You need to be as nice to yourself as you are to others. People who are "too nice" often have low self-esteem and invite abuse into their lives.
People who are nice to themselves see the writing on the wall and walk away from bad relationships.
2006-08-20 18:05:49
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answered by Fred 2
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There is nice and then there is too nice. Too nice and too always there for you does not make for a very interesting relationship with someone. If you totally pamper a girl and always give her everything she wants or needs or incessantly agree with her, she will see you as weak, insecure, insincere, predictable, and boring. Thus, she will lose interest. Therefore, she will cheat on you until she finds a permanent replacement for you. It has nothing to do with the times we're living in... it has always been this way. No one loves an a.ss-kisser. They're nice to have around, they're reliable, but not anything long-term. Respect and honesty are great. But if you come across as 'too nice,' you doom yourself. Ever watch "The Simpsons?" Smithers loves Mr. Burns and kisses his a.ss all the time. Mr. Burns doesn't care whether Smithers lives or dies. Granted, it is a cartoon and Smithers is gay, but you get the picture. Mr. Burns would have a lot more respect for Smithers if he didn't simply kiss his a.ss all the time.
2006-08-20 18:10:57
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answered by dfhggd 3
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Being nice, considerate, and trusting is always a good thing, but when you start to be gullible and easily manipulated, that's a whole different story. It's really good that you're so trusting and from my understanding of you, willing to put your trust and full companionship into a relationship, but also, you have to be sure that you've found someone that will do the same to the same extent as you. Don't let women push you over because you're a nice guy. Just remember, their day will come where she reaps what she sows from doing you wrong. Also remember that all women aren't so devious and backstabbing. Hope that answers your question. ^_^
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2006-08-20 18:07:15
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answer #3
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answered by 0x0xGiggleBoXx0x0 1
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there's a distinction between being staggering & sturdy considering which you're look after and seek for to stay a virtuous existence or if are that way out of lack of self assurance - keen to declare particular once you recommend no, keen to do handstands and bend over backwards to "win" affection or interest. the 2nd form can honestly be taken earnings of and used via fact it rather is going to become glaring they are needy. you could actually nevertheless have a "sturdy and form" character helping others without finding for some thing in return and status business enterprise on what they'll do or won't do. permitting human beings to apply you for the incorrect or dishonorable motives will pass away all and sundry with a feeling of right and incorrect feeling undesirable approximately themselves. If somebody asks to repeat your homework tell them no, yet grant to describe something they want help with. it rather is being sturdy, staggering and conserving your individual rights.
2016-09-29 12:12:16
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answered by ? 4
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Not for me. I think those women were doing it for effects sake. I would never do that to any guy or person. But at sometimes I do think being too nice is bad. Because the more you open yourself up the more someone feels its their duty to use you. So thats y I keep my gurad up. I'm nice but distant. Some ppl need to be that way, since its the only way to survive in today's world.
2006-08-20 18:00:25
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answered by Bloody Kisses 4
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I think there are not enough REAL men who know how to treat a LADY and to many women used to idiots who are losers.
If you are nice and respectful I totally appreciate that. You will find some one who will appreciate you. There aren't enough men like you anymore. That is the real problem.
2006-08-20 18:02:20
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answered by Heather B 2
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i would love to have a man that would treat me with respect and be honest to me. I feel for the nice guys that do get treated badly, then they think that they are wrong. I don't think that you can be to nice, but you need to find someone that will appreciate it and love you like you should be loved
2006-08-20 18:00:53
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answered by Just Me 6
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It seems to be these days. Women dig the opposite (Jerks and inconsiderate idiots) At the same time I agree with the person who said be yourself. Dnt change for anybody, just yourself. If the women don't like you b/c of it....Oh well. They have no right to complain later on. Good luck !
2006-08-20 18:04:15
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answered by Chef 2
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in one word
YES
the world has no respect for anyone or anything anymore. It has become a "ME" world that is why so many people are in bad relationships or can't find someone GOOD. If people quit bing so self centered then things could get better. Women don't want "good" they want exciting and being bad is more exciting.
2006-08-20 18:04:33
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answered by ? 4
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i guess that girl wants to be abused or something...if i get into a relationship...that would happen to me...ppl take advantage of me b/c im really nice...but they are the ones who lose in the end...they just lost a nice guy...and according to women...its hard to find MR. RIGHT...ya know...
2006-08-20 18:01:17
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answered by ξℓ Çђαηφσ 7
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