wot du ya du wen ur 2 best frends talk bout u behynd their back??

Question

i've been with my two best frends for about 3 years now and their such a laugh. I thought that we were really close untill the other day wen i chekd their mail by accident. They were saying thingz about me like nxt tym they see me they shud bring a toothpaste 4 me coz my breath smells...i felt really hurt coz i trstd them so much...wot du i do...help?????

Answer 1

are they your best friends?! or maybe you're just the one thinking that way!? you've been with them for 3 years and just that simple thing, they could not even tell you in a frank but nice manner! well, i guess you just have to wake up!!! be brave to confront them but be sure you have gargled enough! then walk away from them gracefully with your last words.. "no mouthwash could ever cure your BAD BREATH!"

Answer 2

I'd tell them to stop contorting themselves and come talk behind MY back.

Seriously though. I don't think there's a lot you can nor should do. You can confront them and that is probably a good thing to do, but you'd still have to explain what you were doing checking their mail, which is not a nice thing to do either. But I don't think they really meant anything by it. They probably should have told and you would have done something about it, but I guess they thought you'd feel insulted. If that's the most serious thing they said about you, I wouldn't worry. It doesn't mean they don't like you as a person or don't like to hang out with you. Sometimes little dislikes occur between people, maybe someone gets mad at you and they comment something to someone else, but then it blows over and you never know about it, nor did the person really mean what was said. That is why privacy is so important. Things are so easily taken out of context and misinterpreted. We say and do things for our own reasons. Not always the best or the nicest reasons, and we may later regret it. No one is perfect.

Try to find other criteria to help you judge whether or not they are true friends, before making a decision.

Answer 3

I had a problem like that. You said they were your 2 best Friends, but there really not Friends at all. If there talking about you behind you back and you think you can trust them with anything then they do this to you, that's wrong! you can get 10 different better, nicer people. So leave them and go find those ten other people. hope that helps :)

Answer 4

Girl stop calling them best Friends, they are not your Friends, friends help each other if you have a breath problem they should tell you in privacy and try to help you to prevented.

Answer 5

wel i have had 2 best friends and what i suggested you do is talk to 1 of them and say what you have to day then speak to the other one then go away and think about both stories then bring them together and tell them what you think and say if you cnt say it to my face dont say it at all.

Answer 6

dun fight talk 2 them nicely asking y they wan 2 do tat. if they do or say something mean, report 2 some1 u know u can trust like ur mom

Answer 7

not very good friends there! wow, and a tough one...u checked there mail, so how can you tell them what you know? you need to find a way to talk this out...no easy answer here though!

Answer 8

Quite pity of you.Talk to them nicely whether its jokes or serious.Ask them nicely.If they says its real,so ask other friends wherther they think that too.Just don't be too sad,ok?

Answer 9

Girls are mean. You can talk to them about it, but I'm betting you'll be looking for new friends anyway. Good Luck.

Answer 10

i in my view do no longer like it. I mean i exploit specific slang whilst i'm typing so it relatively is no longer slang which bothers me. yet it is somewhat like !??!!? it relatively is that somewhat extra extra stable to only form regular?