can't help being that way
2006-08-19 11:28:56 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Theres defintaly a reason why ur single.
2006-08-19 11:32:34 · answer #1 · answered by CheerChic1022 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You probably do not have high self esteem and because you do not like yourself very well you do not like other women either. And if you do not like yourself you cannot help being a jerk. But if you can do something positive for yourself, and also for some other woman, you may be able to build on that.
Good luck.
2006-08-19 18:33:57 · answer #2 · answered by anteater 69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuz you can't help being that way?
seriously, either you are trying to "be cool" or you just have a lack of respect in general. the fact you admit you are a jerk i guess would be a step in the right direction - if you want to stop, that is!
i suggest stopping it, because a) it DOESN'T make you look cool, and b) you'll never find a great partner if you are always being an *** to her. you'll either get a girl with no self esteem and no personality who puts up with you, or else you'll get a girl who will leave you when she can't take it any more.
2006-08-19 18:33:55 · answer #3 · answered by carolynnnna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because you grew up around or still around men that either did not teach you any better and are abusive toward women, maybe you were hurt by your mother and you don't have a good relationship with her, or you are hurting inside and you are taking it out on others. I want to commend you on admitting that you have this problem and that is the first and important step. I would look into having a close relationship with God, and counseling or anger management sessions. Good luck.
2006-08-19 18:47:45 · answer #4 · answered by sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, its ok i am the same way. I can't help being mean to guys. but i think the thing to do is when you want to say something, think about it first. also it kinda depends on how much of a jerk you are. just try being as nice as possible. ok? good luck.
2006-08-19 18:39:44 · answer #5 · answered by Sweetie Pie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being a jerk is learned behaviour youre main role model was probably a jerk but its youre choice to carry on the jerk gene
2006-08-19 18:35:33 · answer #6 · answered by angelina_mcardle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you treat your mother like this? Do you treat sisters, aunts, neighbor females like this? Maybe you go too fast too quickly.. Maybe take things slower, much slower. Expect nothing out of them--just friends--and let things build. I don't know you but maybe you are being too impatient. At least you recognize this and they say that is a start. Just get out, take a walk, take deep breaths, talk to yourself. Good luck.
2006-08-19 18:55:32 · answer #7 · answered by old_woman_84 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are making the choice to be a jerk.
2006-08-19 18:35:05 · answer #8 · answered by Austinite 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably copying your "Role Model". Or maybe You had
issues with your "Mom" or other females instrumental in your
child-rearing. Or maybe someone hurt you & you've misdirected
your anger onto innocent females. Search Yourself. We can't
know the source of your short-comings.
You can Help it. Check yourself.
2006-08-19 18:38:10 · answer #9 · answered by anitababy.brainwash 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you don't know how to be any other way , you need a reality check about how to treat women . you will never have a relationship if you don't straighten up your act .
2006-08-19 18:36:19 · answer #10 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i can answer that n many ways maye your gay maybe u'r not really a jerk u just wanted to c wat us women would say because if u were a jerk to us u owuldnt ask us or maybe it's because u havent had that man good experiences with women in your lifetime
2006-08-19 18:34:11 · answer #11 · answered by khandiqueen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋