Family & Relationships - 19 August 2006

I think mine was getting married too early...at 20...and having a baby soon after...that's just too young to be married I think. ...it's many years later...my children are grown....and I am a widow....but do have a great b.f. now.

2006-08-19 11:31:57 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I share a room with my sister and my brother and my sister always torment me and bother me when i am doing something. So i want to have a place where i can be alone and nobody will bother me. But i want it to be in my house...?

2006-08-19 11:31:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Some lesbian women fancy butch (manlike) women? and some gay men fancy effeminate girly men? i thought if you were truly gay you would want someone of the opposite sex to be a proper example of that sex not some pseudo type? I mean to say if I had to sleep with a woman I would want her to be as beautiful as possible as I would want to sleep with a woman not someone who looks like a man, because if I wanted a man - then I would sleep with a man?

2006-08-19 11:30:02 · 17 answers · asked by CHARLOTTE B 3 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I have been separated for almost seven months. She filed a restraining order against me back in January. No physical abuse ever occured although I did chew her out several times about the affair she had last summer/fall while I was away on military duty. Since then, my four year term ended, I got a new job and basically started a new life. It's been tough but I'm just now getting used to it. Now all of a sudden, my wife wants to get back into my life. When I go to see my son, she talks about wanting to date me again and get to know me again. She knows that I've met the other guy and got some evidence from him. She just now confessed everything (after the separation agreement.) She even confessed that she filed those complaints against me in order to have leverage in a divorce case. What she doesn't know is that I went on a f*ck spree with five different women during the separation. I know that it will not work. I want to end this nicely but don't know how. Any suggestions?

2006-08-19 11:29:58 · 7 answers · asked by Thomas K 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-19 11:29:45 · 9 answers · asked by glossy, flossy, & fly 2 in Singles & Dating

i am a single mom with 2 young kids.. one is special needs...what are guys really thinking ... do they are do they not want to step up to the challenge...

2006-08-19 11:29:44 · 8 answers · asked by motherlyisis 2 in Singles & Dating

can't help being that way

2006-08-19 11:28:56 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Say I've been dating this fellow for 4 years now and we got engaged last week
To come to the point
1 year ago, my boyfriend did something, i wish not to discuss and my mother resent him for it. she told me to stop seing him but i didn't
My mother hates him.
I just want advise on how to tell my mother about the situation
Basically I want her to accept him and care for him as she does for my sister's fiancee
Any sujestions
Plus I'm not trying to match up to my sister and I know that it will take time for her to come around.

2006-08-19 11:28:56 · 10 answers · asked by annie 5 in Singles & Dating

I asked on of my friends I used to work with to be my maid of honour and I asked my cousin from out of state to be my my matorn of honour what can i do so no one get's their nose bent out of shape since i did ask both of them to be a part of my wedding?

2006-08-19 11:28:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My husband is too lazy to get his own account going so I am asking for him.... maybe that alone is the answer....

2006-08-19 11:27:56 · 7 answers · asked by jamieasue24 2 in Marriage & Divorce

please advise if others feel the same way or am i overreacting. i feel like he should buy playboy .. not that i care for that either but finding the nastiest porn mags just seems worse. it seems like a turnoff to me .. am i overreacting?? help me or him to see the light..

2006-08-19 11:27:06 · 7 answers · asked by sylonthego 3 in Family

Say I've been dating this fellow for 4 years now and we got engaged last week
To come to the point
1 year ago, my boyfriend did something, i wish not to discuss and my mother resent him for it. she told me to stop seing him but i didn't
My mother hates him.
I just want advise on how to tell my mother about the situation
Basically I want her to accept him and care for him as she does for my sister's fiancee
Any sujestions
Plus I'm not trying to match up to my sister and I know that it will take time for her to come around.

2006-08-19 11:26:33 · 2 answers · asked by annie 5 in Singles & Dating

If not, how long did you date before you got married?

2006-08-19 11:26:30 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-19 11:24:47 · 10 answers · asked by Foo 1 in Friends

How long does a broken heart last for? Minutes? Hours? Days? Weeks? Months? Years? Forever? Should we keep our heart out of our relationships? Will this protect us? If not, how do we protect ourselves? I'm tired of hurting, aren't you? What's your biggest or most memroable hurt? Does it still linger? Did you learn from it? Do the tears ever stop or are they proof to the world, yes I do hurt? I'm not a dark, crazy, or hurtful person, so why do I always end up on the wrong end of the "pain meter"? When do my lessons end and I find peace and happiness? If anyone can answer these mysteries, then please try, and help my understanding of what is going on. Please help. Please answer.

2006-08-19 11:24:10 · 14 answers · asked by The Unknown 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my ex boyfriend. told me he wanted me to have his baby. he wanted us to start trying soon as possible. he decided he wanted a little girl and chose a name. each time we tried baby making in bed he'd really go at it. different postions. he was really determined to get me pregnant. after sex he'd rub my tummy. we'd talk about all the babies we were gonna have. especially about the one we was trying to concieve. he'd talk about being a protective and loving father. a year we spent trying. and i finally got pregnant. we were both happy. i don't know where things went wrong. he started to always not be around. missed hospital appointments, scans and the birth. about a month after the baby was born, he just left. without a word. i was left distarught. i asked for child support but he refuses to give any. emotionally and fiancially. i don't understand. he wanted me pregnant with his child. he led me to believe he was going to take care of his child. so why has he left me to go at it alone?

2006-08-19 11:24:05 · 11 answers · asked by sweetie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

there's this boy in my grade and we're pretty good friends, but i like him a little bit more than a friend and all his friends think we should go out, what should i do? I know it's making him feel uncomfortabe

2006-08-19 11:23:36 · 10 answers · asked by kara 1 in Singles & Dating

After my mother died, my father went thru his 'midlife crisis' (at 65). Visiting all the places he thoiught were filled with loose women...Paris, Rome, then he hit on mail order brides in the Philipinnes...and married one! She was 2 years younger than me and I am the baby of the family. Over the next 20 years, he moved all of my mother's belongings (crystal, Hummel collections, furniture) to the Philipinnes. Totally cutting off all relations with his 'other family', but still laying on the guilt that we don't write enough! He is now 86 years old and she has wspent most of his retirement $$$ on their 'estates'. What do I do about all of my mother's things...they belong here!

2006-08-19 11:22:54 · 9 answers · asked by WannaCheat 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have had no interest in sex and my significant other thinks i am not interested in him. i have explained my feeling to him but he just doesnt get it. he wants to be taken care of even if i am not in the mood. i think its completely selfish..can someone give me info that i can pass on to him?! help me...

2006-08-19 11:22:17 · 6 answers · asked by sylonthego 3 in Family

our signs say we are not a perfect match, but we really enjoy being around one another, we do disagree on somethings but doesn't everyone? serious answer's only please!

2006-08-19 11:21:55 · 20 answers · asked by rebelicious_angel228 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, so I don't know if it's just me, or what but do you guys love being held by somebody you love? Just like...sitting there in their arms?

2006-08-19 11:21:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

its my sister

2006-08-19 11:21:38 · 4 answers · asked by Letme 1 in Family

there is a guy that I have been talking to for like 4 months,and he thinks that he is the only one I am talking to.. How do i tell him that I have still been with my EX? My x and I have this weird relationship. we know we can;t be together because of trust issues, but we rock each other world in the bed room... how can I keep both, or is it not possible?

2006-08-19 11:21:31 · 16 answers · asked by Shonda 4 in Singles & Dating

well i met this guys hes really amezing, were getting engaged, but the thing is he wants to start a family with me soon, i really want to but im only 20 years old i still leave with my parents and my family will never be ok with me starting a family now, they not even up for me dating they think its a thing to do when u graduate college. but i really love him im just not ready to have kids now, i dont think he is either hes only 21, but hes on his own he's in the army. he can take care of me but i dont want to be depend on a men no matter how much he loves me i want to be able to do stuff by myself, i really think a kid could slow me down but he doesnt think so, he got everything plan out, how we gonna live taking care of us and our baby but i dont have anything plan, im afraid if i get pregnant now my parents would kick me out and never talk to me again, and i dont want that.
please help.

2006-08-19 11:20:35 · 6 answers · asked by Edwina n 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you guy's really think that Karr is guilty of murdering the sweet little innocent angel JonBenet Ramsey or is he just psychotic?

2006-08-19 11:19:11 · 6 answers · asked by rebelicious_angel228 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-19 11:18:08 · 16 answers · asked by Richard S 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-19 11:17:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to take a tour to Russis or the Ukraine in search of a mail order bride.I am wandering which area or city has the biggest selection of good looking women?

2006-08-19 11:16:54 · 16 answers · asked by JJ A 1 in Singles & Dating

do you use foreplay, and if so, what do you do to get yourself 'in the mood?
serious answers please, not for teenagers, etc.

2006-08-19 11:15:43 · 12 answers · asked by mistressmorro 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-19 11:15:24 · 24 answers · asked by Charlottestar 2 in Singles & Dating