Family & Relationships - 20 August 2006

im 17 i have a 3month old baby and i've been witht hte father of my son for 3 years and just last night i split with him becasue we had an abusive relationship more emotional than physically but both I need advice as to h how to cope with this i'm very sad and i'm can't stop crying even though I know i did the right thing because he did nothing for his kid or me and his friends came first, i'm scared i won't ever find anyone again, what do i do.

2006-08-20 17:59:14 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you think some women show-off when their man come around? easy detail or difficult.

2006-08-20 17:58:28 · 5 answers · asked by Daya 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been fortunate enough to find love. What is love to you?

2006-08-20 17:58:28 · 8 answers · asked by 0x0xGiggleBoXx0x0 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

do you

2006-08-20 17:57:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

sounds angry as fcuk. what should i do?

2006-08-20 17:57:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex and I were deeply in love two years ago when I left for college. After six months he broke up with me. He said the distance was just to hard for him to handle, I am seven years younger, and he wanted me to enjoy college and meet other people. Two weeks after he broke up with me he was calling and sending me messages..it was as if he really couldnt let go. I tried to ignore him for a month but then when he said "Are you still alive" I felt bad and called him. We have remained really close friends for the past year and a half..he calls me about every two weeks. I recently found out he has another girl that he seems to just be using for sex...because he told me he loves me and wants to be with me...its just that we are both living seperate lives right now. When I told him I couldnt talk to him anymore he got really emotional...I think about him 24/7 and he said he said that i am also always on his mind...we truely love each other but i am so emotionally hurting inside. any advice?

2006-08-20 17:56:41 · 3 answers · asked by Alexandra G 1 in Singles & Dating

a female who answered my question about me being cheated on, said that i was too nice of a guy and i was a puss and she would cheat on me also, actually i got a few answers like that. is that the mentality these days, taking advantage of men that actually treat women with respect and is honest?? just wondering

2006-08-20 17:55:41 · 21 answers · asked by craig h 1 in Singles & Dating

its a group of guys who dont like hoes. oh and muggle girls and ginger kids like them. i think hes just jealous that my dad makes 400,000$ dollars a year and that i can get any guy i want

2006-08-20 17:55:04 · 2 answers · asked by ash 1 in Singles & Dating

I love dancing.I started to dance when i was still 12 years old and now i am 19 years old already.I dance with my group and everytime there is an occasion or a party,we will invited to perform our dance that is a modern dance.Everytime there is a dance competition,we always won.The 1st time my bf meet me when i was dance for the anniversary party.He said he fell in love with me when he saw me on the stage.My relationship with my bf now is almost 5 years already but the problem now is,why he doesn't want me to dance anymore? What i mean is he doesn't want me to dance together with my group.He want me to dance with him only.He also said that he doesn't like me to dance without him and doesn't like many people look at me at the stage.Now,i already promise to him that i will quit from my dance group and i will dance with him only.Why my bf do like that?? What do you think?? Thanks for your answer...

2006-08-20 17:54:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

they're naked and shiny. they're both male...

2006-08-20 17:54:13 · 7 answers · asked by bunbury 3 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy a while ago online, I live in U.S. and he lives in Europe, I feel that we're connected in many ways and would really want to meet him in person. The problem is that I don't speak his language even though he understands English, so there's no way for me to live in his country; It will be hard for him to come to U.S. because of the diffculty of obtaining a Visa and the fact that he has all his family and a job there. My friend told me I should just go visit him for fun and have hot wild sex even though this relationship probably will never work out. Any advices and suggestions?

2006-08-20 17:53:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-20 17:52:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-20 17:52:32 · 17 answers · asked by .? 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

it desnt matter how many times that i think about it i still cant make my mind up. i want to get in contact with my old flame but dont know how to tell him that i wanted to be friends. i want to say soory for everything that hashappened but dont know how to. i would really like to catch up and see what he is doing. what should i say? should i send him a text message and see what happens from then or should i go and see him at his parents house? what would you do and why? should some one be friends with an old flame or should they just leave it alone? he wanted to be friends with me a few years ago but i just didnt want anything to do with him then becuse i needed to sort my self out. i had so many things on my mind. what should i do? my sister says that he wants to be friends and see what happens from there. what should i do? i have had this on my mind for a while. please help.

2006-08-20 17:52:09 · 9 answers · asked by been there done that 2 in Friends

2006-08-20 17:51:45 · 10 answers · asked by .? 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

soooooooo what if my boyfriend can't have sexual intercourse due to health problems and I am still very sexual active and enjoy sex...do you think its fair that I should be able to have a "friend" just for the purposes of sex or should I give up sex when I am not ready to do so

2006-08-20 17:51:02 · 17 answers · asked by north44girl 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-20 17:50:53 · 34 answers · asked by .? 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Besides the couples who only stay together for the kids...do you think kids deteriorate a couple's relationship over time?

2006-08-20 17:50:36 · 14 answers · asked by Justhere 2 in Marriage & Divorce

girlfriend / wife swapping with your friend?? I meant for sex. have you ever tried this?? best answer 10 points.

2006-08-20 17:48:23 · 26 answers · asked by Mr. Cool !!! 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-20 17:48:00 · 14 answers · asked by bright eyes 1 in Marriage & Divorce

sometime i think there is no good point in my life . i loved to study English but i have problem with my teacher . some time i think i'm useless there is noone to love .and noone to talk with.

2006-08-20 17:47:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

while my partner is at work what things should i get done through the day? i have a 7 year old at school and a 2 year old at home with me. my partner doesnt mind cooking tea and he doesnt seem to notice if the house is tidie or not but im starting to feel guilty because when ever he rings me from work and asks me what iv been doing i dont have much to say... using the computor, cleaning the house having coffee with a friend.
that sounds horrible. what more should i do.

2006-08-20 17:47:46 · 5 answers · asked by shandy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi, I was just wondering how tall a man has to be to be considered attractive. I'm 5'8" and am wondering if I measure up (get the pun?) to a guy that's 6'.

2006-08-20 17:47:40 · 12 answers · asked by Saywhat!? 1 in Singles & Dating

My bf at the time asked her to watch the dogs in the backyard He left his boxer pup with her at her home and my dogs stayed home Everyday she came by and fed them + gave H20 no walking or bathing. When he asked her to watch the dogs she made no mention that we were going to have to pay. He made this arrangement (I was going to have another friend watch my pups) upon returning home she said that she had called local animal boarding business and the would have charged me 460 for both dogs So she being a "friend" would cut me a deal of 220 I bought plenty of food for my animals He payed her for the "inconvience" of having a puppy in her house but my dogs stayed at my home she lives across the street from me this happened in June I told her that once I got a large sum of $ I was expecting I would pay her and since June she has been harassing me she tells my friend that she will take me to court There was no contract or agreement am i wrong to think i dont owe her what do i tell her

2006-08-20 17:46:29 · 14 answers · asked by GRISSIOM PURE GENIUS 3 in Friends

I have been there for the other 29 so missing one shouldnt matter.

2006-08-20 17:45:57 · 17 answers · asked by dwh320 2 in Marriage & Divorce

untangled from being wrapped around the back of my neck. What should I do now?

2006-08-20 17:45:50 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-20 17:45:07 · 3 answers · asked by BN 1 in Family

aside from getting caught or long distance affair?

2006-08-20 17:44:34 · 8 answers · asked by chic_a_cherry_cola 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I told my kids that i have made a decision. He either make a commitment not to abuse me anymore or he has to leave. Was i right to involve my kids about our situation?

2006-08-20 17:43:52 · 8 answers · asked by Joy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

why do women say with abusive men...is it because they think they love them?

2006-08-20 17:43:12 · 5 answers · asked by Deshawn & Keshawn's mom 3 in Other - Family & Relationships