Family & Relationships - 17 August 2006

Quite some time ago i was seeing a guy. We were really only meeting up and having sex not in a relationship. He had a Girlfriend & i had a boyfriend (yeah i know it aint good. I ended it in the end)

Anyway He sent me a text one day
Asking how i really felt about him.
I said what do you mean by that?
He replied Is it sex or do you actually have feelings for me.
I didnt know what to say and told him so.
He said Ok and that was that.

Why do you think he asked me that?

Ive always wondered but couldnt bring myself to ask him. I ended it soon after as i realised i wanted to stay with my current partner ( he knows i cheated by the way. I told him coz i felt so guilty. we are now married with kids)
But ive always wondered what the other guy meant.

2006-08-17 02:46:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-17 02:46:27 · 2 answers · asked by stanlly_x 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i want to move out of my house which is 15 min from my college and move 30 min away and pay $1500 a month for an apartment .........just because i cant deal with my parent anymore they nag and nag me so much sometimes i cant concentrate on doing my school work....my older sis moved out at 18 bc of the same reason......they make me too dependent on them.....they dont let me go out at the age of 19....my father still treats me like im 12.......my mother wants to buy me a car and father refuses so she hasnt gotten it..........not getting me the car they are making my daily activities dependent on waiting for them to use thier cars........i have a job during the summers but not during school because i mainly want to concentrate on my school work and not worry about my job taking up too much of my school time.........should i move out?..........what should i do in order to pay my large apartment bills? should i buy a car?.....how do i buy a car and not get sold a bogus car?..

2006-08-17 02:45:21 · 17 answers · asked by Pamela 2 in Family

i mean with out spendin a penny more based in the bed room. dont hold your self back any good idears

2006-08-17 02:45:21 · 32 answers · asked by *samzie* 1 in Singles & Dating

i've been with my two best frends for about 3 years now and their such a laugh. I thought that we were really close untill the other day wen i chekd their mail by accident. They were saying thingz about me like nxt tym they see me they shud bring a toothpaste 4 me coz my breath smells...i felt really hurt coz i trstd them so much...wot du i do...help?????

2006-08-17 02:44:48 · 17 answers · asked by gaWjus 2 in Friends

I really like this one guy and he's told me that he loves me.(aaah!) He asked me to be his girlfriend and I told him I would think about it.
The thing is, I'm 19 and I've never had a boyfriend before and I never bothered myself about it. On the contrary, I even love being celibate. I love the freedom and the lack of problems, but I'm also dying to love someone and be loved. I'm also worried I might not make a good girlfriend since I'm so inexperienced and he is.
I'd love to be his gf but I dunno if I want to give up my celibacy cause what if it doesn't work out? Then I'd be heartbroken and wish I'd never dated in the first place, blablabla!
What should I do?? It's the first time I ever trully like someone and he love me back!
Help!

2006-08-17 02:44:05 · 11 answers · asked by Au Naturelle 1 in Singles & Dating

My bf and I have been off and on and now he needs time away to think and figure out if we're meant to be or not. Last nite we hung out and had another talk and decided we aren't going to speak to each other again. What are some ways to get over this situation so I can just let him be and not think about it anymore.I know i need to give him time if it's ever going to work out but after a few days of not talking I start feeling so bad and missing him soooo much...ugh this sucks!!!..How can I help myself from not calling him- and trying to move on atleast for the time being???...HELP!

2006-08-17 02:43:34 · 14 answers · asked by BLoNdE22 1 in Singles & Dating

when in school, i aproached a lady and turned me down claiming i cant manage to sustain her.5yrs down the line i got a job as *** p.a to ceo.the same lady started chasing me 2gether with other who had rejected me.ladies do you ever look somebodies potential b4 saying yes or no?or you cancentrate to that moment.can somebody answer me.

2006-08-17 02:43:19 · 6 answers · asked by chef 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-17 02:42:58 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-08-17 02:42:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

less than £500 i dont like the ones in asda and i dont know where else to look. does anyone know of any of those fayres like monica on friends went to to get her wedding dress!

2006-08-17 02:41:32 · 35 answers · asked by hannah r 2 in Weddings

my parents feel that i shouldnt watch pg 13 movies but im 14 how is this
I watch them when i go to friends like i just watched shes thee man and failure to launch help?

2006-08-17 02:40:47 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-08-17 02:40:45 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I found some stuff from my bfs EX when i was cleaning our apartment (i recently moved in to his place). I have also found food left by the ex. Weve been together for one year and he still hasnt managed to get rid of everything from the ex! I feel bad, what should i do? Tell him too sleep on the sofa? burn everything?
Ahhhh!

2006-08-17 02:40:37 · 26 answers · asked by MaryJane 2 in Singles & Dating

i have my family,my friends,my job,my so called boyfriend and above all i have GOD..but then i am still SAD..

2006-08-17 02:39:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-17 02:39:41 · 16 answers · asked by nightcricket 4 in Singles & Dating

okay my friend said that the only reason ALL guys date you is to get sex than when they get it they leave and move on. Is that true?
Cause iv always thought that all guys were different and some were like that than others wanted a real realtionship..
Than she also says You cant fall in love in highschool Its infatuation That you have to be over 20 to fall in love.
But i dont believe that either.
What are your thoughts???

2006-08-17 02:39:03 · 6 answers · asked by STFUbeezy 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-17 02:38:50 · 7 answers · asked by Rock 2 in Singles & Dating

My fiane checks my Q&A, but I know he does it looking for some dirt. I don't know it's like he gets off doing this snooping stuff. It's a big turn off and makes me feel like I have to refrain from speaking freely and like I am a child! What would you do?

2006-08-17 02:38:37 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you dont love or care the man/woman you married, anymore?

2006-08-17 02:38:34 · 23 answers · asked by DiL 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend hasn't talked to me for almost 5 days and i'm not going to dump him so don't even suggest that. What should I do? I'm not going to dump him because he loves me. Guys if you haven't talked to your girlfriend in days What does it mean?

2006-08-17 02:36:11 · 38 answers · asked by k-la 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-17 02:35:28 · 2 answers · asked by GREEK LOVER 1 in Singles & Dating

What made it that way? Was it the food, the flowers, the music, the setting, etc?

2006-08-17 02:34:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-08-17 02:34:46 · 21 answers · asked by tot 2 in Friends

2006-08-17 02:34:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

would you find it weird if i would lay my head in you lap?

as if we were sitting on the couch watching TV and i layed my head in you lap as we watched TV maybe holding you hand too.

would that be weird or romantic?

2006-08-17 02:33:52 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

because if you're left for another man, you KNOW there's something you could never have given him, or else theres something you've done that was really really bad!!!!

2006-08-17 02:33:52 · 10 answers · asked by hannah r 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I used 2 talk with my gal frnd only over da phn line (she lives in aother city). She is now starting avoiding me suddenly, but I dont kno da reason. When I talk 2 her, she doesn't show me dat she is avoiding. I m very much dissappointmnt. Plz tel me how can get her back....

2006-08-17 02:33:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is it possible for a person after a few very bad relationships and getting hurt, to programme himself/herself not to fall in love again to avoid getting hurt again?

2006-08-17 02:32:52 · 19 answers · asked by river2 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

he is always trying new experiments , its my neccecity to live with him , i can't leave him , can't resist him , what should i do and how ?

2006-08-17 02:32:33 · 19 answers · asked by sunnytheeinstein 1 in Friends