well i have been engaged for 6 months . we are going to marry after 2 yers .. but she is allways upset about me that i dont listen to her .what she likes i dont like it ..how can i tell her .. how can i keep her happy...
2006-08-22 18:14:56 · 8 answers · asked by dev 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first, if you love your fiance, you should listen to her always, not always either. but it should be give and take, you listen and then she listen, this is how a relationship goes. and always, you know its kinda hard thing for us men to swallow pride, but it is good to swallow pride than to lost somebody you love. oh i forgot something you should learn if you love her , learn to love what she loves too, and in contratry she should love what you love,. and more patienceeeeeeeeeee,. thats it
2006-08-22 18:21:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may be hard for you to hear but maybe you guys are not a match. You don't seem to have anything in common and she already given hint that you are not the one. I know you may love her but is love enough. You need to do some serious soul searching and think do you really want to marry her. You can't make someone happy but you can add to her happiness. If your not adding to her happiness and she is not adding to yours whats the point. Don't have kids until you know for sure she is the one. Good luck
2006-08-23 01:22:45 · answer #2 · answered by Apple 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have been together for along time so you must be doing something right. Look every couple has one or two things that one dosen't like ,that the other likes. So that's normal and I'm sure you have something in commen.right?
If you really love her you should be sitting down talking to her and see what she wants.
2006-08-23 01:25:50 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are totally unsuited to each other. You need to break your engagement and both of you should move on to someone more compatible.
2006-08-23 01:20:59 · answer #4 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you shouldn't be getting married if you have nothing in common. I think people should be friends with their spouse. Sorry.
2006-08-23 01:16:25 · answer #5 · answered by erthe_mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. Maybe she is that kind of person that never feels satisfied. Watch out!
2006-08-23 01:17:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way...talk to each other and try to understand her more. well, she should too.
2006-08-23 01:17:12 · answer #7 · answered by kito 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to be honest! if this is going to make u unhappy, it isn't any use!
2006-08-23 01:16:27 · answer #8 · answered by mbd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋