My boyfriend hasn't talked to me for almost 5 days and i'm not going to dump him so don't even suggest that. What should I do? I'm not going to dump him because he loves me. Guys if you haven't talked to your girlfriend in days What does it mean?
2006-08-17 02:36:11 · 38 answers · asked by k-la 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all I didn't do anything and second of all i have been trying to contact him
2006-08-17 03:03:50 · update #1
HE DIDN'T DUMP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-17 03:06:28 · update #2
I know how you fell!!!!!!!!! how about you try calling him Thay all way don't have to call you,you can call them 2 you know!!!!!!!!!!!!GOOD LUCK
2006-08-17 02:41:23 · answer #1 · answered by I luv my BF! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I used to go threw this all the time with a boyfriend, sometimes we would not speak for up to two weeks at a time. I am assuming that the two of you got into an argument, so my advice is let him cool down for another day or so, and then see if he calls you which I am sure he will, if not then call him, if he doesn't answer then leave a message telling him you havn't heard from him and was wondering if everything is alright, and that you would like to speak to him. Don't listen to anyone saying the relationship is over and all that crap, because as I said I used to go threw the same thing, me and my boyfriend were both hot heads so instead of making up in a day or two like normal people it would take longer.
2006-08-17 02:44:30 · answer #2 · answered by Thandie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what did you do? did you guys have an arguement or something or did you forget you had date with him and went out with the girls instead? if nothing went down, and you didn't do anything wrong, he ignoring you for 5 days is unjust. he might need some time to hisself. then again, he might be playing you and disrespecting you. he thinks that you are a dumbie and you are going to stay around and let him run over you.
how did you meet? how long have you been dating? did he say i love you or you are just assuming that? you need to know before you say i'm not dumping him.
2006-08-17 02:44:40 · answer #3 · answered by Kokoa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie I know how frustrating this must be for you and I'm sorry. The best advice I can give is to tell you to wait it out. I know its hard being that its been 5 days already but I'm sure he has a good explanation. He may have had something bad happen and he just needs time to sort through it. Be patient and let him come to you. Good Luck.
2006-08-17 02:43:23 · answer #4 · answered by heatherlynnmorrow 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Five days is a long time not to speak to someone u love,think hes dumped u sweetie,move on
2006-08-17 02:48:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhhhh, u dont sound to smart babe. It means he doesnt wanna talk to u, and how much does he love u if he cant pick up the phone for 10 seconds and say "hi, are u still breathing, good, bye", he knows ur not going to dump him thats why he will continue to string u along
2006-08-17 02:41:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well . . .first of all. . . . you are a dumba$$! If this guy hasn't talked to you in five days then he really doesn't care about you at all. Also. . . he probably knows he owns you so he can do whatever he wants! What happened to your self pride girl? Are you addicted to his sausage and are afraid of getting no other sausage so you just let him do whatever he wants? You're gonna end up alone and raising three kids by yourself if you keep letting self centered dirt bag scumbucket guys control you!
2006-08-17 02:45:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I remember asking a similar qns. My guy hasn't even contacted me for half a month now. Have you tried contacting him on your part?
I did, but he never responded. Many out has advised me to move on, even though I have many unresolved doubts. I suggest you do the same as I did. Move on.
2006-08-17 02:46:30 · answer #8 · answered by gummy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait and see how long it will take him to contact you once again, but l suggest you dump him if he doesn't ring you in 3 days or maybe he is waiting for you to call him
2006-08-17 02:43:19 · answer #9 · answered by Lil mama 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you should dump him because if he really loved you he would keep in touch with you. That shows he cares when he calls you but I think hes slowly pulling away from you.Good Luck
2006-08-17 02:46:43 · answer #10 · answered by Stephanie . 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is a new pattern something is defintely wrong.....often girls can tell guys its over, but we guys have a harder time with it. If he was contacting you often before and isn't now it's a pretty good message that he doesn't what to contact you anymore (for whatever reason) or has found something or someone to occupy his time now.
2006-08-17 02:43:14 · answer #11 · answered by nightcricket 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋