I met a military guy online, most of the times he is very very nice (kind of guys u forgot they would still exist) but since a few days he is weird. For exemple he disappaers without saying a word. I don't know how to behave.
2006-08-17 06:26:38 · 20 answers · asked by gigi w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Military guys are just like everybody else on dating, get to know the guy more, there are some bad guys and there are the good ones.
2006-08-17 06:32:24 · answer #1 · answered by Jahrel J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, no they aren't. Not usually. I live in a Military town in CA and the Navy guys here as well as some marines and army guys are just in it for the sex. In the past four years three girls have gotten pregnant because these guys "loved them" on a first date so much that they slept with them and then dumped them. None of those babies have fathers. Some military guys ARE trustful, however. My dad is in the navy, my grandfather was in the coast guard, my uncle was in the coast guard. So I've grown up around these military guys since I was two months old. They know who my dad is and they know not to mess with me but that doesn't stop some moronic guys from trying. They try to impress you with their rank and title but I know that an AE is basically the bottom and an AT3 has a LONG way to go to be worth anything. Just watch out. Don't be impressed by the stupid things like title and rank. They usually don't mean anything. And if its some 22 year old saying that he's a Senior Cheif, dont' believe him because he's lying. If he's a pilot, ask him how much the fuel weighs. If he gives you an answer in pounds, he's wrong. Some are okay. But this guy you've described seems kind of flakey.
2006-08-17 06:37:47 · answer #2 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, most of them aren't very trustful. While my husband and I were dating, he did me wrong over and over agian, he;s in teh Marines. Alot of military guys put their pics up on dating sites and stuff, but really have girls. They spend most of their time at bars, strip clubs, pool halls, and things like that. Usually lookin for girls. If you go to a military town, you'll see that the town is over populated with those kind of places. Most military guys I know aren't very nice. I don't know how many of my husbands friends have tried hitin on me. Some of them can be descent I guess. Not everyone is a bad apple. But it's hard to have a relationship with someone in the military. They come across nice, but they have a whole nother side. Like I said, my husband and I had and still have problems. We were maried 6 moths and I found that he had his pic up on a dating site. I love my husband but we do have a lot of trust issues. We have alot of problems. Just don't fall to fast, sometimes things aren't what they seem.
2006-08-17 06:39:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are usually very respectful, I have found, but they have been conditioned in a way that we can't really comprehend, and they pull back emotionally a lot. They can be very tactical (my partner was a marine, lol), and do things like change the subject when you ask a question, hide their feelings, but I wouldn't take it personally. Who knows why it is he's disappearing; it could be work-related....but, remember IF you only know him online...a lot of deceit can be hidden in online "relationships". You need to meet him in person and spend time together to build a REAL relationship and trust.
2006-08-17 06:33:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a very big assumption ... military guys are military guys ... and before they were in the military ... they were just plan old horny young boys ... I wouldn't say they're all trustful ... people are people .. and they have their own morals and own beliefs .. joining the military doesn't change that ... so I wouldn't trust every guy you meet in the military .. just trust them with your freedom for your country and judge every man individually ... !
2006-08-17 06:34:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 09:13:10 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that the majority of military guys are not trustworthy, especially enlisted. But then again, I'm ex-military and I consider myself very trustworthy.
2006-08-17 06:32:20 · answer #7 · answered by Ken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't trust anyone online anyway. I lied about all kinds of stuff on here. and when I was in the Army (true), women had no faces. just one after another.
2006-08-17 06:34:51 · answer #8 · answered by repentant sinner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for one thing it's online i would not trust anyone online even if i did feel they were the nices person around for all u know he could be married and don't say no because u never know i am married and i know my hubby lies and says hes not married just to talk with girls
hope this helpes u
2006-08-17 06:33:25 · answer #9 · answered by vampgirl_00 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a military guy , you cant trust us we will say anything while deployed half away around the world away from everybody we know
2006-08-17 06:32:21 · answer #10 · answered by rsheets24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋