, but here goes. I am 24, and I have met a man online who is 45. I have already told him that I am a virgin and am waiting for marriage, and he has said he's fine with that, yet whenever we talk he inevitably brings up the topic of how bad he wants to have sex with me - he even tries to initiate phone sex. My friends and family all tell me that he is only after one thing. The problem is I really like him, but I'm not sure if my friends/family are being overprotective or if maybe I'm just being too trusting and naive. I have dated older guys before (10+ years older), but this is the oldest I've ever gone. I'm just not sure if when I meet him he will try to force himself on me (based on comments he's made on the phone). If anyone could give me their opinion or advice I would greatly appreciate it!

2006-08-24 09:46:21 · 41 answers · asked by Shorty 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-24 09:46:13 · 7 answers · asked by Jeff Hardys Baby 1 in Singles & Dating

if you say wax please recommend a good product for the job, and oh do you trim it first? before waxing i mean.

2006-08-24 09:45:09 · 42 answers · asked by Kate B ♥ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-24 09:45:05 · 24 answers · asked by Kaitlyn 1 in Singles & Dating

Last night my boyfriend came over and we had dinner and watched a movie...I was drinking some wine...not getting drunk or anything...acting a little silly but once the movie was over I asked him to help me clean up the deck because we barbecued out there....Well he was huffing and puffing acting like a child....I guess he didnt want to help me..He was gathering his things to leave and I was just like why are you in such a rush to take off...and he was just like you are acting stupid and dumb....So he took off quicker than a flash. Grant it, i may have been a little tipsy but not ridiculous i barely ever drink...every once in awhile..and my friends have told me that my personality doesnt change i may just be a little more livelier...anyway, ive been around my boyfriend plenty of times while he has been hammered......It just really irritates me that he would treat me so unkind. Do you think i am overreacting? Today he just said I was being dumb.

2006-08-24 09:44:27 · 6 answers · asked by karaoke742000 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a daughter who is 15 years old & my own business but I still feel like I can't cope with being grown up. I look to my daughter for advice & I don't seem to be able to make desitions on my own. I want to be independent in my own mind. I wish I was a child back at home with my parents safe and secure. Why do I feel this way?

2006-08-24 09:44:12 · 27 answers · asked by Another Planet 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

how can i make it up to a girl if i was supposed to go somewhere with her (but left her for like only 2 minuites so i could go say whats up to some friends) and now shes mad and didnt want to talk to me she called me dirty and i dont take that so i left...but from the moment i left i felt dirty and it rle rle hurt because shes some one i care about ALOT. please help me, id prefer answers form girls

2006-08-24 09:43:19 · 5 answers · asked by sony a 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-24 09:43:11 · 7 answers · asked by john 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I want my boyfriend to just disappear. He is emotionally unavailable, refuses to work full time. He is dampening my dreams and stifling my growth as a person. He is smart mouth and very judge mental of my friends and family. He rationalizes every bad situation he is in and fails to see that he is in a bad situation at times. He hates the fact I am on the computer or phone or going anywhere w/o him and expects me to make time for him sexually. Constatnly accuses me of cheating, or trying to expose my self to others, an example is my bra strap showing or capri short he says is sexy, but when I leave the house now the shorts belong to my eight y.o daughter. He just tried to kiss me I said no and he replied don't ask me to help you do anyting and walked out of the house (I go through this everyday he leaves the house). Recently he took my clothes and begged me for sex, then got mad and kicked furniture, then he will aplogize. Every day it's something! Is this abuse? What kind?

2006-08-24 09:42:54 · 33 answers · asked by nene 3 in Singles & Dating

I've always wanted to try it with a older woman.

2006-08-24 09:42:53 · 4 answers · asked by Gmaster_97 1 in Singles & Dating

And teach her to golf? Lots of nice positions I can think of..........

2006-08-24 09:42:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

waxed or natural?

2006-08-24 09:40:35 · 23 answers · asked by rocker_grl 1 in Singles & Dating

Girls usually don't want to talk about sex, especially not to guys, but at the same time crave for a dick?

2006-08-24 09:40:27 · 10 answers · asked by mk7_2zzge 1 in Singles & Dating

at what level should you call someone you are dating your "boyfriend" or "girlfriend"?

2006-08-24 09:40:16 · 4 answers · asked by georgetta 1 in Singles & Dating

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2006-08-24 09:40:10 · 28 answers · asked by TAMSIN25 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-24 09:40:00 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband is currently in Iraq, but coming home next month for his 2 week leave. Are any of you doing anything special for your spouses' return, and what are some suggestions from those of you who have already spent the 2 weeks? Any soldiers reading this that have suggestions on what we should do for you guys when you come back! I am anxious and nervous for his return! Also any tips for interacting or involving our almost 2 year old son?

2006-08-24 09:39:57 · 1 answers · asked by ALFimzadi 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

If so, how long should you be made to wait between releases?

2006-08-24 09:39:27 · 6 answers · asked by Rainy Day 2 in Singles & Dating

be honest after hitting her the first time does it get easier?

2006-08-24 09:39:26 · 14 answers · asked by slaphappy 3 in Singles & Dating

i really like this girl but i broke up with her friend not too long ago and i dont know if i should ask her out and i still want to be friends with the girl i broke up.

2006-08-24 09:39:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My ex is leaving for the army on tuesday. Our breakup was pretty bad and we havent really talked much. I talked to him a few days ago and we decided to get together before he leaves. I have slowly felt myself moving on so will seeing him set me back in the moving on process or is this good closure for me?

2006-08-24 09:39:07 · 12 answers · asked by andrea lynn 3 in Singles & Dating

i have deep fellings for somebody that i knew no longer than a year. that person is not the age that i am. so what should?

2006-08-24 09:39:00 · 17 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

Have you ever encountered a person who is just, unbelievably obnoxious that you wanted to scold no just to make you feel good, but to bring that person to the realization of know, this sh1t has to stop and your working everybody elses nerves. How would you do it?

2006-08-24 09:38:59 · 5 answers · asked by v_palmer985 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Except my first girlfriend everyone i've seen since has been of a large build. I'm quite well built to. I don't go out of my way to meet big women but usually the women i find attractive are overweight

2006-08-24 09:38:33 · 18 answers · asked by Andrew H 1 in Singles & Dating