My ex is leaving for the army on tuesday. Our breakup was pretty bad and we havent really talked much. I talked to him a few days ago and we decided to get together before he leaves. I have slowly felt myself moving on so will seeing him set me back in the moving on process or is this good closure for me?
2006-08-24 09:39:07 · 12 answers · asked by andrea lynn 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My opinion is if and when you see him your heart will tell you how you feel. And after seeing him if you feel that you should still move on it'll be one step you won't have to hesitate in making because you will have a clear concious and it's better to know that at least you didn't end up hating him or something.
2006-08-24 09:48:43 · answer #1 · answered by MIA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! dont go back to him..espeacialy if the breakup was bad...if your moving on that is good...you dont want to just push away all that you gained moving on and put yourself back in a bad relationship again...you guys broke up for a reason and being together again will only give you the same fate unless things have really changed between you both...it wont be good closure and it will only bring back those memories and feelings from back then...but do what you will...good luck!
2006-08-24 09:44:12 · answer #2 · answered by sara ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frankly Andrea only you can answer that question. However, I think some closure is necessary (assuming you two were together for a while...). Speaking from the perspective of a guy, I can honestly say I wish my ex and I had just one last long conversation and hug before we finally parted ways. Perhaps it may bring you two to realize that you really want to be with one another or maybe it will show you just the opposite. Whatever it does, I don't think it will hurt you from moving on.
2006-08-24 09:42:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, breaking up is all the closure you need. You need to move on. Seeing him again will definitely set you back because if you think about it, getting together with him does absolutely nothing for you.
2006-08-24 09:42:37 · answer #4 · answered by Lyon D. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would see him as he is leaving for the army. But whether or not it will set you back or help you get closure, you won't know until you see him.
Only you can answer that. If you don't see him, will you regret it or be happy with that decison? Think about it and do what your heart says.............
2006-08-24 09:42:19 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not a good idea. He's just looking for one last f*ck. Don't do it. You're doing so well with the moving on process. Don't mess it up now on some jerk.
2006-08-24 09:42:22 · answer #6 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really feel it is important to 'get together' with him before he leaves, keep it VERY impersonal. You can not save him. Don't try to.
He is moving on too and that's a good thing.
2006-08-24 09:42:04 · answer #7 · answered by Puzzler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would see him probably will be good closure.
2006-08-24 09:40:53 · answer #8 · answered by aggie babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go see him there is a war goin on you might not see him ever again,
2006-08-24 09:41:07 · answer #9 · answered by Richie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, you'll have to figure this out for yourself.
2006-08-24 09:40:46 · answer #10 · answered by lynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋