My ex and I were deeply in love two years ago when I left for college. After six months he broke up with me. He said the distance was just to hard for him to handle, I am seven years younger, and he wanted me to enjoy college and meet other people. Two weeks after he broke up with me he was calling and sending me messages..it was as if he really couldnt let go. I tried to ignore him for a month but then when he said "Are you still alive" I felt bad and called him. We have remained really close friends for the past year and a half..he calls me about every two weeks. I recently found out he has another girl that he seems to just be using for sex...because he told me he loves me and wants to be with me...its just that we are both living seperate lives right now. When I told him I couldnt talk to him anymore he got really emotional...I think about him 24/7 and he said he said that i am also always on his mind...we truely love each other but i am so emotionally hurting inside. any advice?
2006-08-20 17:56:41 · 3 answers · asked by Alexandra G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
funny u shold ask i had the same problem my ex lives about 30 min away from me and we both dont drive and it was me who aucally diden't want the long distance relationship because i never got to see him i loved him so much and like u i thought about him 24/7 my honest advise long distances do not work every little thing will start you too fighting.. there is so much to think about while you 2 are apart and every time u will see eatch other it will be only sex mostly so i do know how u feel and hence he is my ex now because it just does not work.. we are still good friends and i still love him but i know me and him will never happen because its to hard for the long distance hope i helped but only other people can give you advice u have to follow your heart and no matter what it will be a leason learned
2006-08-20 18:05:57 · answer #1 · answered by typhaniee0027 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
typhaniee0027, 30 min is NOTHING!! my boyfriend and i live 8 hours (550 miles) away from each other... and yet, we are still going so strong! long distance relationships do work... we've been going out for almost 15 months now! and my friend and her boyfriend have been going out for over 2.5 years and they live over 300 miles away and they are going to get married!
i think that you can make it work, if you try. of course, the 7 year age difference doesnt help, but it can work. you just have to want to make it work...
2006-08-21 01:19:39 · answer #2 · answered by baby bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as though you truly love each other. How about using Yahoo IM webcam chat to give each other some joy?
2006-08-21 01:01:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋