What does it mean if a guy gives you direct eye contact all the time, smiles at you a lot, tries to make you laugh, touches you lightly a lot on the shoulders and back, gets jealous when other guys flirt/hug you, and is always is a gentleman and helps you out? Also, he calls you "mucho bonita" OH and btw: what if y'all don't speak the same language but can roughly communicate and their is a "spark" or connection between them. And when he talks to you he stares into your eyes and stands really close. and one girl said he's married, which he sure doesn't act it : why would he act this way?? oh also I am a Christian girl and I would never ever cheat with a married man because that is against my morals. I am not interested in a sexual relationship with him b/c I'm saving myself for marriage. I just genuinely like/care about him, but I don't want to fall for a guy who could be married....and I would feel horrible, absolutely awful for liking him if he's married.
2006-08-22 18:20:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I met a guy like that at me university and turns out he was acutally married but his family was in another country. anyhow... i would keep the relationship extremely distant, like hi how was ur weekend and then bye. dont eat lunch or go for a friendly dinner date for him because is is only sending him the message that you like him like he likes you regardless if u keep reminding him that the 2 of u are just friends. And the more he gets jealous of other men talking to u, means he is already taking ur friendship very seriously and in a way/direction that you might not exactly be looking for which is sexually or at least more intimate than it should be especially if he is married. theres nothing wrong with being friendly but dont be over friendly do not flirt with him or touch his shoulder or anything because that only sends him the message that his mannerisms are something that you enjoy and he will only continue to do them. I would keep the conversations short because the more u engage with him the more and more he is going to think u like him the way he likes you i know it is difficult especially if he is fun, sweet and just a cool guy. but please spare yourself the confusion, curiousity and even heart break if it would go so far. Congratulations for saving ur self for marriage that is really cool. But if you are already having doubts whether or not he is a spouse i would just remain friends
2006-08-22 18:26:54 · answer #1 · answered by s dot 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am glad to hear that you are saving your self for marriage. That is really awesome. Find out if he is really married, like ask him? If you are having a language problem get a book and look up words in his language. They are not great but at least it is something.
Good Luck.
PS, why do men act like this when or if they are married? That is a question several women have been asking for years... Other than they are feeding their ego. I can't find another reason.
2006-08-22 18:28:38 · answer #2 · answered by cinson1999 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find out if he's married. Ask the girl who told you he is. He seems to be pursuing you so you need to find that out very quickly. If you have to, ask for his home phone number and address and pay him a surprise visit. That should clear up the matter.
2006-08-22 18:24:14 · answer #3 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he likes ya for #1"mucho bonita means very pretty in spanish..u need to have a convo with him, find out what level is he on far as finding out if he's married or etc.. then you'll know
2006-08-22 18:22:32 · answer #4 · answered by lil bit 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's interested big time. You need to tell him you aren't interested in sex - that may be the only thing he's interested in. Get to know him, ask him straight out whether or not he's married.
2006-08-22 18:26:27 · answer #5 · answered by peach_campbell 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
erm...I think he is interested in u...but somehow, just like what u mention, u should find out the proof of that he is already marriage...and not just heard from ur friends....find out yourself...cos sometimes it's better for us to find out the answer...then i think u problem will be settle..good luck :)
2006-08-22 18:28:06 · answer #6 · answered by airsuffer 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do no longer hardship with this way of guy next time. i will additionally tell my daughter that once adult males consult from them in this form, they do no longer teach her admire. for this reason, do no longer might desire to coach those adult males any admire. Ingore them.
2016-10-02 10:38:31 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a bored married man looking for diversion....you sound young and naive, be careful
2006-08-22 18:23:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like u got him hook line and sinker
2006-08-22 18:21:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is not a single question in there.
2006-08-22 18:24:11 · answer #10 · answered by CallMeDigitalBob 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋