okay my friend said that the only reason ALL guys date you is to get sex than when they get it they leave and move on. Is that true?
Cause iv always thought that all guys were different and some were like that than others wanted a real realtionship..
Than she also says You cant fall in love in highschool Its infatuation That you have to be over 20 to fall in love.
But i dont believe that either.
What are your thoughts???
2006-08-17 02:39:03 · 6 answers · asked by STFUbeezy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All guys are not out for sex, but it is important for a teenager to be informed and see things for what they are. People will lie to you all of your life. It's up to you to be smart and see them for who they really are. Ig a guy pressures you, all he wants is sex. If he's cool about it and doesn't bring it up, he may be ok, but even then he could be a user. Just be careful.
As for falling in love, teens may think they're in love, but most of the time, they are not. Until you are older, the love you may think you have is very superficial. Love is more than seeing each other every day in the hallway or between classes or at the game. Love is huge. It means so much. There are so many dimensions to it and being a teenager, you're simply too young to take it all in.
2006-08-17 02:54:34 · answer #1 · answered by Hpnotiq 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right about the guys, not all of them just want sex, before you start even thinking about sex with a guy get to know him, wait awhile, and you'll know. And yes you can fall in love in high school, its just different when you're older, im 31 and so in love with my husband more than i ever thought was possible, but when i was 16 i feel in love for the first time and years later i can think back and i know it was love just not like the one i have now.
2006-08-17 02:49:11 · answer #2 · answered by amylynn31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think theres a specific age that you have to be to fall in love but I think the older you are the more wise you are, and when in high school sometimes it's better to just date and not be so focused on just one person. And YES most men do just want S** and then leave u but there are some nice ones....very few and far between.
2006-08-17 02:45:29 · answer #3 · answered by BLoNdE22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't totally mature until about 24 but some get serious earlier on. All guys are almost always initially attracted to a woman's body obviously and some of these men are just out there for the sex but there are some guys depending on when they mature are ready for serious relationships earlier.
2006-08-17 02:49:17 · answer #4 · answered by The Master 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all guys want you for sex. those that want sex are not men, they are horny little boys.
as far as falling in love, that can happen when you are in high school or college. it doesn't say that you have to be in your 20s to fall in love. love has no age.
2006-08-17 02:45:58 · answer #5 · answered by babygirl31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its just depends on the guy
2006-08-17 02:55:24 · answer #6 · answered by T.S.R.I.P. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋