How can you tell when.....?

When you have this doubt is a good sign.

If you no longer love each other you will only end up more miserable in the end, by staying together. If you have tried all the avenues such as counciling, talking... and nothing has worked.

Depending on how long you have been married, if you have children, it can really take it's toll on them without you even knowing it! They see and understand more than we know, and if you are miserable...they are!

The one thing I have learned about love, is comfort, and if you are no longer comfortable in your relationship, it isn't worth the time to waste.

It's hard to tell anyone to end a relationship, but life goes on...a little hard at first, but it gets easier and can be better! Good Luck

2006-08-17 02:49:00 · answer #1 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋

people go into marriage with all the wrong expectations. They think it will be all bliss and wonderful, but any long term relationship takes work, dedication, understanding, and growth.
I do agree with the other posters, when you ask the question it is time to evaluate where you are at. An adult relationship is where two individuals get to be who they are and they agree to meet and share with each other. They appreciate each other for their respective views and are able to work together to achieve goals.

When this all goes away and you just feel stagnate or alone, look inside first because our happiness, etc. can only come from within. Good luck.

2006-08-17 02:51:42 · answer #2 · answered by b b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋

there is a feeling of wow win we fail in love .in every relationship the {in love } feeling comes and goes .never judge your relationship on the {in love}feelings .if married you have promised something big thur thick and thin.that feeling of {in love }is wonderful but it lessens while the relationship matures .i have 30years with the same woman i have not always felt {IN LOVE} but now i feel very loved .better to ask if you feel loved then to ask what to do if you dont love .

2006-08-17 02:55:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋

Since your husband already cheated you then you can imagine he having sex with the other lady, your negative thinking will automatically activate where yourself only have hate and not love or care.

2006-08-17 02:52:14 · answer #4 · answered by James Louis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋

You can still love some one but not be In love with them. If you have been togather and have shared a life you will always have feelings of love but it changes to more friendly type of love.

2006-08-17 02:45:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋

when his presence dont matter but bothers.

when he tries to help and suggestions are irritating.

when his presence is a burden to your privacy.

when you think back of the good times and dont treasure or looking forward for more.

when it feels good to be free and single again.

when curiousity creeps in to know other men and start to man watch.

when starting to accept friendship and hoping for passes

2006-08-17 13:06:35 · answer #6 · answered by superyoyogirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋

When you want to distance yourself, there is no talking and there are alot of petty arguements. These are all signs that something isnt right. If you suspect a problem ask your partner, honesty is the best way to go.

2006-08-17 02:43:43 · answer #7 · answered by arreis 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋

i wouldnt say they dont love or care...

it's just like, nothing else to talk about, and couldnt be bothered anymore

2006-08-17 13:15:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋

If when you get up in the morning and the only thing you think about is how fast you/ or him can get out of the house then the flame is gone sister.

2006-08-17 02:51:12 · answer #9 · answered by t31sfd 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋

you don't really want to be with them anymore. When you first started, you wanted to be with them all the time, now, you'd trade time for them in order to do something else.

2006-08-17 02:58:24 · answer #10 · answered by woodersondylan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋

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