Family & Relationships - 22 August 2006

i asked this question previously- in a nutshell i am a 39 year old physician that is sleeping with a 23 year old married nurse, for about 2 weeks now. I received the feedback answers before, but i need new advise. she has been great and i am really enjoying time with her, not only sex. she has a daughter that i want to meet. this nurse is gorgeous, blonde hair, blue eyes, looks like a playboy model. she was homecoming queen a few years back. i never had a girl that is this hot and like her, i want her, am i still doing the wrong thing....

2006-08-22 18:31:20 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We are Indian, engaged & planning to marry soon. Since he is working in U.S on Ship he comes after six months for two months leave. I want some tips regarding long distance relation.

2006-08-22 18:30:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-22 18:29:44 · 14 answers · asked by dsgc05™ 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-22 18:28:32 · 13 answers · asked by steve l 2 in Singles & Dating

I know men are visual creatures...and that they just want to see as many boobs as they can. I try not to take it personal....because I know the pre-occupation doesnt have anything to do with me. My bf and I have been together for around 6 months now, and a few weeks ago he told me he was going to go to a strip club with his brother.Hes very honest and he doesn't keep things from me. It didnt make me mad he was going, but it did bother me.I wonder why if a guy can see (and touch!) for free...why would be pay for it ? I have been to strip clubs, and I offered to take him for his bday a few months ago....we ended up not going, but I think that also made him think I was OK with him going.The part that really gets me is when they get REALLY close....I just dont like the idea of another girl touching my man!! I think as long as he just watched from his chair...and they stayed on stage I wouldnt mind at all. Im just looking for some male....or female (non biased) insight here.

2006-08-22 18:27:46 · 22 answers · asked by Kitten 3 in Singles & Dating

always want to talk about feelings and whatnot? I just wanted my girlfriend to come over so we could have sex before I got to work but I had to talk about feelings and other crap for about an hour before I could finally put my hand down her pants. Is this some kind of punishment? I don't care about her problems with her parents I just want to delivery the bologna and go!

2006-08-22 18:27:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i have a ? about my doctor that i have posted about before, to make a long story short, this is the same dr that flirts w/ me all of the time and makes sexual undertoned comments towards me all of the time. he calls me at home also and it never has anything to do w/ what i was seen for. but anyways, i was getting used to the attention and was starting to develope a mild crush on his old ***.lol so.... at my last visit i kinda said that it had been a while since i had seen him and i thought that my crush was starting to wear off.. lol thats when he looked up from writing and gave me a very surprised look. not a disappointed one just a shocked one and then i went into detail that i thought that he was one of the nicest dr's i have ever had, he was flattered and we kept talking and laughing, anyways, normally he schedules me like every 6 weeks for follow ups and normally what i am having done a nurse can do, but he made sure that he said that he was scheduling e for a 2 week check up

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also when he said that he was scheduling a 2 wek check up, he made sure that he said''it's gunna be WITH me''. do you think there was a reason for that? or do u think im just crushing? pls honest replies only :)

2006-08-22 18:26:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a friend.She is married for 3 years and also gave birth to their child recently. Theirs was an inter-caste marraige. My friend doesn't like her in-laws and she left her house as being guided by her mother. Now she is at her mothers place. She didn't tell me about this. I came to know all this from her husband. She told me that after her delivery she has gone to Mom's place to take rest for few months. She doesn't even call or SMS her husband but SMS/calls me. Now her husband is tensed and he calls me to make her understand. What do I do? What do I tell my friend?
I want her to go back to her in-laws, coz they are really nice people. How do I make my friend understand, what shall I tell her, how do I convince her?

2006-08-22 18:26:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have not been with girls from all over the countries. Im just curious of what it feels and taste like? Does it have a big different from different contigent? Anyone ever done that?

Let me know the country and the different. thank you.

2006-08-22 18:24:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-22 18:22:33 · 3 answers · asked by Vaisakh S 2 in Singles & Dating

Its my 6 month anniversary on friday,
I thought it would be nice to get my boyfriend a small gift (im 26, hes 29). anyway, Im terrible at keeping secrets, I get excited about buying gifts for people, so I txt him monday, saying I had bought him something small for our 6 month anniversary.
He got really angry, and told me that you should only celebrate 1yr anniversarys, and that I sent him a txt monday, to make him feel guilty so he would buy me a present.
we had a huge fight about it, I didnt expect him to get me anything, I thought I was doing something nice.
guys what do you think? Is he f..ked in the head?

2006-08-22 18:22:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

okay I am an overweight 18 yrs old straight male. I am 5'4. What do you guys suggest for me to wear, you know styles i.e jeans shirts or how can I dress myself to be more attractive or at least not disgusting to look at. You guys can check my appearance out at Myspace.com and look for playstation9@yahoo.com in the search email section.... Dont worry I block my face so no one can recognize me.... So please suggest me a new hairstyle (pics or website where I can imitate it) and clothings that I should look good at. Thank You and please Help ME friends.. Plus one more thing do you think I will lose weight by doing crunches and weight lifting with 20 mins of threadmill. give me some tips on how to be a nice looking 18 yrs old, you know the Ken doll, except this part you guys will be helping an obese individual being. Thank You and GOD bless you all.........

2006-08-22 18:21:59 · 9 answers · asked by I'll_give_u_10pts_if_u_answe 2 in Friends

i put Make-up on today and all the gals said i was looking cut to day coz of the mak-up and the guy i have a crush on was talkin to me through class i have grown up with him i am not poplur but not a geek i am friends with the poplur peopel and some of the geekHELP

i am confised

P.S. the make-up makes me look pawslan!?

2006-08-22 18:21:52 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When I think back to some of the things that I've said or done to loved ones over the years (and what has been said/done to me in return), I am just astonished by the level of cruelty. Even in my adulthood, I sometimes find myself using mean-spirited remarks against my wife that I would never be inclined to use against a co-worker or a complete stranger (i.e. someone far less important to me than my wife). It would seem that nearly all close relationships have this love/hate theme at their core. How can the two extremes co-exist? Is it possible that we *need* a bit of cruelty to keep us balanced - to keep us grounded?

2006-08-22 18:20:47 · 10 answers · asked by Wendel 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

What does it mean if a guy gives you direct eye contact all the time, smiles at you a lot, tries to make you laugh, touches you lightly a lot on the shoulders and back, gets jealous when other guys flirt/hug you, and is always is a gentleman and helps you out? Also, he calls you "mucho bonita" OH and btw: what if y'all don't speak the same language but can roughly communicate and their is a "spark" or connection between them. And when he talks to you he stares into your eyes and stands really close. and one girl said he's married, which he sure doesn't act it : why would he act this way?? oh also I am a Christian girl and I would never ever cheat with a married man because that is against my morals. I am not interested in a sexual relationship with him b/c I'm saving myself for marriage. I just genuinely like/care about him, but I don't want to fall for a guy who could be married....and I would feel horrible, absolutely awful for liking him if he's married.

2006-08-22 18:20:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-22 18:19:46 · 17 answers · asked by Tony T 2 in Singles & Dating

hmm..its hard to believe it ..but

2006-08-22 18:19:28 · 13 answers · asked by sher_2005 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-22 18:18:23 · 18 answers · asked by Sharon N 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I believe in God with all my heart in soul, so I know that he is in charge of it all..........but I've come from a hard past.......a difficult childhood, and terrible relationhips. I've come a long way, and have learned how to be healthy , both mentally and physically. I'm so scared......I want to marry this man. Any words of advice, encouragement.........warning? I try my best to relax and just enjoy this, but there is this looming doom....a feeling that I'll lose this because I've never been this happy before.

2006-08-22 18:17:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i read a question a most woman on there said they fake it.why do u bother if u have to fake it why do it at all it seems like a waste of time to me

2006-08-22 18:17:46 · 11 answers · asked by nvvlewis 3 in Marriage & Divorce

characters, future, am nimishaa, 22 yrs, 11 jan 1984. i want to know abt my marrige

2006-08-22 18:17:12 · 3 answers · asked by nimisha ravi 1 in Weddings

Alright. I've been thinking a lot lately, and I've been wondering how love works. I mean, people fall in love all the time, but only a select few of these couples last a lifetime. Is it possible to fall out of love? What is it that makes one relationship last until death, and another just a matter of months? Thanks.

2006-08-22 18:16:53 · 10 answers · asked by Alex 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-22 18:16:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do you ladies like to be oral juz like how we guys always fantasize? do u you like you lover boy or bf to get down on you and oral ur "g" spot? my gf loves it to bits but wouldnot wanna me to do it coz she feel its dirty for me. share and elaborate your answer so we can share pointers on it

2006-08-22 18:15:14 · 14 answers · asked by T0y tYo0n 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-22 18:14:57 · 29 answers · asked by mr_BIG 3 in Singles & Dating

well i have been engaged for 6 months . we are going to marry after 2 yers .. but she is allways upset about me that i dont listen to her .what she likes i dont like it ..how can i tell her .. how can i keep her happy...

2006-08-22 18:14:56 · 8 answers · asked by dev 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-22 18:14:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was listening to the radio the other day and I was shocked that men called in saying its ok to hit a woman "if she gets out of line".

I believe that so long as words are the only things being used, it is not ok to hit a woman - not even a corrective *slap* like the callers claimed.

I think the only terms it is ok to hit a woman is if...

#1 She becomes physically abusive using her press-on nails to attack you

#2 she attempts to get a weapon such as a knife or *gasp* a pistol

#3 she becomes phsyically abusive or life-threatening to the children

#4 my own life is in personal danger from her pre-menstrual B.S.

what do you think?

2006-08-22 18:14:09 · 19 answers · asked by neoconbush 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Him and i been going 4 6yrs now.and we just move 2 another city found a job and it's like we raw for the stupid's things he would tell me hurtful things as well as i would.and i would feel like leavin but i have a 6yr old wit him and am trying to figure out wat must i do and why we always fighting?

2006-08-22 18:13:42 · 12 answers · asked by Slim sexy 1 in Singles & Dating

We are Indian, engaged & planning to marry soon. Since he is working in U.S on Ship he comes after six months for two months leave. I want some tips regarding long distance relation.

2006-08-22 18:13:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships