i have had no interest in sex and my significant other thinks i am not interested in him. i have explained my feeling to him but he just doesnt get it. he wants to be taken care of even if i am not in the mood. i think its completely selfish..can someone give me info that i can pass on to him?! help me...
2006-08-19 11:22:17 · 6 answers · asked by sylonthego 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You are going through so much, your hormones are playing tricks on you, you are getting your baby ready for this world. Tell your husband it's not about him. It's about the hormones. Tell him how you feel, tell him what you think is going on. He is a grown up.. he should understand.
Have him read some pages on parenting.ivillage.com.
Good luck!!
2006-08-19 11:30:41 · answer #1 · answered by Shaana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women in the late 3rd trimester experience an extreme lack of interest in sex and others an extreme need for sex all the time. It's hormones, Hon. Tell your significant other that when he has a baby he'll know how you feel, lol. Hope things work out for you and congrats on the baby.
2006-08-19 18:44:32 · answer #2 · answered by The Nana of Nana's 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're kidding!? You're nine months pregnant and he's expecting sex?!
Tell him that your hormones are raging and that you're just not in a sexy sort of mood. If he can't understand that, he is being totally selfish.
He will also need to realize that after the baby is born, you won't be up for having sex for awhile.
Good luck, take care of yourself and stop worrying about your significant other.
2006-08-19 18:31:57 · answer #3 · answered by thinkofasong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a few dirty magazines and let him take care of himself in the bathroom and leave you alone!!! Your pregnant and he needs to understand that your not feeling the same right now. Everything will go back to normal...that is when the baby sleeps through the night :)
2006-08-19 22:53:35 · answer #4 · answered by nicki_wants_to_play 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your significant other to grow up - he sounds completely selfish and inconsiderate. Better yet, go buy a "fake belly" for him to wear for a few days and see how he would feel if he was "pregnant."
You should take care of yourself and disregard his immature demands.
2006-08-19 18:57:49 · answer #5 · answered by justagal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone who actually cares 4 u. not just sex.
2006-08-19 18:33:58 · answer #6 · answered by illustrator #12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋