please advise if others feel the same way or am i overreacting. i feel like he should buy playboy .. not that i care for that either but finding the nastiest porn mags just seems worse. it seems like a turnoff to me .. am i overreacting?? help me or him to see the light..
2006-08-19 11:27:06 · 7 answers · asked by sylonthego 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
should i also mention that i had a great body .. 5ft 6 and well proportioned..except at the moment i am 37 weeks pregnant. due any time.. definitely cause for my hormones to cause my mood swings.. which doesnt help any.
2006-08-19 11:41:52 · update #1
looking at porn for any reason is wrong. he is disrespecting you. you should really think about the relationship and if you want someone like that raising your child
2006-08-19 11:45:49 · answer #1 · answered by one hot mamma 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-05 04:43:04 · answer #2 · answered by zubrzycki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that you are overreacting...He's still with you and you're real. Who cares what he looks at then? I could really, not care any less about that kind of stuff and my husband. He always comes home to me.
2006-08-19 11:33:15 · answer #3 · answered by baby_girl_1219 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it a fact that guys are into visual turn on when women are more into a romantic mood. but there is no problem with himm looking at the porn. why does it bother you ????
2006-08-19 12:20:35 · answer #4 · answered by toolman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are overreacting - it's a guy thing
2006-08-19 12:45:43 · answer #5 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just need some self-esteem training to learn to cope and drop that jealousy/fear response.
2006-08-19 12:04:32 · answer #6 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are right he doesn't need to look at that crap it is just plain skanky. ask him if he likes your body and if he doesn't ask him why he likes those girls he should say he likes their body if he does ask him why he doesn't like yours? that should help..
2006-08-19 11:35:49 · answer #7 · answered by Ambeezy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋