i want to move out of my house which is 15 min from my college and move 30 min away and pay $1500 a month for an apartment .........just because i cant deal with my parent anymore they nag and nag me so much sometimes i cant concentrate on doing my school work....my older sis moved out at 18 bc of the same reason......they make me too dependent on them.....they dont let me go out at the age of 19....my father still treats me like im 12.......my mother wants to buy me a car and father refuses so she hasnt gotten it..........not getting me the car they are making my daily activities dependent on waiting for them to use thier cars........i have a job during the summers but not during school because i mainly want to concentrate on my school work and not worry about my job taking up too much of my school time.........should i move out?..........what should i do in order to pay my large apartment bills? should i buy a car?.....how do i buy a car and not get sold a bogus car?..
2006-08-17 02:45:21 · 17 answers · asked by Pamela 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
no my parents are no paying for college i am taking loans out so i can pay for it after.....my mom said she would pay for my insurance just not for the car bc nj insurance is the most espensive the nation....the move is so i get a piece of mind....my parents are effecting me mentally and in turn its effecting every asspect of my life.....i am greatful and i do have the money to do what i want to do... the dorms about the same as the appartment by the end of the semester there is no price difference realy......its just i wanted to know if i should do it?
2006-08-17 04:55:30 · update #1
that is mentally unheathly for you and you need to get out of the situation
2006-08-17 02:56:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever thought of moving into the dorm? It would cost you a lot less then 1500 a month in rent which I am sure no college student wants to pay. (Unless you want to find 5 roommates to split the cost that is.) Once you move out you won't have time for yourself anyways because you will end up working two full time jobs to pay for your apartment on top of going to school. Social life? Not gonna happen. Think this through carefully before you decide. Also, looking for a cheaper place could help. Even if it isn't the nicest place you can find, right now your main concern should be your education. And that might mean moving out and working your butt off to do it. You aren't the only one in this situation trust me. It is hard work. If you want a free ride then you need to stay living with your parents and deal with it. I am a firm beleiver that as long as my kid lives under my roof my rules apply no matter what. I am sure your parents feel the same way. I still think moving on campus might help solve a lot of your issues, especially if you are getting enough grants, loans, whatever to pay for school. You do not want to be independant of your family? Then don't wait for them to get you a car, don't wait for them put you through school, etc. Get out there and do it on your own, show them and yourself you are quite capable of doing so.
2006-08-17 03:02:27 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So if you only work in the summer how are you going to buy a car ? Living on your own is more expensive than you realize. If your concerned with things getting in the way of school work then moving out is the last thing you should do. You will have to work full time and worry about ends meet. At your age your not going to get a very high paying job. Stay at home till your done with school.
2006-08-17 02:52:15 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A summer job is not going to pay the rent, car payment, and insurance during the winter months. Live at home and stay in school, or get a job and move out. Those are your choices. The real World may be a little hard for you to handle if you've been sheltered all of your life, so beware.
2006-08-17 02:55:17 · answer #4 · answered by Alan J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you only work during the summer, how will you be able to afford a car note or for that matter a 1500 dollar apartment rental. Get for real girl, deal with the nagging stay at home or you will find yourself in terrible debt.
Try to talk to your parents, if you take on more of an adult role maybe they will start treating you like one.
2006-08-17 03:17:32 · answer #5 · answered by Monie D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you make the payments on this apartment? $1500 is a big amount for a 19yr old who hasn't got a full time job. If you move out you won't be able to afford a car because of the rent payments ... if you stay at home, you probably could buy a car and then you could get out of the house more - even if it was just to drive to the mall or somewhere.
2006-08-17 03:06:58 · answer #6 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same situation that you're in. I'm 23 almost & I have no freedom. My family likes to demand an answer for my personal business, & they treat me very horrible, & ain't that much hate in this world! Many people advise me to move out. Try working for 6 mos. & then seeing if you can finance a car, or save like $3,000 for a used one. As long as the car gets u going, that's all that matters. Hell, I'll sell u my car! Payments are $170/month.
2006-08-17 02:53:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 09:04:32 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not sure how you think you could afford that kind of miney for an apartment my bestt advise would be to stick it out with your parents buy yourself a car and then you can have all the freedom you need you can study in the libraby and still beable to drive home at what ever time you like good luck
2006-08-18 10:07:51 · answer #9 · answered by carlandrover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a question for you.
Are your parents paying for you to go to college?
If so, then stay at home & be a little more grateful of the help they are giving you.
If not, then move out but be warned it is not all parties & barbecues with your mates. Reality bites the big one.
2006-08-17 03:36:00 · answer #10 · answered by monkeyface 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first is there someone you could share the expenses with and rent an apartment. buy your car from a good dealership but you don't want high payments or buy something you can pay cash for
2006-08-17 03:33:49 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋