Family & Relationships - 17 August 2006

I started divorce poceedings when he told me he was seeing someone else because I thought that was the only way, but I miss him and love him. My familylife is falling apart without the stability of our relationship, and our children are suffering. I want him back.

2006-08-17 06:38:26 · 22 answers · asked by trixiepipworth 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just started to talk to this guy online.. He is really cute and so far seems really sweet. Thing is I get quiet when it come to letting my heart care about someone. What questions should I ask so I can get to know him better? How do I let go of the fear of getting hurt?

2006-08-17 06:35:56 · 24 answers · asked by movu101779 3 in Singles & Dating

Answer if u are a lesbian or bisexual woman!!!

2006-08-17 06:35:37 · 27 answers · asked by Dirty Lesbians 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-17 06:35:35 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-17 06:34:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Just wondering if it is such a bad thing to meet a guy/girl off the internet? i mean i hear of people meeting guys/girls all the time. I just want to be safe if i choose to meet someone off the net?

2006-08-17 06:34:19 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-17 06:34:16 · 3 answers · asked by ThatGuy1912 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-17 06:33:55 · 8 answers · asked by e_fraikue 1 in Singles & Dating

When I say true love, I mean love beyond race, looks, class, etc. I mean love that happens only once in the lifetime, oh yes, I am talking about soulmates;destined love.

2006-08-17 06:33:25 · 6 answers · asked by LLLL O 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-17 06:33:06 · 6 answers · asked by smashing 1 in Singles & Dating

hey there is this girl that asked me out and i said yes so i wouldnt hurt her feelings and i dont like her that much and i was wondering how i could break up with her without hurting her feelings ?

2006-08-17 06:32:56 · 10 answers · asked by jacoby 2 in Friends

2006-08-17 06:32:34 · 13 answers · asked by Dirty Lesbians 1 in Singles & Dating

My Bofriend of 9 months just up a dumped me with no waring after my Birthday. Saying that he couldn't be my boyfriend and get his life together. This was the man I had intended to marry . How do I get over it I feel like I have no more options and I will never get married now.

2006-08-17 06:32:25 · 6 answers · asked by nimirakat 1 in Singles & Dating

once again i am back to talk about my loser as$ boyfriend. im not sure what to do...he wont get a job, we have officially stopped having sex, i believe he is still lying to me, and having said this--he is a loser. he is stubborn and really has nothing to look forward to in life. after almost 2 years he still keeps secrets from me lies to me and treats me like a step child. and then when he wants some p*ssy or he needs help help with his "i ****** up myself and somebody has to fix it" life fakes being the best guy in the world...i am waaaaaaaaaay too young for this i am only 19 and so is he. does he have a mental problem or what??? i STILL after all this time do the things for this relationship i have to do and even he can't say i dont. what is the problem. i was fine with him and one day he woke up being a prick about his entire life. a loser basically. we have broken up before and dont live together. no kids either. how can i leave him??? im too tired of his $hit???

2006-08-17 06:31:41 · 36 answers · asked by danielle 3 in Singles & Dating

First let me say I am a Christian--I don't object to other people lifestyle chioces--but I do take issue with my husband doing things that I thought we both agreed were aginst our beliefs.I believe my husband has an addiction to pornography. Is it just 'man-like' to not be able to resist porn? Please don't respond with " as long as he's not cheating what does it hurt?"/use it for better sex"..etc etc I thought I had married someone who believed as I did that porn has no place in a loving marriage--unless both people are ok with it. I have nothing against porn or people who choose to look at it--but its not for me--and It makes me feel absolutely heartbroken when I find out that my husband has been looking at/downloading dozens of clips/movies. I am serious, i am heartbroken. we have three kids--two girls and a boy,I worry that my son will grow up to be like him and that my girls will somehow be affected. Please help me--I want a better marriage.

2006-08-17 06:31:09 · 23 answers · asked by sosadgirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My sister has been married rot he same guy for 17 years and she has been having problem in the marriage. One question popped up that I had no clue as to how to answer. He never has slept a whole night with her in thier bed, preferring the tv and the couch to her and intimacy. He is a healty man, no problems. So is this normal for some guys to just not want this? It started on thier honeymoon. Help!

2006-08-17 06:29:58 · 19 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and i have great sex but we alwats start off real cheesy. Like we'd be sitten there and he'll ask me if i wanna have sex. Then we from there we just take turns lol. Its so boring sometimes. Can someone please help me with details how to start off sex more sexier. Please Help!

2006-08-17 06:29:55 · 28 answers · asked by simplegirl1659 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-17 06:29:53 · 15 answers · asked by Fahim . 3 in Singles & Dating

and she really notice me and I shouldn't do any bad or stupid stuff because she's a christian

2006-08-17 06:29:51 · 8 answers · asked by ronmilconl@sbcglobal.net 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-17 06:29:46 · 4 answers · asked by Rodney232 1 in Weddings

2006-08-17 06:29:05 · 12 answers · asked by Jan 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-17 06:28:48 · 15 answers · asked by Bob T 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-17 06:28:44 · 28 answers · asked by sweetdiamonds18 2 in Weddings

Oh how we mess up our lives............................

1. We have stupid attachment to a man. We look to the context of a man to define who we are.

2. We have a stupid courtship. We are so desperate to have a man we become a begger not a chooser, in the dating game.

3. We have a stupid devotion. "But I love him." We find ourselves driven to love and suffer in vein.

4. We have a stupid passion. "Ohhh Ahhh" We're breathing hard it must mean love. We have sex to soon, too romantically, and we get burned.

5. We have the stupid cohabitation. This is the Ultimate female delusion. So let's stop lying to ourselves. We don't live with them because we love them. We are living with them because we hope they will want us.

6. We have the stupid expectations. First we commit to him and then we hate the guy. We use marriage as a quick fix for low or no self esteem.

7. We might even have a stupid conception. We make babies for the worst reasons. Misguidingly use a baby as a jump start for love, personal growth, commitment. (girls this one never works. If we have to trap a man then he ain't worth keeping)

8. They have a stupid control over us. Letting a man hurt our babies. We and our children are held hostage to our own obsessive need for security and attachment.

9. We have a stupid helplessness. We always wine and whimper when we get angry. We are too insecure to speak up and deal with rage that we turn it into whimpishness.

10. We always have stupid forgiving. I know he is a cheater, addicted, controlling, insensitive, and violent but hey other than that..... We never know when to break off a no-win relationship, or how not to get involved in the first damn place.

2006-08-17 06:28:27 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-17 06:28:21 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

with their spouses/lovers is honestly and truly like?

2006-08-17 06:27:47 · 8 answers · asked by bigred 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-17 06:27:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met a military guy online, most of the times he is very very nice (kind of guys u forgot they would still exist) but since a few days he is weird. For exemple he disappaers without saying a word. I don't know how to behave.

2006-08-17 06:26:38 · 20 answers · asked by gigi w 1 in Singles & Dating

Believes in "true friendship" I know I do..Its hard nowadays to find someone who will not be jealous, or disloyal. Everyone has their own meaning of the word..I know what my definition is and its "someone who will be there for me throughout trials and tribulations, someone who is caring, understanding, helpful and considerate...I know one-day God will bless me with the type of friend that I am longing for! Is there anyone out there who is longing for the same?

2006-08-17 06:25:29 · 9 answers · asked by lrmakeithappen 1 in Friends

Why do girls get upset when a friend who really liked them ask them out or reviels feelings just after she broke up with the boyfriend who was in the way...

Pretty much as want to try and get with her before someone else does?


Seeing as girls have it so easy and get so many offers?

What are you supposed to do... Sit there and wait for her to get with someone else?

2006-08-17 06:24:50 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating