I love dancing.I started to dance when i was still 12 years old and now i am 19 years old already.I dance with my group and everytime there is an occasion or a party,we will invited to perform our dance that is a modern dance.Everytime there is a dance competition,we always won.The 1st time my bf meet me when i was dance for the anniversary party.He said he fell in love with me when he saw me on the stage.My relationship with my bf now is almost 5 years already but the problem now is,why he doesn't want me to dance anymore? What i mean is he doesn't want me to dance together with my group.He want me to dance with him only.He also said that he doesn't like me to dance without him and doesn't like many people look at me at the stage.Now,i already promise to him that i will quit from my dance group and i will dance with him only.Why my bf do like that?? What do you think?? Thanks for your answer...
2006-08-20 17:54:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think that he's jealous and a bit afraid. he doesnt want you to dance with yoru group because he's afraid of other people watching and wanting you.
i think that if you want to keep dancing you should. your boyfriend should understand that you like to dance and you're not out there to impress other guys. you should ask him why he wants you to stop. if it's not a good reason tell him you want to keep dancing; reassure him that you want to dance because you love it and that you're not out there to impress other guys (especially if that's what he's afraid of)
2006-08-20 18:03:34 · answer #1 · answered by baby bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen he met you as a group dancer and should accept you for that. If this a lasting relationship how do you know he isn't gonna find something else he doesn't want you to do couz he feels he needs to be over protective. Don't give in or you'll be turned into a personnal slave. If he loves you n he needs to learn to comromise with you so it doesn't sound or feel like its uneven with the decision makin
2006-08-21 01:02:55 · answer #2 · answered by "Q" 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dance with whoever, whenever, wherever, it makes you happy. i have been dancing since i was old enough to walk, ballet, tap, jazz, everything. do what makes you happy, honey. Dont let a guy (whether you love him or not) get in the way of your dreams. You will regret it later. Good luck!
2006-08-21 01:01:17 · answer #3 · answered by Marie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear its not what i want or you want in a relatioship its like this what WE want.so talk to him and dont explain iam saying talking dear.talk to him on this issue and ask him to be a broadminded i dont know from what background he is but if he is from a consevative family the its natural to him that he is asking you to quit dancing.but according to me it will not end here next time he will ask you you should not go alone i am not saying he wrong or right.but certainly he just seeing his ownself.ask him he is the not the one who loves you,its you that also loves himhope you both will come to an final answer.
2006-08-21 01:11:17 · answer #4 · answered by wats_in_d_name 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is jealous to your partner.
2006-08-21 01:15:06 · answer #5 · answered by margie38us j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋