2006-08-22 18:14:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well lets just say feelings that you know are wrong but you have anyway and you want to overcome them because they would be destructive to your family and life.
2006-08-22 18:23:23 · update #1
You address them for what they are - just feelings, not fate, not destiny. Then you act like an adult, and remove yourself from the situation which is causing the temptation. Then you talk to someone, preferably a counselor, and figure out why you were tempted in the first place.
2006-08-22 18:46:25 · answer #1 · answered by Christopher B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have already accepted the fact you are doing something destructive. Confide in someone you trust, let them help you.
WALK AWAY FROM IT! It is goinbg to hurt more than your family and friends...
Good luck, Hon!
2006-08-22 18:35:50 · answer #2 · answered by Gothic Martha™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somehow, I know where your coming from.
We all have thoughts and feelings about things that we know are "not acceptable"............the thing is, you KNOW they are not acceptable. That is good.
Ask God to help you with these feelings.
You seem like you know right from wrong.....that means that you are ok. If these feelings are bothering you because you feel bad for feeling them, ask the Lord to remove them from you. To help you with them. And just remember.......
We ALL have things inside our brains that we know that we should not share. That is the "free will" that God gave us. Knowing when to act on them or not to is the key........and for mental and spiritual peace, go to the Lord......run to him......He is always waiting for you.
God Bless.
2006-08-22 18:44:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By distracting yourself with other things.
Try not to dwell on it as much as possible.
Stay away from temptation.
An ounce of prevention is equal to a pound of cure.
2006-08-22 18:34:22 · answer #4 · answered by ladyluck 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Meditate. Controlling the mind is biggest challenge! Are you game for it?
2006-08-22 18:20:32 · answer #5 · answered by Sam1969 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Feelings don't come with "shoulds" or shouldn'ts". You either have them or you don't. What you shouldn't do is act on them. That, at least, is within your control.
2006-08-22 18:18:08 · answer #6 · answered by Bethany 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
first of all dont take it too hard on urself..ur human...ur supposed to have feelings.
now that u have them..jus dont think about them too much..try thinking about something else,or get urself into some useful work.
2006-08-22 18:25:15 · answer #7 · answered by bianca 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Indulge yourself in your vices, it's the only way to live.
2006-08-22 18:16:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Bethany.
2006-08-22 18:23:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What feelings? Good questions get good responses.....
2006-08-22 18:18:55 · answer #10 · answered by Tony 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋