I have a friend.She is married for 3 years and also gave birth to their child recently. Theirs was an inter-caste marraige. My friend doesn't like her in-laws and she left her house as being guided by her mother. Now she is at her mothers place. She didn't tell me about this. I came to know all this from her husband. She told me that after her delivery she has gone to Mom's place to take rest for few months. She doesn't even call or SMS her husband but SMS/calls me. Now her husband is tensed and he calls me to make her understand. What do I do? What do I tell my friend?
I want her to go back to her in-laws, coz they are really nice people. How do I make my friend understand, what shall I tell her, how do I convince her?
2006-08-22 18:26:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You really can't do or say anything. That is something she has to decide on her own. If she is crazy enough tol leave over an in law she has got it bad.
2006-08-22 18:30:19 · answer #1 · answered by just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start being her friend and listening to her and seeing that as a grown up she now makes her choices support her choices. If her husband calls you tell him to call her and not place you in the middle it's not your job.
2006-08-23 01:32:07 · answer #2 · answered by lol_des 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did it cross your mind that may be she's having some post partem depression i think you should just stay out of it this isn't your marriage if the husband really wants to fix things let him think about it you could loose you friend
2006-08-23 01:34:17 · answer #3 · answered by murkymom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are too involve in your friend business. She is a grown woman why are you all in her business. You have no business talking to her husband about their personally problem. You should be a friend to her and asked her why she doesn't want to be their.
2006-08-23 01:32:28 · answer #4 · answered by Apple 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could be suffering from post partum. But what if soemthing happened in the relationship that she hasn't shared with you? I think you should let them work it out on their own.
Good luck, Hon.
2006-08-23 01:31:06 · answer #5 · answered by Gothic Martha™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't,It's her problem and her husbands not yours.Which one of them are you really friends with? Just be there to let them vent but let them make up there own minds.
2006-08-23 01:31:45 · answer #6 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There need to be a huge reason she left.
And really it isn't your job to fix her life. That is up to her and her husband.
2006-08-23 04:56:47 · answer #7 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her husband settle that..not u :) all u can do is talk to your friend, but if your friend didnt tlak to you in the first place, then i dont think she's ready to talk to anyone jsut yet..so if her husband really want her that bad, then, let him do the talking..let them settle their differences as husband and wife without anybody interfering :)
2006-08-23 01:38:03 · answer #8 · answered by just me:) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your friend that the grass maybe greener on the other side but you still have to mowe it go back where she came from and get over it
2006-08-23 01:30:42 · answer #9 · answered by aldo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. She can make up her own mind. Leave her to it.
2006-08-23 01:30:54 · answer #10 · answered by crazywoman88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋